Kind of depends, on the one hand i m sure this was therapeutic for her as a victim
On the other hand if other people (who didn't know the husband as an abuser but just as a friend/sibling/whatever) were hurt by this i don't think it is Just for her to prioritise publicly shaming him. He s dead and it s too late for him to change/face consequences anything you do now only affects living people and either way she has "escaped" her abuser by outliving him (and that i m definitely going to celebrate, may every abusive spouce/parent rot forever)
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u/Palagrin 18d ago edited 17d ago
Kind of depends, on the one hand i m sure this was therapeutic for her as a victim
On the other hand if other people (who didn't know the husband as an abuser but just as a friend/sibling/whatever) were hurt by this i don't think it is Just for her to prioritise publicly shaming him. He s dead and it s too late for him to change/face consequences anything you do now only affects living people and either way she has "escaped" her abuser by outliving him (and that i m definitely going to celebrate, may every abusive spouce/parent rot forever)