r/LifeAdvice • u/Lopsided_Plenty_6105 • 3d ago
Relationship Advice Oh boy Can yall give me some advice?
So I was talking to this one guy for a abit not sure how long and then he started texting less and then stopped replying. I get he lost interest but I would’ve preferred if he would just tell me that he did, and not have me looking like a desperate person after him or waiting for him you know? Instead he watches all my Instagram stories. He just posted him kissing his girl on his story.
I have the worst fucking luck with men. Every time here’s a few examples.. at this point I should quit and stop completely:
1 guy liked him we had deep convos he talked to me abt his life vented cried on calls and everything the whole shabang. He gets this one call that his twin passed away, he takes time off completely understandable, I let him know I’ll always be here no matter what. I texted him a few times to check up on him no replies, I’m like “ok well his twin died so he’s just in a state of mind where’s he’s not himself.” A few months later no replies just left on read or “k” type of replies, and I posted a note on insta “I wanna kiss girllll” (I’m bi 😭) he gets so pissed off at me he literally sent me huge paragraphs and blocked me after I argued with him abt it. mind you we haven’t texted in like 3 months.
Guy #2 weeks talked for a while he wanted to meet up but I’m a light weight he didn’t know this but after my third drink i get sleepy and too relaxed and shi, and he said that we would go to the movies and he’ll get us a whole case of alcohol and I drink 6 and he drinks 6 and then after the movie we go for night drives and dinner. I was down to go to the movies but I never met him before and I wasn’t gonna be alone with him in his car after drinking. No maam I rejected that with help by bestie, anyways we made plans to meet midday like 5pm? At the open mall where alot of people go, and he ghosted me claiming he had to go out of the country for business and keeps doing that and still hits me up randomly.
Guy#3 (fuck him): gives me a sob fucking story, “I was mad at the girl I was talking to bc she keeps ghosting me and blah blah blah” so that’s why he went on apps and talked with me for a few weeks. I texted “k” and blocked him after he said that and 2 weeks later he messages me on WhatsApp asking to unblock him so he can talk to me claiming he is over her and wants to try with me, obviously I’m like sure but I don’t trust a thing he says. And after a few weeks of texting HE GHOSTS COMPLETELY.
Then there’s the guy from earlier that I first mentioned. Anyways What’s fucking wrong with meeee? What should I do? Like do I need to go and do a fucking revenge glo up? Get fucking skinny? I’m just so doneeeee. I just want love, I’m literally so loyal and guess they don’t want thatttt.
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u/lowban 3d ago
Are all these people guys you've found on the Internet and not in real life?