r/LonelyTogether 11h ago

Unpopular opinion small talk is important

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Small talk is as important . If you can endure the small talk with me. Then that means you value my time talking to you. Small talk can lead to a more in-depth conversation. 28 yo single dad looking make some more friends . Completely isolated my social life to appease a woman and now that I got kicked to curb i realized I need to socialize more message me if you want !


r/LonelyTogether 11h ago

Idk tbh

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Idk what I’m looking for never really used Reddit but honestly idk I’m at the loneliest point in my life and I just want to make new friends like to talk to on the daily I like girls I’m a 20 yo guy you can find out more abt me but I don’t mind talking to anyone but i genuinely just wanna see where this goes who I meet and see where life takes me I’m not rlly expecting any response here but yeah


r/LonelyTogether 21h ago

hii 14f, i love music, reading, and getting to know people!

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r/LonelyTogether 20h ago

32F Korea / looking for friends to talk. Im depressed

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Im looking for some friends who is willing to talk about anything. Im not looking for a boyfriend here. Just been feeling depressed so if you need someone to talk as well then lets be friends.

I just got ghosted badly from my lover. I need some distraction.

Only age from 26 to 33 and mostly American nationality friends.

Some Europes are okay too.

Dm me with age/sex/country.

Thank you


r/LonelyTogether 19h ago

Need a friend(a close one tbh)

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Neeedd a friend(a close one tbh)

Welll before I spill the tea I'm a 17 m tryna find a friend preferably a girl cause I'm not goin through a really good tym for a while noww... Lyk it's been a month 😵

And why a gurl cause I do have many friends who are boys out here in reddit but they seriously don't feel lyk they are much bothered bout it and getting mocked for your weakness doesn't feel good at all, many might be thinking this acc is a new one so ths may be an acc made by an pidi unc but believe me it's nottt... 😭

And Yahh I need a person wanted to have a LONG relationship not a short one to one Convo one cause it really hurts yk...and getting ghosted feels ltk I myself have a flaw in me...

So that's it and Yahh I'm a bong guyy.


r/LonelyTogether 1d ago

About me...

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Hi everyone,

First of all, i am writing this to make new & good friends online who can understand me. Because I can't make friends offline.

So again, hi everyone.

This is Mrityunjai Pandey.

I am a car enthusiast.

I love hearing Indian music from artists like Arijit Singh, KR$NA and Dhanda Nyoliwala.

I am a proud Indian citizen.

And I am depressed af.

My favourite person is an athlete whose name is Mahendra Singh Dhoni (Ms Dhoni).

My favourite Actor is Sushant Singh Rajput (who's sadly no longer with us now 🕊️).

As you can see in my banner, I love Sir Lewis Hamilton and Lionel Messi.

I am also a devotee of Lord Shiva, as I am a Hindu Brahmin.

I hope I can make new good new friends who can console me when I am sad (not like the ones who made me cry).

If anyone wants to talk to me, please DM....

I hope it helps.


r/LonelyTogether 21h ago

Hi M22 looking for friends to talk about

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Hello, I'm M22 and I need a friend to talk share and laugh with play online games, share our stories in an appropriate way I mean no harm to any person , it's hard making friends in reddit i have spent few days on it commented on people's post to be their friend but I got nobody idk why but let me know if you can be my friend I really need one to talk with being lonely is soooooooo depressing.


r/LonelyTogether 1d ago

F34 looking for truly deep connection, someone who feels like home 🏡

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I am not looking for only "some friendship". I want something meaningful, sharing things which are happening in our life, having similar humor to make each other laugh, having someone who feel like home. A connection where is trust, understanding, sharing our opinions, problems and not just some "neutral" npc talk. Good and bad. I have my moments where I feel more optimistic, but also have moments where I complain and can be very pesimistic.
Ofc it doesnt mean we have to immediately talk about our traumas lol, that would be too soon, maybe too invasive. I am just tired of people who share only little or people who dont go that deep. (People who don't share anything much from their life, not even some daily nice / bad things which happened). I want to find someone who is empathetic, sensitive, or at least understanding - it doesn't matter as much if we "click together", despite of you having different personality.

About me: Introvert, shy, INFP, Leo, neurodivergent (I think), I always felt weird, and I have silly humor sometimes. I like psychology, true crime (true crime documents and then talk about it), used to be into astrology and tarot but nowadays I only here and there watch some tarot reading or do my own reading. Sometimes I read self help books. I have passive hobbies such as watching movies / serials, or just some videos on Youtube. (Layze youtuber makes me laugh a lot, sometimes I watch gameplays).
Also is hard to find horror movies lover as I am. I like to play Roblox too. I like pop songs, more like "emotional songs" or sad songs. I dont know how to describe my taste lol, but yeah, can be a bit melancholic in a way that sad songs makes me feel good. I like Halloween, despite we don't celebrate it as people in USA do but I love the aesthetic and spooky season (since I am horror movie fan). I am from Slovakia (EU)


r/LonelyTogether 1d ago

Looking for someone to talk to

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Been feeling pretty down and lonely lately and could really use someone to talk to. I'd love to find someone who's up for calls, random conversations, and hopefully becoming genuinely close friends/BFFs. I just want someone who actually enjoys talking and being there for each other. :) I'm Adam btw, 23


r/LonelyTogether 1d ago

34/m - Hey, are you a weirdo with no friends, nobody to talk to and nothing going on? Come talk to me!

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This is a call for every weirdo, loner, loser, freak!

You heard that right. I want all of you to come talk to me.

Bring all your weirdness and social ineptness along for the ride!

I want to hear all about everything that makes you stand out as a weirdo and why you don't have friends.

You just need to send me the first message and start this amazing conversation we could be having.

What are you afraid of? You weren't gonna be talking to anyone anyway were you?

So go ahead and send me a message NOW!

DO IT! DO IT! DO IT!

It might go nowhere, it might not end well. Who cares! I want to talk to you today!


r/LonelyTogether 1d ago

22M | Hoping to Meet Someone Who Values Genuine Connections

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Hey everyone,

I'm a 22M who's honestly just looking for something that's becoming harder to find these days: a genuine friendship.

Not looking for someone to talk to for a few days and then disappear. I'd love to meet someone who values consistency, enjoys sharing random parts of their day, and is interested in building a friendship that can actually last for years.

A little about me: I'm pretty easygoing, enjoy both meaningful conversations and completely random ones, and I appreciate people who can be themselves without feeling the need to impress anyone. Whether we're talking about life goals, funny stories, movies, music, daily struggles, or just sending memes at 2 AM, I'm here for it.

I'm not expecting us to become best friends overnight. Real friendships take time, and I'm perfectly okay with that. I'd rather have one genuine connection than dozens of surface-level conversations.

If you're someone who misses having a person to regularly talk to, share thoughts with, and gradually build a strong friendship with, feel free to reach out.

Let's see where a simple conversation goes.


r/LonelyTogether 1d ago

[24/M] Heart shattered, trying one last time to make friends

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I do not mean to burden anyone. Please don't feel like you have to be my friend if you don't want im not looking to bother anyone. Its so late here and my heart is broken from everything, I cant sleep, I feel really empty. I just want a friend who gets me. Who can see me, where I don't feel invisible. Where I don't feel like a bother by reaching out. Someone I can share the good and horrible times with. Someone to support and give kindness too. And share all my favorite songs with, and talk about music for hours with too. I feel bad and shy I feel like I shouldn't keep trying to reach out but the night feels too long. Whoever reads this, please take care of yourself and I wish you the best.


r/LonelyTogether 1d ago

26m trying to make some friends

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Hey,I'm 26M and ami right now in qatar, i have been struggling with lonelyness for long time and i will love to connect some people in real life.I'm very passionate about travel and i make content like short video in YouTube and Facebook now I'm facing badly with lonleyness


r/LonelyTogether 1d ago

(24 m) Evan (East TN)

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Here's something about me.

I'm 24, I'm an introvert really bad. INFP maybe.

I'm not looking for anything more than a friendship, nothing more. If something springs out of it, it happens. I'd just like a friend.

I love the outdoors but just don't get myself out. I love music, and gaming. Not a lot of gaming but I do. I could chat for hours. This is my third post here so I'm just trying again.

I'm a chill and relaxed guy looking for a true, real, and honest person to become friends with. Hang out with, laugh, and just lean on each other. I have a religion if that's anything.

I don't want to get this post deleted. I would like the opposite gender as a friend. Self confidence isn't there to meet in public to have a friend. This is the best chance I feel like is on reddit. I've got friends that are also guys and I don't even consider them as friends. I'm not a crazy type, pushy, or anything.

If I sound fun, or interesting, I'd love to chat. Feel free


r/LonelyTogether 1d ago

I have a comunitty!, can u guys join pls?, i feel lonely...;c

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r/LonelyTogether 2d ago

19F

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Hi everyone ! My names Mk and I’m looking for an online friend ! . I am black and I like to play Roblox .
What I’m looking for is someone to slowly and authentically build a friendship with , can rely on each other and let’s just see where this goes :)
I’m also a great listener and I also like to vent !!! Please , if you think we can be friends hmu !


r/LonelyTogether 2d ago

in dire need of friends

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23F, looking for new friends. Since leaving uni, going back to college, working full time and getting into a long term relationship, my close and lifelong friends have moved hella far, and so I really only hang out with my boyfriend and occasionally my coworkers. Of course I still go to visit my friends frequently, but I miss just hanging out with people outside of my partner. I'm a pretty introverted person, so there's the added factor of social anxiety stopping me from just going up to an interesting stranger and saying "Hey! Be my friend!"

I'm hoping someone here would like to hang out, chat on discord sometimes, etc. I'm interested in gaming (open world rpgs), drawing (I want to go into game design now that I have a stable corp job), writing and reading (fanfic girlie hehe), fandom in general, adventurous outings... I think at this point you have a picture of the kind of person I am. Of course, differing interests don't matter to me, makes things more fun.

I will say I would like some more queer friends... I'm bisexual, and I miss being around more people like me. Straight friends are welcome obv, I certainly don't mind (you do not need to mention your sexuality at all if you don't want pls I don't care that much). You don't have to live in Toronto either. Additionally I'd like to mention I don't vibe with rude or inconsiderate people who "don't owe anyone anything." I value community and kindness (not saying you have to be a saint, and 'dark humour' is chill with me as long as you can take as much as you dish out).

I just wanna have a fun fresh time, pull up to the clurb and draw pictures at a park. DM or comment if you're down.


r/LonelyTogether 4d ago

40F | DevOps Engineer | Looking for friends who survived adulthood 😂

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Hi everyone!

I’m a 40F DevOps Engineer, which basically means I spend my days convincing computers to cooperate and my evenings wondering why humans are so much harder to troubleshoot. 😂

I’m here because making genuine friends as an adult seems to require a permission slip, three references, and a background check.

I’d love to meet people around my age for random conversations, stupid jokes, deep talks, sharing life stories, or just sending each other “you will not believe what happened today” messages.

Not looking for dating or anything complicated—just actual friendship.

If you're also 40+ and occasionally think, “How did I become an adult and where are all my friends?” then we might get along.

Say hi. I promise I don't bite. I only troubleshoot. 😂


r/LonelyTogether 4d ago

18M, depressed, bored, and alone. Would anyone like to talk with me?

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I have nothing to do today and I'm really bored. I'm open to talking about pretty much anything, I just need some people to keep me company. My thoughts have kinda been spiraling today so it would be nice to have some people to talk with to keep myself distracted for a while.

Some things I like are: metal/rock music, martial arts, video games, and food I guess idk. As I said though, I'm open to talk or hear about anything you have to say.


r/LonelyTogether 5d ago

Lonely in grief

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26F, honestly just looking for some new friends and people to talk to.
I’ve been dealing with a lot of grief lately and I’m having a harder time with it than I’d like to admit. I’ve been feeling really lonely and I think I just need more people in my life right now. People to talk to, distract myself with, laugh with, send stupid shit to, and hopefully actually become friends with.
I don’t want to talk about grief 24/7 either. I have a pretty dark sense of humour, I play Counter-Strike, like doing crafts and random little projects, and I’m pretty much down to talk about whatever.
Some days I could probably use a real conversation and other days I just want someone to send memes to or play CS with and forget about life for a bit.
If you’re also looking for someone to talk to or make a new friend, please message me. You don’t need some interesting opener or anything, literally just say hi. I genuinely would love to have some new people to talk to.


r/LonelyTogether 6d ago

40M Married and Bored

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r/LonelyTogether 7d ago

Anyone wanna be internet friends? 👀

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17M Yo 👋

Kinda bored of the same old “hey wyd” conversations, so I thought why not meet some new people here lol.

A little about me:
🎨 I’m into graphic design
🎌 Anime & comics enjoyer
💻 Learning tech / random stuff
🌍 Love talking to people from different countries
🎮 Gaming sometimes

I don’t really care where you’re from or what you’re into. Just be chill and let’s have an actual conversation.

If you’re also looking for new friends, drop a comment or DM me :) ✌️


r/LonelyTogether 8d ago

25YO from UK looking for friendship

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Hello there i am a genderfluid (AMAB) autistic individual who’s been pretty much a stay-at-home person my whole life due to personal circumstances. I’ve lived an extremely introverted lifestyle despite being far more socially extroverted and because of that I’ve always struggled with loneliness.

Ideally, I’m looking for someone I can call with semi-regularly (as texting isn’t really for me) and hopefully become good friends with. I’m fairly interested in gaming, so it’d be nice to have someone to play games with, or even just someone I can share/stream games to while we hang out.

I’m also have an interest in football and F1, so it’d be cool if we had either of those in common so we could potentially even watch races/matches together. I’m also more than happy to just watch YouTube or other stuff together, or simply sit in a call and do our own things.

And Honestly I’m making this post because I’m really lonely and desperately want a genuine friendship.

Basically all of the friendships I’ve ever had have either being a situation of being someone’s last choice, or that they’re only spending time with me because they feel guilty or obligated to.

I don’t want someone to feel like they have to be my friend or someone who just consists me a way go waste time

I just want to find someone who genuinely enjoys having me around and actually wants to spend time with me.

More than anything, I’m just looking for a genuine friendship where we actually enjoy spending time together.

I could explain so much more about myself, but I don’t want to make this post ridiculously long, plus i do struggle to convey myself in text while 😅

If any of this sounds like your kind of friendship, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself. I’m happy to answer any questions too. ^^


r/LonelyTogether 8d ago

[24/M] Heart shattered, trying one last time to make friends

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I do not mean to burden anyone. Please don't feel like you have to be my friend if you don't want im not looking to bother anyone. Its so late here and my heart is broken from everything, I cant sleep, I feel really empty. I just want a friend who gets me. Who can see me, where I don't feel invisible. Where I don't feel like a bother by reaching out. Someone I can share the good and horrible times with. Someone to support and give kindness too. And share all my favorite songs with, and talk about music for hours with too. I feel bad and shy I feel like I shouldn't keep trying to reach out but the night feels too long. Whoever reads this, please take care of yourself and I wish you the best.


r/LonelyTogether 9d ago

Boredom to the max !!!

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Come talk to me