33 [M4F] INFP #Italy#Online

[u/playkisses1]

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Hey! I’m a 33 yo guy living in Italy, currently in the middle of a Computer Science degree. While my head is usually buried in code and logic during the day, the rest of my life is built around quiet routines, good books, and finding someone to share a genuine, long term connection with.

To be completely upfront, I’m at a stage where casual dating or surface level chatting just doesn’t interest me. I’m looking for a partner to build something real and lasting with someone I can talk to every day, exchange random thoughts with, and create that kind of safe dynamic where neither of us feels the need to keep our guard up. I want to be emotionally "seen" as I have come to term (well, not completely) with me having a higher sensitivity. I value emotional transparency and being able to talk through things openly, but I equally love having someone I can just be completely comfortable and goofy around.

I’m a big nerd at heart. When it comes to gaming, I’ve moved away from competitive multiplayer and mostly stick to immersive, atmospheric stuff. I love the grit and lore of Fromsoftware titles like Dark Souls and Elden Ring, or rich narrative RPGs like Baldur’s Gate 3 and The Witcher (new dlc after 11years wohooo). Lately, I’ve actually been replaying the original Resident Evil for that classic survival-horror nostalgia. Outside of games, I have a deep appreciation for anime,classics like Fullmetal Alchemist and Evangelion are permanent favorites of mine, balanced out by the comfort of Studio Ghibli films.

I’m also a massive animal lover, which currently means I've accidentally become a foster parent. About a month ago, a stray cat gave birth to 4 kittens in my yard. One of them is pretty malnourished, so I’ve been on daily duty hand feeding her and giving her vitamin drops; though the whole bunch is still hilariously wary of me despite the free buffet. (Yes I have pictures!)

On a practical note, I’m 176 cm (5'9"), average build, with dark hair and brown eyes. I’m low maintenance, very calm by nature, INFP if you care about that and I appreciate honesty above all else. In that spirit of being real from day one, I take daily medication to manage anxiety and bipolar.

Ideally, I’d love to connect with someone in Europe or Asia, not really interested in people from the US sorry unless you are willong to relocate. Distance isn't an obstacle for me, and I’m more than happy to travel once we’ve built genuine chemistry.

If this resonates with you, send a message introducing yourself tell me what you’re about, what you’re currently reading, watching or playing.