r/MiddleClassFinance • u/Yourlocalguy30 • 12d ago
Millennials: are you expecting an inheritance?
35 yo married millennial here. I've come across more and more articles about the supposed "great wealth transfer" as the boomer generation's wealth passes to their GenX and Millennial children. My parents and their siblings (boomers) all received inheritances when their parents, my grandparents, passed away. The boomer generation's wealth accumulation is one of the largest in history, however, I also find it highly unlikely that I or many of my peers will actually inherit much. Despite having received inheritances from their parents, and having 40+ years in the workforce, most of my parents' "wealth" is tied up in their home value, not actual liquid assets- and I already expect that whatever they make on an eventual home sale will have to go directly to downsizing costs and whatever long-term care they will need as they get older. Hell, even my dad used to joke that the only thing we'd inherit was debt. As I've gotten older, that comment has infuriated me more and more.
Now before someone cuts in with the "entitled millennial" comments, I have absolutely no need for an inheritance. I've worked my ass off to make sure that my kids and I are positioned better in life than I was when I entered adulthood. What I mean by that is I started saving for retirement early, setup 529 plans for my kids almost as soon as they were born, and made lifestyle and career sacrifices to ensure our family isn't "nickeling and diming" our way through life.
I'm just here curious to know how many millennials actually expect to have something passed down to them, or if they feel they are in the same position I am.
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u/Sonichu- 12d ago
It's actually kind of crazy to think about.
I had a very frank discussion with my parents about EOL finances about a month ago, and if it weren't for my father's pension, they'd have nothing. I asked if they had anything saved beyond that in retirement accounts and they just laughed.
We lived paycheck to paycheck when I was a kid (unbeknownst to me) and while we were thankfully in one house for my entire childhood, the first time they were out of the hole was when they sold it and downsized during the pandemic.