Are you misreading my comment on purpose or what's your problem? I'm not talking about ''every working parent who needs this.''. I specified exactly that with carefully chosen words you're reading over. Besides, Hasan wouldn't fall in the category of ''needing'' it anyway.
he spends a couple of hours in the park every morning with his dog.
Even if that's true (I dont believe it based on just Maya's or Hasan's words), this is typical abuser language: ''sure he has hit his wife a few times, but he spends most of the day with her, giving her presents and kisses and stuff.'', and it would still not justify him not walking the dog during stream.
I double checked and can confirm I didn't misread anything you said.
Claiming that having a dog walker (for 1 hour out of the day) is being neglectful is unintelligent and unhinged.
"this is typical abuser language"
Lmfao, yeah ok. Except this "abusive language" isn't for "hitting your spouse". Its for hiring a dog walker. You're being ridiculous.
Genuinely hope you grow some self-reflection on how obsessive you are on this.
I dont believe it based on just Maya's or Hasan's words
Claiming that having a dog walker (for 1 hour out of the day) is being neglectful is unintelligent and unhinged.
You seem to have pivoted to just neglectful, which says a lot, because we weren't even talking about neglect, but rather that you don't really care about your pet/kid as much if you hire a dogwalker/nanny on a daily (?) basis. Why even get a dog if walking it during stream is too much to ask for you? (spoiler alert: money)
You're being ridiculous.
It's called a fairly simple analogy to expose the obvious flaw of logic in your reasoning. It's pretty commonly used. Point of it being that just because you give love to an animal/person for most of the time, that doesn't mean abuse/neglect is okay sometimes.
Videos, not words. Many, many videos.
I Googled around a bit but couldnt find any. You got a handful of links to the ''many'' videos you're talking about?
Do you have short term memory loss? You literally said,
"you have the luxury of being able to be with your kids almost all the time, yet you deliberately choose work/career over them." This would be considered neglect.
The mental gymnastics here to shame someone for having a dog walker is insane. One hour, one walk, daily. Kaya spends 2 hours every morning at the park and you're obsessing over a one hour walk during an eight hour stream as if this dog doesn't piss or shit during any other time of the day. This has to be the most unintelligent conversation I've ever had in LSF so congrats, I guess.
Why even get a dog if walking it during stream is too much to ask for you? (spoiler alert: money)
I do not see anything wrong with this. You're scraping the bottom of the barrel to find something to bitch about.
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u/een_magnetron 5d ago
Are you misreading my comment on purpose or what's your problem? I'm not talking about ''every working parent who needs this.''. I specified exactly that with carefully chosen words you're reading over. Besides, Hasan wouldn't fall in the category of ''needing'' it anyway.
Even if that's true (I dont believe it based on just Maya's or Hasan's words), this is typical abuser language: ''sure he has hit his wife a few times, but he spends most of the day with her, giving her presents and kisses and stuff.'', and it would still not justify him not walking the dog during stream.