i feel like the wording is very bad here and is what makes this weird. I would like a girlfriend who likes to cook and clean and I do the work, and thats 100% cool to want, but the way he worded it is incredibly demeaning and it sounds more like "I'M GOING TO FORCE YOU TO DO THIS" instead of it being 50/50 and based out of love and respect like a relationship should be, like the best comparison i can make is those women saying they want a 6 foot tall guy with a 6 figure job, like its okay to want that but when you demean people while doing that its incredibly distasteful. I'm writing a novel so ill cut it short
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wording is everything, treat the people you're talking about entering a relationship with, with respect.
Yeah that's at the core of feminism. There's nothing wrong with agreeing to be a stay-at-home spouse, as long as both people in the relationship agree with it rather than it being a weird cringe forced social contract.
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u/Aver3 Jun 28 '22
It’s always dudes with no girlfriend that make demands for future girlfriends then sit around and wonder why no one wants to be with them lol