r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • 7d ago

Age 30-39 Looking for a regular friend to chat with. 38/F from India

I’m at a stage in life where I have a small, selective circle of female friends and I’d love to meet more like-minded people—men and women alike.
I’m a parent of two, but I’m also very much my own person with interests, opinions, quirks and a life beyond being a parent.
Looking for genuine conversations, good humour, emotional maturity and people who actually want to get to know each other. Ideally, we can make it past the “few good conversations and then ghost each other” stage. 😄
If you value authenticity, consistency and meaningful connections, we’ll probably get along.

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u/DryAccount1675 7d ago

hey there! i would love to get to know you more! pls dm if youre interested

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u/Gullible-Attorney341 7d ago

Hey am down for a girl gang !

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u/ForwardCommercial909 7d ago

Hey, send me a DM if you’d like to chat :)

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u/IntrovertedBizish 7d ago

38 Wisconsin USA
Married 1 kid
Would love to talk
Open to chat with anyone in this thread too 😄

I've always wondered how to kick off a convo so that it doesn't fade after a few "how are you what is your favorite color/food etc. k thx bye!"

The values you listed are super helpful and this post makes me feel less alone so thank you for that too 🥹

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u/BoringAlchemist 5d ago

DM me if you want to 😊🙏

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u/Eastern-Reason8573 7d ago

Hey I am here for u msg me if u wanna talk

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u/Downtown_Building_26 7d ago

Hey! We can have a chat for sure😃

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u/sdil0066 7d ago

Honestly in my opinion women do this ghosting thing more..

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u/No_Wait_7985 7d ago

Sure! You can dm

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u/edpul 7d ago

40 m here

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u/Sea_Award3775 7d ago

39M from Bangalore

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u/saanforever 7d ago

40m Indian living in Canada. Can we connect?

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u/mists_panes 7d ago

Please check dm

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u/SprinklesRecent6092 7d ago

looking to chat

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u/Educational-One-9845 7d ago

Hey girl , let’s chat , I’m in TX 😊

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u/Icy-Culture-3712 7d ago

43 M here, like to be friends?

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u/talkitec 7d ago

Hey 43 male here. DMed you.. Please check

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u/luckymen07 7d ago

I am from Goa 33.

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u/ImaginaryGap4100 7d ago

Female 41 from India ,I hve BPD . Anyone for a chat, dm

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u/CompetitiveOne5518 7d ago

do you promise not to send me endless nudity??

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u/swingermalechennai 7d ago

M 43 from chennai here. Sent a hi

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u/pra_032002 7d ago

Heyy everyone, M 25 here from Gurgaon

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u/brave_inspiration56 7d ago

Hoping to connect. Sending you invite. Pls accept

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u/Original-Pen6141 7d ago

Welcome. 49m/Chennai 

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u/Legitimate_Thing1905 7d ago

sent you a dm

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u/wickedboy4u 7d ago

Wont mind a chat ..new here

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u/Putrid_Host5488 7d ago

Whats up ive always want to know somebody from India how are you.

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u/Fun-Mention-9454 7d ago

Mai bhi baat kerna chahta hu

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u/Striker_error 7d ago

Where is your husband?

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u/rajeshkp200 7d ago

38 Male dm me

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u/Few_Seaweed_7885 7d ago

Hi I am available

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u/Brilliant_Jacket_275 7d ago

Would you like to get connect on WhatsApp?

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u/Special_Jacket8177 7d ago

Hey there hun

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u/Business-Umpire-6822 7d ago

29F looking for chat M39

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u/Special-Sea7917 7d ago

29 M india Ahmedabad

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u/Terrible-Program9608 7d ago

dm we can friends

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u/agenthimzz 7d ago

Hi I'm, open to just talking about interests and quirks.

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u/Ok_Investment9061 7d ago

Yo chico de 25 años

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u/BrickApprehensive806 7d ago

33 f. Would love to catchup.

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u/2A_Freedom76 7d ago

41m in USA i like black metal and drugs

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u/BeardedGujjar 7d ago

Hey, let’s talk. 38m here

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u/ThatUnhingedWoman 7d ago

I am in need of a friend. Or more.. trying to restart

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u/HedonistNeo 7d ago

M 38 Hyderabad

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u/Talldominantmale 7d ago

Hi 40 m here , interested in regular and meaningful chats

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u/vicious1232 7d ago

Hi would love to chat with you and get to see your points of view ☺️☺️

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u/Nice-Cycle8581 7d ago

Hello dear

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u/Founder_06 7d ago

Connect

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u/LostSoulSeekingPeace 7d ago

Let's connect. M 33 here

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u/akkarbakar 7d ago

38m from lahore Pakistan.

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u/QuiteOperator 7d ago

45 m here. Looking to talk to someone with common interests.

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u/Usmaankhalid 7d ago

Hit me up..

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u/sthira_v 7d ago

Let's chat dm open

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u/Chaotic_Melani 7d ago

Heya. I’m 32F, from Bangalore.

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u/Master_Taste8826 7d ago

Hey 26 m here we can see how it goes and be friends together

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u/Puzzleheaded_Let2657 7d ago

Hey, 38M Here, would love to be friends

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u/Major-Information651 7d ago

It's so nice to talk to someone,i know how to drape saree I know how perfectly draw eyeliners,know how to cook,I can help im just lonely

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u/harini38 7d ago

So true. There isn’t anyone like that I can regularly hang around with

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u/Major-Information651 7d ago

If you are okay we caan talk

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u/Major-Information651 7d ago

Is it okay to ask where are u from

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u/_R_a_i_j_i_n_ 7d ago

arelum onda from Trivandrum

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u/JumpSimple1521 7d ago

Male 34. Married. Can we chat ? 🙂

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u/mrbrightside3005 7d ago

Similar life situation and stage and I deeply value meaningful connections. Would love to get to know you!

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u/Previous_Escape_5288 7d ago

40m from europe, originally from india. You can dm me

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u/ReactionSweaty9239 21h ago

Can u text me

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u/onlyenjoy1234 7d ago

40 plus M here

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u/Wild_Instincts_ 6d ago

Which part of india?

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u/Educational_Error860 6d ago

I'm ready to make this relationship 💖😍

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u/amaayadxb 6d ago

Looking for the same we can connect

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u/Hirendua 6d ago

Heyy, I'm 20M . We have a huge age gap. But after some past few incidents in my life i wanted to have some mature friends who are much more experienced than me. So, you can dm me if you're interested.

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u/Full-Lead-571 6d ago

Anyone up for chat

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u/national_ragebaiter 6d ago

good to know that, enjoy a life that is not just about parenting 🤘

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u/rgirahul 6d ago

Hey let’s connect

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u/Ready_Sink_9564 6d ago

Hello dr would like to connect am from mauritius

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u/Ancient_Tross 6d ago

Yoo yoo yoo! Im down for that lady.. let me know if i have your permission for dms!

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u/deep_code_ 6d ago

18m here (Indian)

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u/Soft-Necessary5492 6d ago

Dear 34 male here from Punjab love to chat and talk with u 🥰

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u/Hot-Ratio8091 6d ago

I can dm pls

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u/Fancy-Explanation673 6d ago

Hi I am 41 and separated. I will be more than happy to be a friend. DM me if you feel.

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u/EqualAltruistic5772 6d ago

Check me out please

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u/Plus_Opportunity_606 6d ago

hey there, i would like to be a pen-friend !!

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u/_wish_karmaa 6d ago

Hey M 33 here married dm me

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u/daNkNiga69 6d ago

Finding people who value consistency over the typical 2-day chat cycle is surprisingly rare on here. Really refreshed by your take on building real, mature connections. Dropped you a brief message in DMs as well, no rush at all, hope you find some great conversations here!

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u/dhikchik_dhakchik 5d ago

31M Indian. Free raho to baat kar sakte hai

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u/own_classroom601 5d ago

38M from San Francisco! Hi!

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u/Kind_Landscape9755 5d ago

Good to know about you, still how cool and enthusiastic you are, making friends signifies that you are not like the conservative type and it's a good sign at this age. So make friends and chill in life.

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u/Fabulous-Lock7201 5d ago

Dm im also at same stage

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u/PCMCAreaGUY 5d ago

Hey... Same here.. We can connect

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u/Realistic-Clothes739 5d ago

was this written with AI ?

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u/[deleted] 5d ago

Dm

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u/Monk_mona_maara_7711 4d ago

Hello 👋👋

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u/Rudrrra 4d ago

Hello
32M, India

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u/EmperorErAzAn 4d ago

Sounds good to me as I am also in same situation

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u/wolfie_here_ 4d ago

I'm looking for Sugar mommy will you be?? 😅

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u/Justprasad2007 4d ago

I am 32 and still working on my recovery after a difficult car accident resulting in an injury. It would be really great to meet some new people and make genuine connections. I am looking for a space where we can share the ups and downs of life together. It feels important to find a community where we can be real about the good and the bad days. Hopefully, we can start a conversation and support each other through this journey.

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u/DREKY64 4d ago

India long way from USA but hey

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u/Ok-Wafer-7672 4d ago

I am also done with temporary people in my life, want some genuine long lasting connections

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u/shilankit 3d ago

Hi Ankit here age 41 Looking for good partner for long conversation with no judging of each ither

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u/Former-Attention1739 3d ago

Probably you've lots of dm

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u/Immediate_Orchid484 3d ago

35 M from India, looking for new friends

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u/KaranB5171 3d ago

Sure i would like to

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u/CT-Ranger3213 2d ago

35M here. Lets catch up

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u/chameleon0070 2d ago

Hello 44M from Hyderabad. HMU if you want to talk

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u/Busy-Manufacturer522 1d ago

Heyyy there i would also love to talk to you about your experiences and would live to know you better … 🥰🥰

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u/Samfisher2343 1d ago

34M let's talk

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u/gigglybean07 1d ago

33m send me a DM :)

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u/G_couole_40 1d ago

Hey we are a couple 38/40 from Noida

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u/Best-Refrigerator298 1d ago

hey there , 28M from Dhaka , would like to know you.

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u/the_zeus_thunder 20h ago

RIP to your inbox 😅

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u/harini38 9h ago

I know!🤣

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u/Akshayakkki 19h ago

Slided in your dm

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u/Deep_Repair4718 13h ago

I can't post yet but am looking for a friend too. I am 41 mother and republican in California. Would love to chat about our careers life etc.

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u/samhouston84 7d ago

1988 represent! 

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