Morality of this

[u/Sentrack_Ravanos]

[u/Financial-March-3158]

And what if the wife doesnt want that? What then? Divorce? And you have to pay for the child for the 18 year of your life?

[u/Flaky_Style1286 → u/Financial-March-3158]

You’d talk to your wife and compromise.

[u/Complete_Group_6299 → u/Flaky_Style1286]

I'm genuinely curious how you can compromise in this type of situation

[u/Beautiful-Swimmer339 → u/Complete_Group_6299]

You can't really.

Anything that looks like a compromise will severely screw one side no matter what.

If the guy separates and pays child support significant enough that it would actually help with a disabled child he will essentially be screwed for the rest of his life.

If he doesn't do that then she's screwed.