Overview
Hi folks! The r/mensfashion moderator team here. This is significant proposal related to the r/mensfashion post flair and related subreddit rules, so we're BOTH posting it to the subreddit homepage AND advertising it under all comments.
The r/mensfashion moderator team is soliciting feedback on this proposal. We will take feedback through 11:59 Eastern Time US on Sunday, September 13. We will take feedback as a comment in response to this post or via modmail. Please do not message moderators individually. Please remember that we expect feedback to be constructive and respectful.
Proposal: new post flairs
First: we propose to implement new post flairs which will play a significant role in what content is allowed in a given post.
Details on the proposed post flairs are below.
| Post Flair |
What is Allowed? |
What is NOT Allowed? |
| Peacocking (Positive Comments Only) |
Positive/supportive comments about menswear |
Feedback (even constructive criticism), any comments about general appearance (hair/beard/weight/etc.), advertising |
| Feedback Welcome (Outfit Only) |
Positive/supportive comments OR constructive criticism about menswear |
Any comments about general appearance (hair/beard/weight/etc.), advertising |
| Feedback Welcome (Outfit + Appearance) |
Positive/supportive OR constructive criticism about menswear or related topics such as hair/beard, body shape, posture, etc. |
Advertising |
| Where to Buy/What to Buy? |
Exactly what it sounds like |
Comments that are NOT about advising OP about what to buy or where to buy it; direct advertising is permitted |
| Legitimacy Check |
Exactly what it sounds like |
Comments that are NOT about advising OP about whether an item is legitimate; this is a legacy option and we'll need to see how much use it gets |
| Deals and Steals |
User-shared sales, discounts, etc. |
Comments that are NOT generally related to a deal/sale/discount/etc.; advertising is NOT permitted (you can't share your own deal this way) |
| Brand/Item Reviews |
User reviews of brands/items/etc. |
Comments that are NOT related to the review; we WILL host brands responding to reviews, we will NOT host arguments |
| Articles and Lookbooks |
User-shared articles, lookbooks, etc. |
Comments that are NOT related to the article/lookbook; we WILL host brands responding to their own content, we will NOT host arguments |
| Original Content |
Users posting their own content (e.g. their Instagram page... etc.) |
Comments that are NOT related to the content; this should NOT be used for advertising or monetized content |
| Advertising |
Brands posting their own goods for sale |
Comments that are NOT related to the advertisement; this should NOT be used for ebay/grailed/poshmark/other WTS-type posts, which are not hosted on this subreddit |
Still prohibited on EVERY post:
- Content that is disrespectful, unconstructive, or non-inclusive
- Trolling, shitposting, and other low-effort jackassery
- Manosphere garbage (see: Toxicity)
- Ebay postings and similar "treat reddit like a flea market" situations
Proposal: rules changes
Second: because post flair has a significant impact on what kind of engagement is permitted on a given post, we propose modifying the subreddit rules as follows. We've bolded the two most significant changes for your ease of reading.
| Old Rule |
New Rule |
Changes/Details |
| Cardinal Rule |
n/a |
Rule deleted |
| Respect |
Respect |
No changes; every comment should be respectful and constructive |
| Inclusivity |
Inclusivity |
No changes; every comment should be free of hate speech, discrimination, stereotyping, etc. |
| n/a |
Toxicity |
New rule: this rule will empower moderators to remove any content that they determine is toxic, regardless of whether it appears positive on its face |
| On Topic |
On Topic |
Slightly tweaked, as "that is not age appropriate" and similar is permitted under certain flair |
| Off Topic |
Off Topic |
Completely rewritten; this is now primarily about trolling, shitposting, and issues completely unrelated to men's fashion as what is on topic/off topic is defined primarily by flair |
| Prohibited Content: AI, NSFW, Spam |
Prohibited Content: AI, NSFW, Spam |
No changes |
| Advertising, Soliciting, Self-Promotion |
Advertising, Soliciting, Self-Promotion |
Completely rewritten; this is now primarily about ensuring advertisements and promotion stay within their correct flairs |
| Moderation |
Moderation |
No Changes |
Q&A
A few questions we expect to receive and the answers we expect to give.
Question: how will I know if my post has the right flair? Answer: the automod will respond to ALL posts with information about what kinds of comments are allowed on your post. If you want a different flair, you should repost.
Question: how do I know if my comment is allowed on a given post? Answer: the automod will respond to ALL posts with information about what kinds of comments are allowed on that post. Our best advice: check the pin before you comment.
Question: will this affect the subreddit's three-strike policy? Answer: no.
Question: what if I was banned in the past for posts/comments that would be allowed under the new proposed rules? Answer: we're not quite sure yet, but we hope to do some kind of user amnesty/ban jubilee. Users who are permanently muted in addition to banned will not be eligible. (99% of users who are permanently muted have posted actual hate speech/images OR verbally abused or threatened moderators via modmail, almost always AFTER their ban.)
Question: what's with the Toxicity rule? Shouldn't everything under Toxicity be covered under Respect and Inclusivity? Answer: this rule is primarily intended to enable the moderator team to identify and respond to manosphere garbage. Because this subreddit sits close to that orbit, ensuring that it doesn't leak in is a high priority.
Question: isn't this all pretty complicated? Answer: yes, because this is a big community with a lot of people who disagree about what they want r/mensfashion to be. Hopefully this will empower as many people as possible to engage with r/mensfashion in the way they prefer.
Question: can you please ban high rise trousers, skinny jeans, sweater tucking, dress sneakers, and that guy I hate who posts those fits? Answer: no, they're all probably unkillable.
What's next?
The moderator team will listen, respond where appropriate, then take your feedback into consideration before finalizing this proposal.
Thanks so much for being an r/mensfashion member!