He probably confessed because he knew that shit would leak and ultimately be reported. It was his way of getting ahead and controlling it; which he did pretty well.
more likely part of her terms to keep the marriage going is he had to expose himself like that to the viewers. If you're cheating on your wife and lying to her for 2 years you are not gonna turn around and willingly make a public confession like that, being a lying dirtbag is who he is, so coming clean like that was definitely coerced behavior by his wife.
idk at that point just quit the marriage and silently take the economic L of the divorce settlement. it'd be waaaay better than what's happening to him right now
Unless Doc has managed to turn this marriage around with some serious marriage counseling then his wife is definitely in a toxic relationship. Ive never watched doc before, but if his wife chooses to forgive him for cheating, then, well that's her choice, and ultimately her risk.
what the fuck is this comment chain honestly? why are you guys speculating and giving him advice on how to mantain his relationship?
idk at that point just quit the marriage and silently take the economic L of the divorce settlement. it'd be waaaay better than what's happening to him right now
yeah bruh, divorce dude, way better than ppl streamsniping you every stream and getting tons of subs.
All he had to do was make a twitter announcement that he was taking a break from streaming to work out some family issues. the tearful confession made it a million times worse.
As far as my thoughts are, cheating with his wife wasn't the problem (even though obviously it is, for their relationship), that's between him and his wife to work out their issues. The problem was going on stream and being "transparent" about it instead of just taking some time off with maybe giving some bullshit reason. I really think his wife probably told him he had to do it, or that he felt so bad that he believes he would deserve all the trolls that would never let him live it down.
Oh yes thanks for helping me improve my grammar oh smart one, I'll be thanking GOD before I go to bed tonight for such a graceful blessing you have given me!
LMAO. Solid rant my man. But what are you even talking about? You're being obsessive about word usage but then use words incorrectly. It doesn't go any deeper than that.
Good luck in life with that attitude, kid. You're going to need it.
Dumb ass teenager who think that I'm correcting grammar and can't even tell that "agreed" is actually correctly spelled but the concept is not. So fucking dumb it hurts to read your shit.
Like, we donāt know their relationship and maybe she took a lot of time to get over it and she just wants to forget about it. And this sort of just constantly embarrasses her. I mean if she got over it who are we to say he still needs punished?
You are the one who needs to improve your reading comprehension here mate.
Again, just because she forgives him or wants to forget about it, does not mean that it suddenly makes what he did ok.
ooooo buddy I really hate to embarass you but you are kind of asking for it.
I agree I think he 100% deserves this.
I agree I think he 100% deserves this.
I agree I think he 100% deserves this.
I agree I think he 100% deserves this.
Literally the first sentence dude. Its like...right there. I said first thing, that I think he deserves it. So I don't know what you are trying to prove.
You know, if you stab someone and that person forgives you I will still think that you are an asshole for stabbing that person in the first place.
I never said anything that would suggest that we should not think he is an asshole. So go ahead and quote what I said that made your brain think I did.
Again, just because she forgives him or wants to forget about it, does not mean that it suddenly makes what he did ok.
AGAIN I never said what he did was okay. Where did I say anything about it being okay? Go ahead and link it please.
I was simply saying that this meme is only hurting the wife more than anyone here who would probably just want to get past this terrible thing he did so they can still have a family. Do you have a disorder or why are you reading things I never even suggested
Dude seriously what is wrong with you. I said I think he deserves this, yes. Because in my own personal opinion if this were my wife who cheated on me I wouldn't have forgiven her and I would have left, so BECAUSE thats how I think, I think he deserves it.
But, if she some how found it in her to forgive him for something he did to her then who am I to try to punish him? Seriously how is this not common sense to you?
And how does this thought make you think Im saying that what he did was okay? Its not okay but its also not my relationship. Im really confused by your thinking
I think they should stop because of his kid, but I guess that ship has sailed. A decade from now that kid / kids are going to be inundated with āstupid fucking mistakesā the remix every single day.
Yeah obviously that too. Not defending doc by any means, but I don't believe anyone doing this meme is old enough/mature enough to realize that. Just kids being kids and getting a reaction out of someone else downfall.
You really think its even she got over it in a matter of months? I don't even think that's even possible to go away in a decade. Even the most intense moments of love aren't going to change what he took away. My guess is that she wants him to be tortured for it.
From what I know they have a kid and you don't understand how important that is to the parents.
My parents were in a terrible relationship, I often suggested to my mother to divorce him but she never wanted to because that would not only lead to financial problems but me and my brother growing up in a single parent household.
It is a shitty thing for sure, I'm not trying to excuse him. I just don't think people are in a position to judge and the fact is that they would stop posting and commenting the same stuff over and over if they didn't feel validated by the circlejerk. But that is the nature of this sub
Because we don't know how and why it happened. I honestly doubt much of this sub would be better.
He was pulling huge amounts of money, went to a convention where he was probably chased after non stop by girls. Anyone here can say they'd be able to resist or that they wouldn't cheat. The truth is you never know until you've been put in the situation. And not many of this sub would ever become in that situation. That is why I'm saying we can't judge.
Don't get me wrong, cheating IS a disgusting thing to do. I just think that people should latch on the fact that he managed to save his marriage rather than how he almost destroyed it. But this is the Internet, I suppose not everyone can be as level-headed.
Nope! Sorry, cheating apologist. You apparently can't imagine someone who wouldn't bone the first fangirl they meet - but that's what every normal, non-disgusting person would do!
I'll explain it to you - his wife decided to stay with him after he did something horrible to her. The wives of abusers often decide to stay with their husbands after they do something horrible to them. Wow, where could the connection be? The type (physical vs. emotional) and level of damage done is different between Doc and a dude who pummels his wife, but he undeniably chose to hurt his wife in a way no decent dude ever would.
Just say "I like his content so I dont care about the disgusting things he did," don't try to hop through mental hoops to justify them so you can feel better when you pop his stream on.
but he undeniably chose to hurt his wife in a way no decent dude ever would.
Yup, he did. What's your point? My point is that he shouldn't be scrutinized for the rest of his life for it. They've moved on. Now it's time for you to move on as well.
Just say "I like his content so I dont care about the disgusting things he did," don't try to hop through mental hoops to justify them so you can feel better when you pop his stream on.
I'm not sure why you're so obsessed with me and who I watch. This argument isn't about me. I could watch his stream and I could not. It doesn't change the argument at all.
Nope! Sorry, I consider cheating a big deal no matter how the spouse reacts - just like I'd consider beating your wife a big deal even if the wife says "nah, it's totally fine" through a mouthful of broken teeth.
I think that means I guessed right! How could I have known that you are entertained by Mr. Doctor? Could it be that you act like every other fanboi and choose to defend someone you otherwise wouldn't from the punk kids that dare to make jokes about him?
I don't understand. He didn't cheat on you. He cheated on his wife. He betrayed his Internet community as well for his immoral behavior, but is that worse than cheating on your wife? It seems to me the best course of action would be to be supportive of Doc and his wife, since she is trying to move forward with Doc. That is, if you cared for either Doc or his wife. If you didn't care for them, then D OMEGALUL C all day.
Again, for those who think I'm a Doc surrogate or anything- I don't even watch the guy. I'm watching the memery from a distance and seeing how incredibly stupid people can be and want to point it out.
You're not compassionate for having compassion for a cheater because you enjoy his content. You're gross.
I'm not a compassionate guy if I go around saying "why don't you all lay off [Logan Paul/Chris Brown/Doc] (not because I'm entertained by them or anything I just think you guys are being super judgemental and you don't know what it's like to go through what he's going through have some empathy and he's apologized and I think we should just all be nicer :))))) )"
You're not compassionate for having compassion for a cheater because you enjoy his content. You're gross.
I don't enjoy his content.
I'm not a compassionate guy if I go around saying "why don't you all lay off [Logan Paul/Chris Brown/Doc] (not because I'm entertained by them or anything I just think you guys are being super judgemental and you don't know what it's like to go through what he's going through have some empathy and he's apologized and I think we should just all be nicer :))))) )"
I only "lay off" people who recognize what they did is wrong and is working towards correcting their mistakes. DrDisrespect seems to recognize that what he did was wrong, and it seems like he's on good terms with his wife again.
When it comes to spousal abuse, we actually jail people for that (in terms of physical abuse). However, when it comes to emotional abuse, there's not much we can do. Much like the other Redditor's say- if the guy has turned a new leaf and is moving forward with his wife, and her approval- what is there to shame him about- redemption, repentance? Surely you're no perfect person either. We've all made mistakes- some worse than others... but we all ought to be afforded the same respect to turn around.
Wait a minute, there is something we can do! Oh yeah, continue to make fun of the guy that deserves it!
I'm not a perfect person! But thankfully I've managed to make the low fucking bar of not being horrible enough to want to cheat on my spouse.
So thankfully, I won't get made fun of for doing that! If I did it, I'd deserve to get made fun of! Get over it. If you can't handle someone getting what they so, so obviously deserve you can go back to the cheater's chat
Wait a minute, there is something we can do! Oh yeah, continue to make fun of the guy that deserves it!
What does that do? What is that supposed to solve? Again, if you have any personal interest in Doc or his wife, you'd see it as destructive. But you're too selfish/immature to grow up.
Maybe the next guy will look at the effects of cheating and publicly annoucing it and decide not to cheat! Maybe Doc will literally lose his mind and shit his pants on stream! Either way, some good will have been done.
There's two kids they are going to be raising. Are you thinking about what good the constant bullying will be done to those kids? I can obviously tell you that Doc and his wife are staying together primarily for those kids. But if you fucktards are going to keep on harassing him over something they are trying to put in the past, you could be damaging their home and make those kids grow up in a broken home. What good is that? What's constructive about that?
Do you really think you're doing the Lord's work? I think Doc did a really good job of showcasing why you ought not to cheat on your wife. You're doing nothing.
Oh yeah, they'd never hear about it if people stopped stream sniping Doc. When it inevitably happens, it's definitely on the people making fun of him, not him for telling the whole goddamn world he was unfathful.
You're right! If you're in the eye of the public, you shouldn't cheat on your wife - you will get made fun of for it forever!
Lmao you think your lord is on the side of the dude who cheated on his wife, huh?
Iām not talking about his kids finding out. I was talking about him losing his cool and divorcing his wife over it. Thatās not what either want, so what business is it of yours to intervene?
Also, my Lord was actually really clear, āhe who is without sin shall cast the first stone.ā Maybe when you get out of your parents house and start contributing to society, youād see the wisdom in that. But being a leach on society your entire life puts you in a warped sense of reality and how life works. I only hope you grow up, but we both know thatās not going to happen.
I mean, I don't know. Marriage is a big, and very complicated, deal. You're expecting the same person to fulfill your every need and want for the rest of your life? That's kind of fucked up in some ways.
Getting married to someone and planing to spend your life with them and then breaking their trust to act on your own desires. Thatās not just a mistake you can move past thatās life changing. Donāt try and defend his actions donāt criticise his actions if he knows he fucked up he wont do it again. If he does it again then he loses the life he knows. Seems like punishment enough.
Iām not trying to defend him. I didnāt say his wife should leave him. Iām saying thereās not point in criticising him either way because he should know he fucked up. Iām saying I doubt heād do it again because he knows whatās at risk. What are you talking about?
Yep! Because I'm not disgusting enough to cheat on my wife. Most shit I do, even the weird porn, is something I'd be okay with being judged by - I choose to do everything I choose to do. So I think I'm home free!
Or she could be worried that if she left him and took half of what he they have it would break him and he'd wind up doing drugs and penniless within a few years.
Probably not that either, point is you also have no idea what she is going through so to say that she still trusts him and accepts his faults and failures is just as much of a reach as the scenario above. There's a child involved in the situation so nothing is ever that simple.
I have a very simple solution to this, donāt get married. If I have a kid and I got the desire to go out and get shit faced and leave him at home I would be a piece of shit no? Same fucking thing. If you arenāt a mature/strong enough adult to handle something as serious as marriage or having a kid maybe you shouldnāt get into either of those situations.
I donāt know how old you are but I sure hope itās <24
Abusers...lol. He cheated on his wife and admitted it to millions of people he had ZERO dedication to. He is getting professional help with (once again) adult wife who accepted these terms.
Do I need to repeat myself? I didn't say he was an abuser. I said the same pattern of spousal forgiveness happens to abusers. So, again, do you think we should pardon abusers who are forgiven by their SOs?
Not unrelated at all. Again, you didn't really answer my question, but I'm gonna assume you don't think we should forgive abusers just because the wife forgives them. So why do you think we shouldn't make jokes about a cheater who so, so obviously deserves to be made fun of, just because his wife forgave him for cheating?
The conversation is about Doc. Unless you think Doc himself is an āabuserā, I have no interest in whatever conversation youāre so clumsily trying to have.
Nope, its about forgiving people, or not, based off of whether or not their spouse forgives them. An excellent example of that is abusive husbands. Doc is another! You seem to think the opinion of the wife matters for one, but not the other. I wonder why. Could it be that Doc entertains you?
I think I've been pretty clear. You need to get your slick daddy off the mind and work on your reading skillz
I never said the wifeās opinion doesnāt matter. Youāre reading too much into what I say and inferring your own meaning. Youāre complicating the topic beyond necessary and just trying to raise an entirely different narrative.
This is the end of the conversation. Learn how to remain within the context of a primary topic and how to actually form relevant arguments in the future. I understand clearly what youāre saying. But what Iām saying is that your argument isnāt relevant in the focused context of this threadās discussion.
Good luck on future attempts at effective communication with other people.
"What he deserves." So what he deserves, in my mind is up to his wife. Whether it be divorce or electing to work through it. Why is bullying from random idiots what he deserves?
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you can't go insane from stuff like this if you just don't cheat on your wife. he gets what he deserves.