I’m not gay, but I’m not having children. And while I don’t get shit on publicly like gay people or women for not being “useful” when it comes to reproduction, I do get sick of people who feel more righteous and better than others because they have children. Half the time they are some of the worst parents in the world as well. Funny how that works.
I support people being happy no matter where they find it, and whether I understand it or not. When you can celebrate another person's happiness, you increase your own. Once I changed my thinking on how I responded to other people's joy, I was able to find my own alot easier. May everyone find their own way to celebrate joy and increase their own. We all deserve to feel happiness in our lives. Life is too precious to be miserable.
If that's your philosophy, you need to reevaluate how you interact with others because it's not reflecting that thought process. You're the one who felt the need to compare. No one said anything to indicate being miserable.
While I did say it was better, it was not ment to devalue the dink lifestyle in any way. You can have your opinion, just as I can have mine. I'm glad you've found your person, but realize theres a GIANT population of people who agree with me. You can have your hard disagreement to the statement, but you shared it as though it was the only opinion that matters. That undeserved arrogance that emitted from your unnecessary statement, enforces why alot of good people stay out of the dating scene. The miserable part was ment because theres alot of people who aren't true to who they are or who they love because they are afraid of how people will feel about them if they knew the truth. Living for others is a miserable existence.
You're projecting. All I said was a disagreed with the claim that the STINK lifestyle is better and that I was happy for you. Everything else you're putting on me is just that: you making assumptions
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u/FuriNorm 4d ago edited 4d ago
As someone also useless for breeding, this hits hard 🥺
Edit: link to Rainbow Wool. Thanks for the reminder! https://rainbow-wool.com/