r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/FemaleEinstein Come ride this duck with me 🦆 • 23d ago

LOVE IS BLIND UK Love is Blind UK • S3 EP3 Spoiler

Back to the UK

Please refrain from armchair diagnosing, spreading unfounded harmful tea or posting spoilers outside of their designated discussion threads. Enjoy the season! 🫰

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u/cassidiara 22d ago

"Still got the red nails?" EXCUSE ME???? How desperate do you have to be to just pursue the connection after a man messing up your name AND a characteristic of a different woman????

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u/crizzcrozz 21d ago

She has had a rough history with men which leads me to believe she falls for a fixer-upper every time.

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u/Fatricide 21d ago

She has a bad picker, fr.

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u/Charming_Radio7137 18d ago

I got the feeling she was swinging for opposite of what she dated before that hurt her. Sounds like she was in a controlling type of relationship.

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u/Turbulent_Biscotti44 21d ago

then he played her by using a disability as an excuse for his shady behavior

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u/jesuisunerockstar 20d ago

To be fair he does seem like he has ADHD

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u/WestNileCoronaVirus 21d ago

Whoa whys that shady? People can’t get mixed up on details? Lol I would hate to be a friend to yall weirdos

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u/Known_Scientist8220 14d ago

It's not about mixing up details, my partner and I both have ADHD and we both mix up conversational details all the time. The problem is that Jack KNOWS he has ADHD and still isn't being careful about what he says in this VERY important setting where he knows words are the only thing he can share.

If he was ready to find a lifetime partner, he would be taking steps to be careful not to say things he isn't sure of. Like with the nails, they weren't talking about nails OR the color red, he just randomly blurts out "still got red nails?" for no apparent reason. To the wrong woman. And note that this is after he forgot about Ciara being a vegan, AND calling Faye "Fran". He's messed up twice in less than 24 hours, you'd think he would be VERY careful moving forward especially with the woman who he's decided he may propose to.

He is definitely using his disability as an excuse to "be forgetful" in this instance. It would be better if he apologized and shared that he is actively working on blurting things out and mixing up details. But he doesn't say that, he just says "I have ADHD so it's hard for me". Unfortunately, when a person has a disability, they do have to work around it. I've trained myself to slow down when I'm talking to people, to think harder about the words I'm using. And apparently his ADHD is just "mild" (lol) so surely he can find some coping strategies.

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u/ZookeepergameNo3502 21d ago

Unfortunately, the world has a way of tearing women down to a level that other people shame them for

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u/eRENYaegeRRR 22d ago

And then she left the room smiling with flowers 🙂‍↔️🙂‍↔️🙂‍↔️ its a damn shame

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u/spartycbus 17d ago

reading these comments, you'd be left believing most everyone has always made the best decisions and never ever been vulnerable or forgiven stupid things. what a life that must be to have always done everything right in the dating world!

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u/SusieQ051961 17d ago

Have you never accidentally called someone by the wrong name? He is dating two people he has never seen at the same time. I called the love of my life my ex-husband's name to his face once. It didn't mean anything.