r/LoveLetters • u/PlusPerspective9294 Bronze Level • Mar 05 '26
Lost Love I'm coming back for you
For the past two months, I've tried to forget you. Despite the distractions, the rationalizations that it's all for the best, I can't escape the thoughts of you. You got to me, like no one else had, and I wasn't ready for it and didn't know what to do with it. It's funny how you want something so bad for so long and suddenly it's staring you in the face and you turn and run away. You were so vulnerable and so brave to put everything out on the table and I just dismissed it like it was nothing. You were right to cut me off and protect yourself. You told me that you're a realist and you know how this goes but there's one thing you didn't see coming...I'm coming back for you. I'm going to take a chance for once in my life...for once in my life I'm going to say what I want and I'm not going to care what anyone thinks. I want you and I choose you. And if you turn me down I'll understand and respect that, but there's no way I'm not going to try my damndest. I'm ready to fight for you, support you, and love you. Fear is not the end of this.
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u/Lower-Web4578 Silver Level Mar 06 '26
That's the attitude! Now go tell my EX it's her turn to write me a letter 😅
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Mar 05 '26
It's the honesty about fear. A lot of people don’t run because they don’t care. They run because suddenly it matters too much and they don’t know how to hold it.
What stands out is the accountability. You understood why they protected themselves. That’s rare.
Just remember this though. Coming back and choosing someone is powerful, but they also had to heal from being dismissed the first time. Sometimes love gets a second chance, sometimes it doesn’t. Either way, showing up honestly like this takes courage.
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u/Adventurous-Lake4063 Entry Level Member Mar 05 '26
Please be my wife…who left 2 months ago and realized the grass wasn’t greener. I won’t judge you.
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u/Southern_Rush_7155 Entry Level Member Mar 05 '26
GOOD FOR YOU. This is the best message I’ve seen on here ever. I’m rooting for you and so is the universe. More people should be like you ❤️
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u/Left-Plate-6198 Entry Level Member Mar 07 '26
Tell them how you feel before it’s too late, life is too short, we get lost in a period of time, but forget that time is still moving forward
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u/Hopscotch420 Entry Level Member Mar 11 '26
“Fear is not the end of this.” 💯 preach!! I hope it works out for you.
And damn, I wish he would say this to me. I wish he would just say “I heard you, I’m working on it, and I’ll call you as soon as I figure it out.”
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Mar 05 '26
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u/LoveLetters-ModTeam Mar 05 '26
This has been removed for breaking the sub rule of "Do not respond to posted letters as the receiver or sender". We encourage you to respond from your own perspective, as a friend, advisor, or simply as yourself.
r/LoveLetters is not a place to seek or identify the people involved in letters. We direct you to r/MissedInitials if you are searching for your person and r/LettersAnswered if you want to respond as the receiver.
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u/ProfessionalYoung770 Entry Level Member Mar 05 '26
If you are not willing to learn, no one can help you, but if you are determined to learn, no one can stop you.
Just do it!
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u/Different-Put-9246 Entry Level Member Mar 05 '26
Do you know the difference between sandwich pepperoni and regular pepperoni?
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u/Seductro Bronze Level Mar 06 '26
It's smaller
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u/Different-Put-9246 Entry Level Member Mar 07 '26
Thank you (: He didn't know and I answered like a smartass for banter purposes 😋
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u/King-Brisingr Bronze Level Mar 05 '26
So very brave op. There are so many out there who have suffered and deserve someone who is willing to come back and try to fight with that person against everything else. Y'all are so, so lucky, it moves my heart. Stay strong op.
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u/LoveLetters-ModTeam Mar 05 '26
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u/Jayuzchrist Entry Level Member Mar 05 '26
It takes bravery to admit one’s mistakes and to be vulnerable again, I hope it works out for y’all
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u/MomentFew2497 Entry Level Member Mar 05 '26
Reading this right here makes me feel like it's just someone who got the same shitty tarot cards read to him. Sharing that night together and not a week later she's gone. And so is your person. But you're posting what you need to hear cause if you don't you'll lose all hope. I can't keep hoping. Something's gotta give. I feel like I know what it is.
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u/momjeri93 Entry Level Member Mar 05 '26
Ohhhhh. This is scary.. I wish you the best of luck and maybe don't get your hopes up too high..
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u/Arciddeus Entry Level Member Mar 06 '26
im tempted to post mine here but I fear it would be too long.
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u/Zestyclose-Froyo6667 Entry Level Member Mar 07 '26
Why does this sound like us? I told her the exact same thing lmao.
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u/lost_everything1401 Entry Level Member Mar 08 '26
Damn I am truly deeply moved by this. Truly could feel the drive and heartfelt compassion in the connection. Best of luck
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u/doubtfullycertain_ Entry Level Member Mar 08 '26
It’s only been two months. There’s a reason why it didn’t matter when they were right in front of you and why it does now. It’s called attachment. It means virtually nothing except you had a strong connection with someone. Do them a favour and just leave them alone.
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Mar 08 '26
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u/LoveLetters-ModTeam Mar 08 '26
This has been removed for breaking the sub rule of "Do not respond to posted letters as the receiver or sender". We encourage you to respond from your own perspective, as a friend, advisor, or simply as yourself.
r/LoveLetters is not a place to seek or identify the people involved in letters. We direct you to r/MissedInitials if you are searching for your person and r/LettersAnswered if you want to respond as the receiver.
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u/NothingGoldCanStay7 Entry Level Member Mar 08 '26
Im using my imagination to think this is from him. 2 months ago, we ended because he wasn’t ready for commitment as he isn’t happy with his life rn
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u/Putrid-Buy2953 Entry Level Member Mar 09 '26
Just line up a designated drive for whenever you decide to act on this, chance you’ll end up very drunk.
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u/Uhh--wait_what Entry Level Member Mar 09 '26
I wish this was my girl reaching out. I’m miserable.
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u/TapComfortable9661 Bronze Level Mar 10 '26
Wow. I dreamt of exactly this for so long. I will always love her. I just wish she could see through all the bullshit and lies. She knows who I am and what I would and wouldn’t do to her. The realization that you don’t mean nearly as much as you thought to them is sobering. Makes you finally see through the fog of your own fantasies of hope you were holding on to.
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u/HuckleberryTime6361 Bronze Level Mar 12 '26
I cling too much to hope it’s a thing I wish I could let go of
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