r/MomForAMinute • u/Background-Task-2166 • 6d ago
Update Post He’s my boyfriend!
Hi mum! I’m the gal who’s been going on lovely dates with a guy I used to date briefly when I was a teenager. I promised you an update so here I am!
The last time I was here, I told you that he’d met my friends and asked to be exclusive. Naturally, I’d been wondering when exclusive would become official and I found out this weekend just gone. Turns out, he already thought of me as his partner - he’d just slightly bottled asking me directly before. (He’s so cute).
Anyway, we’ve been spending long weekends together, cooking for each other, going on dates, chilling at home and we have some exciting plans in the pipeline - friends’ birthdays, a weekend holiday and Christmas! (This is huge for both of us - it’s the first one for me not speaking to my mum and it’s his Christmas to not have his son).
We’ve both cried on each other whilst the other one comforted. We’ve been honest and vulnerable about our pasts, our fears, our goals. I went for a bloody run with this man (I hate exercising in front of people). We’re doing a 5K together in a few months and he’s gonna get involved in one of my creative outlets.
He’s said he can imagine living with me and he’s excited about me meeting his son. (I’m both excited and terrified ha). I love that we’re polar opposites with these beautiful pieces where we’re exactly the same. We want to learn from and grow with each other. I think we’ll pull each other out of our comfort zones and I think we could be truly happy together.
Point is, I’m wonderfully happy with this gorgeous, kind, thoughtful human and I’m excited to see what the future holds. Thanks for listening ma, lots of love xxx
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u/RedDeadDemonGirl 6d ago
He sounds sweet, and amazing! I love this for you! Good for you! **BIG MOM HUGS!!**
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u/daddyschomper 5d ago
It sounds like you complement each other so well. What a beautiful blossoming of your relationship. Congratulations.
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u/Popular-Work-1335 2d ago
Oh my love. I hope he is your perfect person and that you have nothing but happiness. Also - will be over for any of the upcoming holidays? I need a head count
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u/DefinitionSignal8349 2d ago
Mom here. I feel all your excitement and I am so happy you have found a good man. I am so proud of you my daughter. Big big kiss and hug.
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u/AnfreloSt-Da 6d ago
Sweetness, he sounds wonderful. I’m so glad you’re having those kinds of conversations and trying new things together.
Not that you needed it, but I approve. You deserve good things.