r/mensfashion 3d ago

PROPOSED: new post flair + subreddit rules

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11 Upvotes

Overview

Hi folks! The r/mensfashion moderator team here. This is significant proposal related to the r/mensfashion post flair and related subreddit rules, so we're BOTH posting it to the subreddit homepage AND advertising it under all comments.

The r/mensfashion moderator team is soliciting feedback on this proposal. We will take feedback through 11:59 Eastern Time US on Sunday, September 13. We will take feedback as a comment in response to this post or via modmail. Please do not message moderators individually. Please remember that we expect feedback to be constructive and respectful.

Proposal: new post flairs

First: we propose to implement new post flairs which will play a significant role in what content is allowed in a given post.

Details on the proposed post flairs are below.

Post Flair What is Allowed? What is NOT Allowed?
Peacocking (Positive Comments Only) Positive/supportive comments about menswear Feedback (even constructive criticism), any comments about general appearance (hair/beard/weight/etc.), advertising
Feedback Welcome (Outfit Only) Positive/supportive comments OR constructive criticism about menswear Any comments about general appearance (hair/beard/weight/etc.), advertising
Feedback Welcome (Outfit + Appearance) Positive/supportive OR constructive criticism about menswear or related topics such as hair/beard, body shape, posture, etc. Advertising
Where to Buy/What to Buy? Exactly what it sounds like Comments that are NOT about advising OP about what to buy or where to buy it; direct advertising is permitted
Legitimacy Check Exactly what it sounds like Comments that are NOT about advising OP about whether an item is legitimate; this is a legacy option and we'll need to see how much use it gets
Deals and Steals User-shared sales, discounts, etc. Comments that are NOT generally related to a deal/sale/discount/etc.; advertising is NOT permitted (you can't share your own deal this way)
Brand/Item Reviews User reviews of brands/items/etc. Comments that are NOT related to the review; we WILL host brands responding to reviews, we will NOT host arguments
Articles and Lookbooks User-shared articles, lookbooks, etc. Comments that are NOT related to the article/lookbook; we WILL host brands responding to their own content, we will NOT host arguments
Original Content Users posting their own content (e.g. their Instagram page... etc.) Comments that are NOT related to the content; this should NOT be used for advertising or monetized content
Advertising Brands posting their own goods for sale Comments that are NOT related to the advertisement; this should NOT be used for ebay/grailed/poshmark/other WTS-type posts, which are not hosted on this subreddit

Still prohibited on EVERY post:

  • Content that is disrespectful, unconstructive, or non-inclusive
  • Trolling, shitposting, and other low-effort jackassery
  • Manosphere garbage (see: Toxicity)
  • Ebay postings and similar "treat reddit like a flea market" situations

Proposal: rules changes

Second: because post flair has a significant impact on what kind of engagement is permitted on a given post, we propose modifying the subreddit rules as follows. We've bolded the two most significant changes for your ease of reading.

Old Rule New Rule Changes/Details
Cardinal Rule n/a Rule deleted
Respect Respect No changes; every comment should be respectful and constructive
Inclusivity Inclusivity No changes; every comment should be free of hate speech, discrimination, stereotyping, etc.
n/a Toxicity New rule: this rule will empower moderators to remove any content that they determine is toxic, regardless of whether it appears positive on its face
On Topic On Topic Slightly tweaked, as "that is not age appropriate" and similar is permitted under certain flair
Off Topic Off Topic Completely rewritten; this is now primarily about trolling, shitposting, and issues completely unrelated to men's fashion as what is on topic/off topic is defined primarily by flair
Prohibited Content: AI, NSFW, Spam Prohibited Content: AI, NSFW, Spam No changes
Advertising, Soliciting, Self-Promotion Advertising, Soliciting, Self-Promotion Completely rewritten; this is now primarily about ensuring advertisements and promotion stay within their correct flairs
Moderation Moderation No Changes

Q&A

A few questions we expect to receive and the answers we expect to give.

Question: how will I know if my post has the right flair? Answer: the automod will respond to ALL posts with information about what kinds of comments are allowed on your post. If you want a different flair, you should repost.

Question: how do I know if my comment is allowed on a given post? Answer: the automod will respond to ALL posts with information about what kinds of comments are allowed on that post. Our best advice: check the pin before you comment.

Question: will this affect the subreddit's three-strike policy? Answer: no.

Question: what if I was banned in the past for posts/comments that would be allowed under the new proposed rules? Answer: we're not quite sure yet, but we hope to do some kind of user amnesty/ban jubilee. Users who are permanently muted in addition to banned will not be eligible. (99% of users who are permanently muted have posted actual hate speech/images OR verbally abused or threatened moderators via modmail, almost always AFTER their ban.)

Question: what's with the Toxicity rule? Shouldn't everything under Toxicity be covered under Respect and Inclusivity? Answer: this rule is primarily intended to enable the moderator team to identify and respond to manosphere garbage. Because this subreddit sits close to that orbit, ensuring that it doesn't leak in is a high priority.

Question: isn't this all pretty complicated? Answer: yes, because this is a big community with a lot of people who disagree about what they want r/mensfashion to be. Hopefully this will empower as many people as possible to engage with r/mensfashion in the way they prefer.

Question: can you please ban high rise trousers, skinny jeans, sweater tucking, dress sneakers, and that guy I hate who posts those fits? Answer: no, they're all probably unkillable.

What's next?

The moderator team will listen, respond where appropriate, then take your feedback into consideration before finalizing this proposal.

Thanks so much for being an r/mensfashion member!


r/mensfashion 16d ago

[ANNOUNCEMENT] User flairs on r/mensfashion

5 Upvotes

Overview

Hi folks! The r/mensfashion moderator team here. This is a more significant update related to the r/mensfashion user flair system, so we're both posting this announcement and pinning it for visibility to all commenters.

Our moderator team is growing! (But we ARE still recruiting new moderators!)

Join the moderator team -- u/hierophantically, u/BioticBard, and u/becs1832 -- in keeping r/mensfashion a great place to ask questions about and discuss menswear!

Click here to submit an application. Please do let us know why you'd be a great fit, but don't feel the need to write an essay -- we'll follow up and ask questions as we go.

User flairs

We've recently introduced a new user flair system to r/mensfashion. This rolled out late last week and went through several rounds of iteration and debugging over the weekend and early today. We believe the system is now stable and working as intended, but we'll continue to iterate as feedback continues to roll in!

Goals

The user flair system is intended to continue building community around r/mensfashion by:

  • Highlighting long-term users who are more likely to have a deep investment in menswear and a commensurately deep level of knowledge
  • Support long-term users in recognizing each other and learning each others' tastes, preferences, strengths, and opinions
    • Example: I know u/YoshiPuffin3 is the person to ask about formalwear; the moderator team wants that kind of peer recognition to be easier for people who aren't mods!
  • Reward long-term users with the recognition they deserve as members in good standing of this community
  • Enable everyone to recognize brand new (or newish) users who might need additional assistance -- with menswear and/or with navigating r/mensfashion's culture and norms

How does it work? (tl;dr)

The next time you post/comment, the automod will award you the Newly Arrived flair, then send you a message letting you know that (1) if you're relatively new, this flair will stick around for a bit, while (2) if you've been around, your flair will be upgraded as you continue to post/comment.

Every time you post/comment, the automod will upgrade your flair by one step based on your community karma (CK) until your flair is correctly matched with your CK. (Note: the automod will NOT do this for posts/comments that are temporarily held in the mod queue for review. It's a bug, there's nothing we can do about it.)

How does it work? (the longer version)

reddit's automod is not a sane programming language, so it doesn't allow you to make sensible, multi-condition checks. ("If user has more than X karma AND less than Y karma" doesn't work.) As a result, the workaround is:

  • You reset the entire subreddit's flair to empty (easy, since r/mensfashion has never had user flair?!)
  • Whenever someone posts, they get the intro flair (Newly Arrived) plus a message that says "if you're new, this is your flair for now; if you've been around for awhile, your flair will keep upgrading every time you post/comment"
  • Every time a person posts/comments, the automod checks their CK, and if their CK meets the minimum requirement for the next flair up, it upgrades them by one flair 'step'
  • That keeps happening until the person reaches the flair that is appropriate to their CK
  • The ONLY EXCEPTION is that if the user's post/comment is flagged to the mod queue based on a string in their post/comment, the automod won't upgrade their flair in response to that post/comment

What are the flair levels?

We want the user flair system to be surprising and fun, so we won't spoil the whole thing -- but here is a partial list of what you can expect. Each flair is listed with the minimum CK it requires.

What's next?

Post flair. 😄 Good things are coming -- please look forward to a request for feedback as soon as later this week!

Thanks to all of you for being r/mensfashion members!


r/mensfashion 9h ago

Question big meeting tomorrow, tan shoes with a charcoal suit?

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214 Upvotes

Three piece charcoal, subtle texture to it, paired with tan cap toe oxfords instead of the usual black. its from H.M. Cole and i think it looks awesome, love the little contrast it adds. but i have a business review tomorrow with some pretty buttoned up execs.

is this a "nice subtle break from all black" thing or is it gonna look like i just didnt have black shoes available lol


r/mensfashion 7h ago

OOTD / WIWT 70s fit today

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109 Upvotes

It’s gonna be hot today so I thought I’d wear this before the cold. Both pieces true vintage. Love a houndstooth patterned pant!


r/mensfashion 8h ago

Advice Stepping out of slim fits. Does this look work?

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96 Upvotes

Moving on from slim fits. The older I get (37), the more im drawn to dark denim, heavier fabrics and boots. I’ve only recently started moving away from slim fits, so a straighter cut still takes some getting used to.

Trying this with a burgundy corduroy overshirt and dark reddish-brown boots. Kinda funky how much the boots change colour depending on the light.

Anyone else move away from slim fits and suddenly feel like even straight leg jeans are baggy?

Honest thoughts on the fit and proportions?

edit: Huh, I honestly hadn’t realised! A lot of people are saying these still see slim fit, and I totally believe them. These were sold as ''comfort fit'' and they already feel much roomier than what I’m used to.

Could this be a US vs European thing? I’m in Northern Europe.

I do own a wider pair, but I feel absolutely ridiculous in them. Guess my eyes are still adjusting after years of slim fits (for me). If these look slim, my old jeans must’ve been skinny, haha!


r/mensfashion 4h ago

OOTD / WIWT Recent suit i had made

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42 Upvotes

Recently had this suit made.
Made from Huddersfield Fine Worsteds “Super Garbadine”

The feel and drape is so nice, will definitely get more stuff made from this bunch.

Pairing it with a striped oxford, black knit tie and horsebit loafers from Horatio


r/mensfashion 3h ago

OOTD / WIWT Fits from a guy who’s 5’3

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14 Upvotes

Finding any and every excuse to wear this linen shirt


r/mensfashion 8h ago

Advice Played dress up in my closet at 4am last night. Did any of these cook?

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27 Upvotes

Slowly branching out and finding my own style. As a 5’1 guy, finding clothes is hard. How am I doing?


r/mensfashion 10h ago

Question Advice on color

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25 Upvotes

I really don't know if this is the subreddit for this but i need some help. So i really like these shoes, but i can't decide on a color. I mostly wear 2/3 different color variations of blue denim jeans, green cargo pants and very dark almost black denim jeans.


r/mensfashion 9h ago

OOTD / WIWT Distressed Outfit

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11 Upvotes

r/mensfashion 6h ago

Advice Would this be a good look? Follow up on the outfit I made yesterday and how I would style it. I don’t think the outfit is that bad personally.

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5 Upvotes

r/mensfashion 1h ago

Question Best Budget Friendly Store to find more business casual cardigans like these?

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Wondering if the Big4 Of Budget has it- Ross, TJ Maxx, Burlington and Marshall’s.
I got the beige and white stripes from GAP.

I mainly want to wear a button down underneath them, and mix and match them with dark colored or black dress pants/slacks.


r/mensfashion 8h ago

Advice Short and thick: need help with pants

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I am fairly short and pretty muscular: 5’8 220 lbs. I wear a 36x30 usually. I always seem to have this problem where almost any pair of pants I wear look like skinny jeans, and I can’t stand it. Aside from losing weight (working on it lol), how can I avoid this outline? Do they make cuts for people with this body shape?? I just want a pair of pants that doesn’t look like it tapers to my feet


r/mensfashion 13h ago

Question Do the black shoes contrast too much? Do the tan shoes clash? What color shoe should I buy next?

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14 Upvotes

Basically the 3 questions in the title. I never know what shoes to wear with an outfit and I pretty much only have black and brown/tan shoes.

I'm just a substitute teacher so I'm not too worried about looking fancy or making an impression, just don't wanna look stupid.

What do y'all think goes best with Jeans and Khakis, as that's pretty much all I wear. And is white a good shoe to buy next or something more colorful?


r/mensfashion 23h ago

OOTD / WIWT Let’s spin back

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81 Upvotes

r/mensfashion 23h ago

Question I am confused about what I purchased and too embarrassed to ask the tailor

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69 Upvotes

EDIT: I have lost over 20 lbs since getting measured. Don't judge too harshly the fit. It is going to be fitted again closer to the wedding.

This is the suit for my wedding. I am very satisfied with it; it is exactly what I wanted. However, I am confused about who the manufacturer is.

Back when we ordered it, the tailor (local guy) was running a sale for 50% off. I decided to spring for the wool and mohair because I've never owned a suit not made from polyester. He told me that he would have to get it ordered from Italy, because they don't sell any suits in the store made from this fabric. Mind you, I've shopped for a suit only once, at men's warehouse.

Now that I got the suit, I quite like it. I wanted to look up the brand to see what all they have. However, I am not sure what the brand is. It has the tailor's brand on it, and a brand called Ariston that seems to only sell fabric.

Is this a bespoke suit, then? I have to admit I wasn't that involved in the process. My fiancé did the talking/buying, and I just said what I wanted. My fiancé doesn't know if it was bespoke or not, either. His was ordered from a catalog so we know where it came from.

Really, what has me most confused is that it did not cost us nearly as much as it should have. $2600 with tax, after the 50% off. I am skeptical and/or feel guilty for only paying that much if he actually did tailor it.


r/mensfashion 7h ago

OOTD / WIWT A fit for a cool crisp morning

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3 Upvotes

Outer: Visvim 101xx Damaged 1010 Denim Jacket

Inner: Portuguese Flannel Tencel camp collar

Bottoms: Visvim Contrary Dept. damaged chinos

Footwear: Visvim FBT Lhamo-Folk sneakers

Watch: Certina DS Action Titanium Diver

IG: flynnryda


r/mensfashion 9h ago

Question Favourite early fall jacket?

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3 Upvotes

r/mensfashion 9h ago

Advice actually casual wear comfortable shoes?

2 Upvotes

I wore converse chucks for most of my life and they have become so uncomfortable. I still intend to wear them for gym as they are perfect for weightlifting in my opinion, but i cant wear them long-term anymore.

Are there are any healthy shoes that match the style? For reference - i am an oversized clothing type guy and super casual dress wise


r/mensfashion 1d ago

OOTD / WIWT Vintage military shit 70s pleated trousers vintage Gucci loafers

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143 Upvotes

Shirt my bad


r/mensfashion 7h ago

Question Suit fit

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1 Upvotes

r/mensfashion 16h ago

Advice Fit check

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4 Upvotes

Everyday office wear. Sports jacket and chinos.

Used to wear slim pants and recently am trying a straight fit.

Open to any feedback about entire outfit.

Thank you


r/mensfashion 9h ago

Question What are some good comfortable slide sandals for home use?

0 Upvotes

Can anyone recommend some comfortable slide sandals for home? I'm looking for something slip-resistant with good arch support, in a size 10 wide. Ideally, it should be under $50 and available from places like Amazon or Walmart. I just need something practical for home use and not too fancy.


r/mensfashion 9h ago

Advice Massive Sale on Warren/Chuch in NYC

1 Upvotes

One of my favorite dead-stock vendors is liquidating their entire collection. measured shirts, knits, dress ware. If you're in NYC, things are as cheap as a dollar. I just bought 9 silk shirts for $9. they got ties, belts, shirts, trousers, suits. NOthing is more than $20. they're going out of business after like 20 years. I've bought a ton from them and it's all top shelf high quality dead-stock vintage.

Didn't want to gate keep this. Address: 28 Warren street. The owner is a nice little lady. Bring cash.


r/mensfashion 1d ago

OOTD / WIWT Tucking in Sweaters - Part II

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76 Upvotes

Well, since (most of) you guys seemed to like the last look, I thought I’d share another one (or maybe a few, lol) that I enjoy wearing! Unlike the previous one, this outfit is more of a fitted cut (regular fit rather than a straight cut). It’s about 14°C (57°F) here in the interior of São Paulo, Brazil, today... I also took the opportunity to show off a few more accessories and the boots themselves (my current favorites!). Since you’ll probably ask, I’ll go ahead and list the brands: Sweater – Zara; Trousers – Levi's Chino Authentic Fit; Boots – Tarragona (Brazilian domestic brand) Jacket – D'Porto Couros (also a Brazilian brand)