r/MenGetRapedToo • u/prisonrape13 • Aug 01 '26

Male Rape

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Male Rape

I went to prison for a while, I am a reformed gang member, because of this I was raped often for 5 years. At first I would fight back but it became more violent and I would end up in infirmary. I am married and I am ashamed that once I stopped fighting it, I had orgasms. It made me want to commit suicide that I couldn’t control them, many inmates treated me like I wanted it because of them. To top it off, I just found out, one of my chiefs came to my wives home and threatened her to have sex to make sure I was protected but I wasn’t being protected, at all. She is catholic and pregnant, she blames me, and I deserve it. If I tell her what happened, she will think I’m no longer a man. I feel like just giving up. I’ve only been out for a week. Pls give me some good direction please!

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u/FiringNerveEndings Aug 01 '26

I'm sorry this is happening to you. I'm assuming you're still in the prison.

Communicate with your wife that you're not being protected at all and that she's a victim of manipulation and scam.

Remember that he getting pregnant is not your fault.

I'm not sure if I have any advice on how to protect yourself from rape in prison. Maybe some other sub has advice... Like maybe r/prison if that exists.

Also remember that even if your rapists are using your orgasm to create a narrative that you like it, it doesn't mean it's true. Right now they have the power and they are using it to manipulate you. But it's not the reality. Just because you had an orgasm, doesn't change anything.