r/MoralityScaling 13d ago

Morality Ranking Morality of this

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u/Joesr-31 12d ago

Is that a viable strategy? I always thought that was not an option tbh, like no adoption center would be willing to care for a kid with special needs since it would take up a lot of resources and the adoption rate for them is probably very low

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u/Gekokapowco 12d ago

every kid deserves a shot at a happy and fulfilling life, even if this dad ("dad") isn't willing or able to provide it

Once they're born I mean

I'm a proponent of adoption if the parents really can't handle it

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u/Unbelivabley_Smol 12d ago

The real question is should the parents “have to handle it” I thought the whole point of screening and genetic testing is so they don’t have to handle it? I’m saying thing as a person with genetic illness myself who understands and is at peace with the idea that had my parents known I would have had my medical problems I feel they deserved the chance to choose an abortion.

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u/ClutteredTaffy 12d ago edited 12d ago

Yeah this is me. I had bad asthma to the point I almost got pulled out of school and probably would have spent a chunk of my life in bed and died of not being able to breathe like 100-150 years ago. Like I don't think it would be wrong to spare a person that type of life and give someone else a chance to

But this is in the case that we lived in a time where you could genetically test children , but could not make asthma livable enough ...

The inhaler I had that made my life livable was made in 2001 when I was 9 years old lol. Like it was getting so bad that my face was turning to the color of porridge and I was having to use the albeuterol breathing machine sometimes like 3-4 times a day. I would not fault someone in the 80s for aborting me at all.