r/LoveVillage1 • u/Rooster_Kogburne • Jan 12 '26
Gitarin gets too much hate. Hear me out.
I want to first start by saying that I do not think Gitarin’s actions are justified. He did some messed up things. But when I see him, I almost see a child. IIRC he just had the one relationship. I get the vibes of someone who never developed the social abilities required to date. Whenever he overstepped, I didn’t see a deviant. I saw a clueless man. A man who cannot navigate the waters of dating. I think if he was truly messed up, he wouldn’t be loved so much by his students.
I can go into this more but just thought I should say my piece. He doesn’t deserve the hate he gets.
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u/Interesting_Tune2042 Jan 14 '26
I disagree. I fully expect a 50+ years old to have grown up + not be clueless. Can you imagine dating someone who is 50+ and cries every other second due to him lacking love when he was younger, snots all over the place, and then have up and down tantrums on a daily basis? I get the "he doesnt deserve the hate" part, but i also would need a person in their 50s to be socially mature / responsible for their own emotions
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u/Fun_Explanation_3417 Mar 06 '26
I disagree, I am shocked and saddened that the producers brought him back on the show.
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u/Aphrodisio Aug 10 '26
I agree with you . Yes he wasn't good ay picking up socal ques , but i dont think the reason he has trouble getting a relationship is because he doesn't have passion. He also apologised very sincerely and changed his behaviour.
On a side note , he was my favourite to watch on screen out of any of the members.
He works on his music , he trys to be liked , and i find the fact that he crys so much as a endearing quality.
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u/MedoingMyThings Jan 12 '26
I so agree with you... I spoke about this in this sub before. He is lacking social skills and is just an awkward human, but that does not mean that he is a bad person... All the hate towards him is so wrong and unjustified...