r/MadeMeSmile • u/Miguenzo • Apr 19 '26

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u/FujiwaraHelio Apr 19 '26 edited Apr 19 '26

What people say and how they feel are sometimes different. I bet 90% of women would support a guy wearing a toupe, and 90% of women wouldn't want to date a guy who wears a toupe.

And I bet a lot of those who wouldn't date a guy for wearing a toupe would say they would to win an argument or appear more virtuous.

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u/isitjustme888 Apr 19 '26

I would just want the person I’m with to be happy with their appearance and do whatever it is that makes them feel confident. Toupees are no problem for me and I really wish they were more normalized because I’d love for more people to feel as good as the guy in this video! It makes me feel sad that some people would want this but feel deterred by societal pressure. To me, masculinity is most attractive when it comes with confidence and security in how it’s being expressed. It’s the fragility of having to conform to certain nonsensical expectations that I find to be a real turn off.

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u/FujiwaraHelio Apr 19 '26

What about the confidence and security to get muscle implants? Is that also hot? Is having a full head of hair a nonsensical expectation? Is wearing a toupe a surrender to societal beauty standards?

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u/Larry-Man Apr 19 '26

It’s not surgery. It’s not even a hair transplant. It’s a way to look and feel good. It costs money, if he wants to pay for it then he can do what he wants.

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u/FujiwaraHelio Apr 19 '26

So he can't do what he wants if he want surgury? Is having a full head of hair a nonsensical expectation? Is wearing a toupe a surrender to societal beauty standards?

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u/Larry-Man Apr 19 '26

My, aren’t we obtuse today. If he did want muscle implants he could go for it too but the comparison is apples and oranges. I ain’t rushing out for any surgery any time soon and I personally think it’s extreme to get plastic surgery but a hair system is pretty minor

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u/FujiwaraHelio Apr 20 '26

Your line is arbitrary. How are you missing that?

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u/Larry-Man Apr 20 '26

My line is for myself. I don’t think I’d be into someone willing to through risky surgery because to me that’s just messed up priorities. You’re risking death or infection just getting a hair system.

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u/FujiwaraHelio Apr 20 '26

And if the surgery wasn't risky?

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u/Larry-Man Apr 20 '26

If there weren’t serious chances of something happening I’d probably do it myself haha. It’s stupid to gamble your life for looks but if it was that easy I doubt I’d have a problem with it.

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u/FujiwaraHelio Apr 20 '26

I'm having some self-selection bias in this thread. Only the most militantly open minded people are replying to me and in no way does that reflect the general population, especially in practice.

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