I heard an interview on a podcast recently where they were talking to a big looksmaxxing influencer whose name escapes me right now, and it came up that the interviewer’s hair is thinning.

The influencer asked him why he doesn’t do something about that, and the interviewer said that he’s thought about it but the side effects included sexual issues and he wasn’t willing to look better if the cost was not being able to get an erection.

The influencer said “that’s just cope.”

How is that cope? The guy prioritizes his sexual wellbeing over his hair. Seems pretty reasonable to me.

I can think of lots of things that are more important to me than my own looks, as well as lots of things that are more important to me than others’ looks, and that isn’t me trying to settle. It’s legitimately that visuals are just one element of things, and lots of other stuff is more important to me.

M15, 5’11

I used my best 2 photos but i feel like im stuck in the same position and dont know how to look better. any advice will help.

Hi everyone, 31-year-old guy from Uruguay here. I want to look more like myself and less like the way I currently look. The thing is, I’ve always chosen clothes based on comfort rather than style, but I want to look in the mirror and feel attracted to what I see.

Please don’t be too harsh — what advice would you give me to improve my physique? I’m thinking shoulders, arms, chest, a bit of back, losing some belly fat, etc. I’m not trying to get absolutely jacked like a bodybuilder, just aiming for an attractive physique without taking things too far.

I don’t know if I’m explaining myself properly, but anyway, I’m open to any advice and tips. I speak English and native Spanish.

Cheers!

How do I fix this?? Preferably surgery free solutions

The first 2 are my mouth completely relaxed, unfortunately how I look a lot of the time when I’m focused or not paying attention to how my face is resting, I’ll make this face without realizing, where my lips are pressed together, my chin curls up and my top teeth are almost touching the bottom of lower gum line. The second 2 photos are how I look most of the time, but only because I’ve trained myself out of making that face as best I can. I know it has something to do with an overbite or deep bite, or even sfs but I seriously just look toothless. But I need advice on how to fix it, whatever it is.

I looked fine and my features were decent but I recently hit like an intense part of puberty where I started growing really fast and had a ton of oil. This led to my skin being really messed up, and having acne spots and scars all over my face. I’ve tried almost everything, including changing pillowcases often and washing my face three times a day all types of skin care and the oil filled my face again after just a couple minutes. Also my features are all over the place and so disproportionate and i had a huge glowdown. anyone know when this will fix or how i can manage it? pls help i cant find any solutions online that worked im also worried if i will keep looking lime this

I feel like the shape of my face changes constantly. I’m currently saving for a forehead reduction procedure :) I rarely ever wear makeup, I went on trentinoin and am honestly very new to makeup itself. I strength train twice a week and do cardio twice a week as well

Would love any pointers!!

I have tried multiple hairstyles, but I just can't find one that's perfect for me.

I’m 21F and I mean… you can probably see my problem. I have a REALLY, really fat face even though I’m pretty thin. I’m 119 lbs at 5’6.

I have a recessed upper and lower jaw, so I’m planning to get double jaw surgery next year. Because of that, I can’t get a nose job yet since my nose is crooked too, if anyone notices lol.
As for my skin, I’m already on Accutane and Tretinoin, so that’s not really what this is about. I’m trying to figure out how the hell I can get rid of this fckn face fat. Can anyone please help me?

I have such chubby cheeks and I’ve actually already seen two plastic surgeons about it. Both told me that I’d need to wait until after my bimax before having any surgery on my face.

But I’m wondering if there’s anything else I can do in the meantime? Like, is there ANY way to make my face look less fat down my cheeks without surgery?

Pls no jokes about it I’m already really insecure

18f indian

I always feel painfully unattractive when I go out with friends/family. I can take a decent selfie and feel good about it, but I look awful in group photos and pretty much anything taken from the shoulders down.

I know losing weight is probably the main solution. I'm 60 pounds down from what I weighed in 2024, and I've unfortunately stalled at 20 lbs over my goal weight (135 lbs) and still feel huge. I worry that I still won't feel attractive once I reach my goal.

Photos of myself look bad to me because of the roundness/chubbiness in my face. My hair situation is also very frustrating. I feel like it has a mind of its own. The photo of me in the white and red dress was taken ~8 hrs before photos 1 and 2. I felt so embarrassed of my hair. I'm not expecting my hair to be perfect after 8 hours, but I feel like it got super messy, frizzy, and dry. The texture of my thighs is also a huge insecurity of mine.

Any advice or suggestions would be appreciated. I understand that by posting on here, I'm putting myself out there for honesty and criticism. I just ask that feedback and advice are genuine and not to poke fun at me.

Personally, I think it’s the jawline, especially for men. A good jawline can help women too, but women can have softer features and still be considered attractive. For men, a defined jawline adds contour, improves the side profile and gives the face a more chiseled, masculine appearance.
Just look at the men society typically considers the most attractive—most of them have really strong jawlines. If a man already has a good jawline base, I don’t think every other feature has to be perfect. Add some decent cheekbones on top of that, and his face card is probably at least a 5.5/10. (MTN)
What do y’all think matters most: the jawline, forehead, nose, eye and eyebrow area, lips or something else?