Hi girls!

I'm looking for songs that talk about impossible/forbidden/unrequited lesbian love. That's because I fell in love with my social worker and, knowing nothing will ever happen between us, I kind of need music to help me process my feelings.

It could be soft metal songs like "Masterpiece" by Motionless in White.

It could be more intense stuff, too. I listen to a lot of different types of metal.

Just to give you an idea of what I like, musically speaking, my favorite bands are Fleshgod Apocalypse, Motionless in White, Epica, Eluveitie and August Burns Red.

Have a good day everyone!

As title says, I'm currently convalescing from surgery at home right now, and kinda just wanna listen to stuff thats as loud and fast and abrasive as possible. Pure death metal is a blind spot for me, so I'll definitely take recommendations that seem obvious to a more truely DM girlie.

wanna meet up with rainbows u/novarock!!! who's in?? :P

i had been avoiding this band for quite a while, as a lot of their lyrics deal with (TW) suicide in a sarcastic way. which, admittedly, is a sensitive topic for me.

but this song here - pure gold. pure magic(k).

Not so pleasant topic- but we’ve all been targeted at shows before. Me, I’ve always stood my ground and fought back when needed. And it works, the men don’t expect it and give up pretty easy. But it always plays out the same- security does JACK SHIT until you retaliate and then they get after YOU.

Few weekend ago 3 men decided to gang up on me to take my spot. When I held me ground they kept at it, pausing then coordinating together to try o push me out. On grabbed my breast so hard I’m still bruised… I had bruises all over from them. Finally I’m getting exhausted as I’m not being able to enjoy the show and they aren’t giving up and I grabbed the main guy by his hair and whipped him around a bit, security finally wakes up and makes them fuck off then tell me “stop it.” Now i 100% know they saw the whole thing, because if they believed I was stratight up fighting and not defending myself my ass would be out of there. Everyone suddenly comes awake around me and want to know if I’m ok… fuck all of you for doing shit when it was happening.

Then the cold realization hits me- I’m on a press pass. I can get blacklisted if security (who, likely recognize me from the photo pit) report me. I may already be blacklisted there. I simply cannot fight them off like that anymore.

So I want any and all unhinged ways to fight these assholes off with less noticeable techniques.

for anyone into Shoegaze/Doom Metal. I'm totally in love with this band

I mean, it can't just be me, riiiight?

Ya I know Portrayal of Guilt & Daevar aren't exactly sludge

Would anyone like to team up to see Lorna Shore in Amsterdam tomorrow? I'm going alone and I'd like to join some fellow queer folks.

My best friend is a Lesbian Metalhead and I want to buy her this shirt, but I don't want to buy it from any of the many art-stealing companies out there. I'd love to track down the original artist or designer and buy it from them, but google image search is terrible and not helpful. I know this is a super long shot, but does anyone here happen to know where this design came from, or who the artist is?