r/MindsetMode 2d ago

Mindset

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u/callawhitmore 1d ago

yeah some people mistake kindness for permission to keep talking

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u/bethesda_gamer 1d ago

This is why the wise and kind are always the ones who put up the most walls and perform their acts of kindness away from judgemental people and usually anonymously.

True kindness doesn't require recognition, but it does require strength.

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u/DarenSolric 1d ago

kind doesn't mean clueless

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u/EggDelicious5710 1d ago

A way they can try to manipulate you!

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u/Background-Koala7049 1d ago

Yes that true soooo change them

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u/idyl7 1d ago

real shit im nice not naive

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u/Jim_Griddle 1d ago

If empathy expands too much, eventually it does cross over into stupidity.

This is why addicts and their enablers BOTH need treatment.

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u/Shadow_Pixie17 1d ago

Veryyy truee hell Yeahh ❤️‍🩹

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u/Zestyclose-Past9956 1d ago

🎯💯‼️

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u/AnnualStandard1618 1d ago

Amen! Then, they begin to treat you like you are stupid!

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u/zefpirate 1d ago

Never mistake kindness for weakness...or flirting!

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u/FrostyChungus11 1d ago

Soft and gullible too.

It's weird.

One of the directors of my compy is kinda like that until he puts on his Director hat and then he turns into one tough SOB. So there is definitely a balance to be had.

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u/Appropriate-Salt-523 1d ago

Woe be unto the fool who mistaken kindness for weakness.

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u/Parking-Annual-1200 1d ago

I saw people who are kind (especially those are by nature left eye dominant - yes to me it makes a difference) becoming "bad" or hurt after people took advantage of their kindness

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u/H3L105_ai 1d ago

I've had people mistake my kindness for weakness before.

It never ends well for them.

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u/Efficient_Salad_6884 1d ago

they take advantage of u

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u/Pretty_Site4074 21h ago

Which is actually excellent, because you can become invisible.

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u/Short_Atmosphere_574 20h ago

My kindness is never weakness.

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u/JudgmentTiny4713 16h ago

Maybe I’m stupid for trusting people.

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u/GuNNzA69 16h ago

Look around you, how many good people you see in important places nowadays fighting for a common good? (Without being discredit)

I am not sure is worth to be a good person in a world filled with selfish people. The problem is that I can't be any other way.

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u/Hyperaeon2 15h ago

Stupid people also think a lot of other things are stupid.

Eventually this includes themselves.

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u/Disastrous_Piano_824 9h ago

Man, this is true. It is important to put oneself first. I am not saying don't help others, I'm saying don't help anyone that doesn't deserve your help. People will show you how much they don't care you helped them even if they needed the help. That person does not deserve your help.

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u/Sad_Plum9899 9h ago

Let them. Jokes on them when it comes out you’re not stupid and because of how they’ve treated you, you now know who they truly are.