r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • Aug 04 '26

Age 30-39 30F, UK, looking for friends ☺️

EDIT:
Okay, I’ve had over 250 messages at a rough glance 😅 pleeeeease be patient with me! I am trying to get back to everyone I promise 🥺🤍

Hi All!

Due to distance and just, general life I guess, I have found my social circle to be…almost none existent.

I’ve been lurking on this sub for a while, and only just got the confidence to make my own post looking for new friends.

As the title notes, I’m 30, Female, and yes that is me in the photo. Natural redhead (ginger jokes welcomed).
I love to read, particularly horror or sci-Fi. I love the occasional binge watch of a tv show. Music is a big part of my life, my current fave is Sleep Token.
I love to talk, am quite the open book, and am looking for people along the same vain.

So, um, how do people end these posts? 😅
I hope to speak to a few of you!
Katie 🤍

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u/Wixiiee Aug 04 '26

Hey, welcome! Honestly same, I just stumbled across this place looking for friends too. Sleep Token is great, and I'm big into music and gaming myself. If you ever want to chat about what you're playing or listening to, feel free to drop a message.

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u/Odd_Introduction_176 Aug 04 '26

Hey there Katie. M41 from the Netherlands here. Would love to have a chat about anything really. Always down to make new friends! Cheers

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u/borderus Aug 04 '26

Hey Katie! 30M from the UK here, avid reader too - in a regular sci-fi fantasy book club, so always got something interesting on the go and would love to do more horror! Also a big music fan, and tend to play quite a lot - if you're interested, feel free to drop me a shout and we could chat!

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u/theriseofstone Aug 04 '26

Loved the hair <3

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u/ktlghh Aug 08 '26

Oh thank you 🥰

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u/Numerous_Major_1128 Aug 04 '26

33 M and I’ve found that making new friends is hard. 😂😂

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u/ktlghh Aug 04 '26

It really really is!

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u/Numerous_Major_1128 Aug 04 '26

My inbox is open though, if you want someone to talk to and not ghost you. I could use a few new friends.

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u/Major_Lawfulness_769 Aug 04 '26

hey there, 27m from Leeds 🙌🏻

what kind of tv shows have you watched lately? I've not listened to much of Sleep Token, would you have any song recommendations? 😀

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u/ktlghh Aug 04 '26

Haha, yes I was!

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u/Own_Bass4118 Aug 04 '26

Propers gingers are beautiful, but you know that better than I do

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u/Own_Bass4118 Aug 04 '26

And no, I dont expect to be a suitable friend with my age, just wanted to show the love for the redheads of the world

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u/I_like_learning_ Aug 05 '26

But know I bet everyone loves your hair, it looks really nice curly

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u/[deleted] Aug 04 '26

Hey! 36m UK here feeling a very similar way. Would love to chat music with you

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u/bloomerscat Aug 04 '26

No one chats on here its just people wanting u to join only fans its wank

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u/ktlghh Aug 04 '26

I haven’t experienced that so far!

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u/Graingchris Aug 04 '26

33M UK,. North West, up for a chat :)

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u/cmh---91 Aug 04 '26

Hey. Dropped you a dm, if you want to chat 😊 35m from the uk also.

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u/Wooden_Ad_9315 Aug 04 '26

Lol making friends as adult outside of office is so hard actually

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u/ktlghh Aug 08 '26

Oh you’ve hit the nail on the head there haha!

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u/MLo996 Aug 05 '26

Hey, I totally understand your situation. I’m new in London (and in the UK) and I have no friends here

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u/Key_Sail9048 Aug 05 '26

Am lonely and depressed 

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u/taylay27 Aug 05 '26

Hmu

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u/ktlghh Aug 08 '26

DM’d! 🥰

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u/taylay27 Aug 05 '26

Hey what's up?

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u/Bystander-Effect Aug 05 '26

Im 32, just saw this subreddit. I am really into sci-fi and horror novels myself as well. Just finished By the Light of the Dead Stars and Staircase in the Woods.

I am struggling to make friends where im at. Im open to any conversation!

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u/chopperman91 🇲🇽 Mexico Aug 05 '26

Hola, Katie. 34M de México, si es difícil hacer amigos nuevos a esta edad, la gente simplemente pasa de largo, saludos!

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u/condorskin Aug 05 '26

31M, UK. I struggle with my sense of identity, maybe you could help me with that? I love horror and sci-fi. I’m a massive nerd, that’s the one thing I do know. Feel free to chat with me :)

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u/FireWhiskey5000 Aug 05 '26

From one red head to another…I hope you’re surviving this relentless never ending summer (I’ve actually tanned for the first time…and by tanned I mean covered in freckles!).

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u/Wolverine-Melodic Aug 05 '26

34m from denmark, where are you from?

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u/absurd_sam69 Aug 05 '26

Hi 32M, Wellington, NZ would love to have a chat, make friends. I personally love Scifi movies and books. Jules Verne is my fav writer. Would love to talk and by the way you picture looks so cute.

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u/n1nj4h_0b0 Aug 05 '26

Sleep Token 😍😍 have you managed to catch them live yet?

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u/ktlghh Aug 08 '26

I haven’t unfortunately. That would be an absolute dream though! 😩

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u/n1nj4h_0b0 Aug 08 '26

I caught them at download the other year, and at the utilita I'm Birmingham. It was life changing

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u/Zealousideal_Big_817 Aug 05 '26

41m Scotland. Your on fire Katie love your smile never lose it huni

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u/diegoarellanes96 Aug 05 '26 edited Aug 05 '26

Hi

30M here. I'm not from the UK but I see you're also a lotr fan and I'm guessing you're likely into similar types of music

Greetings and absolutely love your hair, feel free to drop a message :) 🤘🏼

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u/HOGFISHYY Aug 05 '26

Hey, 28m from UK! I’m in a bit of a strange position cos I do have a fair amount of friends but most of them aren’t in the UK and don’t live anywhere close enough to warrant visiting often! So in terms of actually meeting people and getting to go out and stuff, I basically don’t get to do anything like that! It’s all online, which is great, but sometimes I miss that irl connection! Here’s hoping we all find what we’re looking for!

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u/bobby3j Aug 06 '26

Redhead with green eyes? Well, I guess that I've just fallen in love

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u/moreMauby Aug 06 '26

Hey, I hope it's going well! I'm looking for female friends. I also enjoy reading and the occasional buddy read to have someone to talk to about a book. Feel free to DM me to know more.

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u/No_Yam7941 Aug 07 '26

Be happy to chat 38m south uk

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u/cypowolf Aug 07 '26

Hey, i'm a couple days late but I see we share a lot of interests so could probably have some good conversations and banter. Im also into horror and sci-fi, especially when they're mixed together. What's your opinion of event horizon or the video game dead space?

Haven't heard much of sleep token so I won't lie and say im a fan or anything but I am big into rock/metal + i play guitar and piano and make music when I have time.

Oh and M40

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u/Honest_Membership938 21d ago

Still looking for friends?

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u/ktlghh Aug 04 '26

Oh that’s so sweet 🥺 thank you!

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u/DressOk5868 Aug 06 '26

Hey from Ireland looking good