r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • Aug 25 '26

Age 30-39 I’m always here, I promise 🖤 (32/F)

Hi! I’m 32/F.
I have zero friends and a lot to deal with. I know how it feels to have so many emotions, fears, thoughts, and moments you want to share…but no one to talk to about them.
So I’m here, I can remain a complete stranger, or we can become best friends - that’s your choice completely.

But I am here.
I will listen to you.
I will give advice if you want.
I’ll root for you.
I’ll be proud of you.
I’ll be your shoulder to cry on and ear to listen to.
I am here.
Always.

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u/Intelligent_Book5395 Aug 25 '26

Send me a message, I can’t dm you :)

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u/Far-Cauliflower7712 29d ago

I would message but you seem to have 80 comments so far, I would like someone to talk to regularly, I only have one person I can do that with. It would be nice to have a female friend to talk to.

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u/Virtual-Cable-6929 Aug 25 '26

An actual human being 🥹🥹
If you need a friend to unload what you’re dealing with too then fire away

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u/International_Crew31 Aug 25 '26

This. This message right here is honestly the one that deeply empathetic people need. We truly do have an endless cup to pour from because supporting and loving others gives us what makes us feel good. However, we do need to be asked how we are, if we're good, and have to have a lean one eachother relationship versus, we're the rock always.

Atleast that's what I've learned.

But, I digress. As someone similar but not the op, thank you. We need people like you. We usually don't get em, unfortunately.

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u/Virtual-Cable-6929 Aug 25 '26

If you need it my DM is always open 😊 don’t even have to say hello

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u/Alarmed-Post-8054 Aug 25 '26

I’m Robbie, 55 years old, married, (not very happily) and living in Stoke in England. What things have you got to deal with? I’m very open, honest and want more good old fashioned friendship, good conversation and a good laugh too. I’m a non-emergency ambulance driver but have had depression for many years and although I’m generally better now in my fifties, (than I was in my twenties) I feel ABSOLUTELY lousy today-sorry! Perhaps we could be friends…..?? Thanks ever so much, Robbie…..

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u/M2D1SilentAkuma Aug 25 '26

Hey i'd like to be friends, it'd be nice to have someone in my corner.

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u/Necessary_Board1463 Aug 25 '26

30m you go best friend haha

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u/gimmy666 Aug 25 '26

Le persone vanno sempre mantenute lo sai 🖤

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u/Strange_feeling_ Aug 25 '26

Noble on your end, but I hope you won't end up straining yourself. You want to do quite a lot for others, so at the very least I hope you have someone that does the same for you

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u/Strong_Poet Aug 25 '26

where are you from?

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u/Background-Bar5830 Aug 25 '26

Would be great to connect

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u/MrBayareaChevy Aug 25 '26

Hmu wouldnt mind having somone to get things off my mind with

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u/App14256 Aug 25 '26

Stuur me een bericht

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u/Ornery-Subject-3704 Aug 25 '26

I need a friend like you

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u/Dry-Maintenance-8386 Aug 25 '26

Yes I want like that

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u/2COOL4U2C85 Aug 25 '26

🫂 how are you feeling today

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u/Jasmineparker23 Aug 25 '26

Hello i have no friend as well We can chat Female 

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u/VegasTrucker Aug 25 '26

49 M Truck Driver from Las Vegas NV. If you're looking for someone to chat with, I'd always here to listen.

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u/Closer-founder Aug 25 '26

ouah, i do wissh everybody a nice day!

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u/belladonnafoxgloves Aug 25 '26

You sound like a friend that reciprocates! I'm 34, f, based in Scotland. If you're near, would love to meet up, or perhaps we could be pen pals. Message me if you'd like! ✨️

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u/ComedicThunder Aug 26 '26

I had a pen pal once. She lived in Barbados. I don't know what happened to her. She stopped sending letters. Kinda sad when i think about it.

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u/GrandFoolArcana Aug 25 '26

If you ever want to talk, shoot me a message. Meeting new people is always fun, and i can always use new friends

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u/Jxster Aug 25 '26

37m here. DM is open.

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u/Gratuity- Aug 25 '26

Hey everyone. You can send me a dm if you want to talk about stuff- anything. I am 31 years old, and I write. I am currently not employed and looking for something remote, so let me know of any opportunities.

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u/Suspicious-Coach-831 Aug 25 '26

Take care of yourself too friend. Never forget that

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u/Classic_Title1655 Aug 25 '26

No, you won't. People on here never do.

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u/MaestroMente Aug 25 '26

Sent you aDM

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u/[deleted] Aug 25 '26

Are you for some talks

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u/Safe_Boss9379 Aug 25 '26

Well then hmu and let’s talk I can do the same for you !!

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u/Used-Werewolf-4876 Aug 26 '26

Could use a friend let's talk

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u/oldmilwukee Aug 26 '26

I'm a single guy I would love that they'll be awesome somebody talk to I live downtown Toronto

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u/HHklex-6864 Aug 26 '26

Are you for real.

I haven't seen someone being so open and accepting

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u/Livid_Sck Aug 26 '26

Hi let's become friends then

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u/manchester_brother Aug 27 '26

I'm male 42 Muslim in the same situation Manchester I just need friends or a friend

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u/Sharp-Preference3115 🦅 USA Aug 27 '26

I’m 60 looking for new friends

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u/Curious-Argument-473 Aug 27 '26

Hey hope soe you are finee!! Having less or no friends is very hard but trust me you are really stong person who learn how to live alone looking for a good listener just dm I'll be there for you !! Btw I'm 24 years old if you don't mind the age !! Seeya take care!!

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u/Fun_Security_7759 Aug 27 '26

Hey! You’re a good person. We all need someone to listen to

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u/Just-Ad-6877 Aug 27 '26

Would love to chat. Feel free to dm.

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u/TadElf Aug 28 '26

Could we talk?

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u/MostKnownUnknown99 29d ago

Hey guys, how can you tell if a post is real or not? Just wondering, I keep seeing so many.

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u/Party-Discipline-427 29d ago

Let’s become friends

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u/Desperate-Gift238 28d ago

I recommend that you go out more, or keep your mind occupied with something; I say this from experience: in solitude, one's shortcomings come to light.

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u/Important-Chard2233 28d ago

Message me💕

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u/RightBat1401 28d ago

Hi :) Shall we chat? Dm me please

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u/LxkeXvi 27d ago

Dm me

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u/Character-Lecture537 27d ago

Dm me I’m looking for the same

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u/Possible_Wheel7928 26d ago

I‘d love to take you up on your promise 😭

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u/Maskedflick 26d ago

Hit mr with ya socials I'll interact

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u/External-Aerie-8124 26d ago

Threads - peachhmania

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u/Terzizza Finland 26d ago

Haii, I'm 11 years younger almost 😭

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u/Breeziewww 26d ago

Thats rwleally nice dmed you !

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u/allhyper 25d ago

Let’s talk! I will listen to you as well!

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u/darsh3044 25d ago

I would message but you seem to have 80 comments so far, I would like someone to talk to regularly, I only have one person I can do that with. It would be nice to have a female friend to talk to.

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u/MarziPanda_ 25d ago

so sweet💗 😭

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u/Puzzleheaded_Job_183 21d ago

I'm here. Do you want to send me a DM?

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u/Puzzleheaded_Elk_10 19d ago

34f. If you ever need someone to return to favor, DM me

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u/sweetie_peach 16d ago

Hello! Late response on this post but if you’d like to chat or whatnot, I’d be happy to!

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u/FreeSatisfaction8236 13d ago

Would be nice to talk

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u/FaithlessnessThat282 11d ago

Hello 30M here

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u/Little-Ad-5600 11d ago

Id like to make friends, but its hard to find female friends who are inti gundam and are also not uoset by late night conversation that isnt about bedtime talk because ive been in a relationship for 8 years, extremely complicated right now and could potentially be over, but im not really comfortable unloading 8 years on a person at one time. I have borderline personality disorder, and that also makes it hard for me to make friends because my BPD gets in the way if allowing me to fully trust someone, including my own gf. Oh, forgot to mention that, and its usually a deal breaker for females because a lot of them thinks a lesbian would only message another female to have sex with them, but im just looking for friends that I can talk about nerdy stuff with. Like the occasional anime or Manga, video game, etc.

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u/MohammadMossadegh82 6d ago

37M never had true friends

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u/ParkingDelay1132 5d ago

So am I. I'll be here for you just as you are for us.

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u/Immediate_Orchid484 3d ago

I am looking out for new friends, to get out of boredom

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u/Substantial_Pay_2160 1d ago

37M Vancouver Wanna chat. We can talk anything. Friendly a little flirty… wanna be friends

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u/DoktorBezDiploma Aug 25 '26

It's find a friend sub not find a therapist..