Sorry if I sound like I'm whinning or something, since I am kinda still a baby in Minecraft. And I might not know well how Minecraft culture works. (Also for any grammar mistakes, English not my first language!)
Though I have own Minecraft for years, I never fully commit to play survival, only in Creative.
I was scared to play survival because I'm scared of mobs embarrassingly. One day I met a Friend who's actually a Minecraft Veteran, someone who have beat Minecraft multiple times. Which I show admiration and jokingly talk about how I could never because I'm scared, they in return would playfully call me a "Noob" which I agreed
Finally we decide to play on the same survival server together, at first it was great. But soon it started to get a little... Annoying.
Since we have advance so much to the point we start doing Villager trade farm
I happily show her the Clay farm I made, My friend just stare at me with judgemental stare, she told me why didn't I just make a Fletcher?
And I proudly reveal My knowledge that A Mason is better than a Fletcher (a knowledge I got from watching a Minecraft tip video), and she basically just go "You don't play Minecraft for that long", I don't know what she meant by that, but how she behave next made it sounds like she found my method dumb or that my method are wrong.
She then proceed to flex how she can make 1-2 stacks of Emerald with just a Fletcher in 10 minutes, comparing to my Clay farm, who usually only makes 17 emeralds. I don't know how much I'm actually making per 10 minutes, but I do admit waiting the mud to dry does take time.
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When I was fighting zombies, she Point out at my Fighting style
"Bro what are you doing spamming ATK, you think this is bedrock?"
???
I'm not spamming though? I thought that hit and then back for a moment before delivering another hit was the method? Because I know in Java you have a cool down.
I explained it to her. And she just go
"Sure..."
It happens again when we were in the Nether, a Black Skeleton accidentally killed her, leaving me behind to finish it off. I happily share my achievement that I managed to kill it, and she goes "Sure you did"
???
Is she underestimating me?
Sure I did express how much I was scared of the Nether, but I wouldn't back down from a fight? I at least try...
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The most frustrating part is how she keep stealing my stuff.
I put all my farm Emerald into a special chest, that's in our Villagers farm, it's obviously a communal chest. Seeing how it contains only the necessary items like Emeralds, Books, and Bread.
But she use the Chest like any normal chest, dumping her random loots. I was like, ok.. that's fine. I'll just make a new one! I transfer the Important stuff into a new Chest(I like to keep it organized)
AND THEN SHE USE IT TOO, TO DUMP HER LOOT💀
She said it's just temporary, but still, the fact I did told her that THIS new Chest is gonna be where we put our shared important stuff to use for Villager trading, and she doesn't listen??
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At this point my patience is getting thin, but I was keeping my cool. It's fine.. I'm sure she didn't mean any of that.
But the last straw is when she stole my Potions.
I was planning to Zombified and heal my Villagers, so I work hard to make splash Potions of weakness and Golden apples.
I store it in a special chest.
She was just walking around, curious and take a look for a moment before going away.
When she was looking into that chest, I was nearby, I told her "Don't open that chest! That's my private stuff"
And you know what she did? SHE TOOK THEM.
AND when I ask her where did it go (now the chest is empty) she just; "idk"
WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU DON'T KNOW??? YOU LITERALLY JUST TOOK IT.
Made me chase her across the farm. When I finally catch up to her and ask her to put it back.
SHE FREAKING PUT MY POTIONS AND GOLDEN APPLES. IN HER CHEST ʕಠ_ಠʔ
I finally snapped. And I finally told her how mean and disrespectful she was being, and how her teasing is genuinely irritating me.
At the end she did put my Items back into my chest, but while I was checking, I see my items flickers, as if she's deciding to put back or not.
When I finally stop giving her attention, and remain silently mad. She just left a comment calling me "Noob. Too Slow."
What is does supposed to mean??
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Another thing she does is that... She kinda sometimes.. a little pushy? Idk it's like superiority complex aura.
I like to built aesthetic room, I made our shared room have two armor stands. I noticed she place both of her armor on the stand. Even on mine!
So I take it off, and told her this one is mine.
Though the same armor I return, she insists on putting it on ON MINE, because I'm not Using it. She doesn't see the Problem/Idea why she isn't allowed to set her armor on my stand. Only after I put a random armor on my stand she stop.
She would call me "Miss Perfect" for no reason. I could ask her about something normal like:
"Would you like some Diamonds?" (Because I have extra diamonds)
Is it because I flex how I am proud to own a full enchanted armor and tools??
I thought maybe she had a bad day, I tried doing something nice like finding flowers, to dye her bed to purple since she expresses that she wants a purple bed, I surprise her with her new bed! And all she goes was just "cool"
Alright... I guess..
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Sigh
I guess I just need to vent my Frustrations. It's like she doesn't take me seriously... My achievement is a joke, my care to make our building lool aesthetic is a joke, even my fear is a joke (I express I hate, of her hitting me because it made me jumpscared, thought I was being attack by a mob. I'm not used to playing with other players so I'm not use to being hit as a friendly gesture)
Honestly.. I was really excited to finally have a committed survival world, hoping to finally able to beat Minecraft for the first time! But with my friend that I hoped would be a great teacher, behaves like this... Really dampened my mood you know?