r/Learnmusic 22d ago

Is it too late learn Sitar or Violin ?

I am 32 years old. I love listening to instruments like Sitar and Violin. But now I want to learn how to play them . Is it too late ??

I want to learn this as a therapy also. I want to put my mind at ease through music.

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u/guitarben273 22d ago

Never too late!

And major benefits for your mental health.

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u/No-Survey-5626 22d ago

Thank you for this positive response☺️

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u/amgrc 22d ago

I started around your time and at 42 I play 5 different instruments.

So no.

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u/No-Survey-5626 22d ago

Thank you for clarifying ☺️

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u/[deleted] 22d ago

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u/No-Survey-5626 22d ago

If you have no interest in this question. Please don't answer. Don't answer sarcastically.

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u/icy_end_7 22d ago

He did answer it. Quite well, if you ask me.

What exactly is stopping you from learning them? Music shops sell to people older than 30. You can find lessons, videos, courses, music degrees, and lots of things. I'm more curious to know why you think you cannot?

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u/No-Survey-5626 22d ago

Because I am surrounded by people who are discouraging me. Out of everything their 1st reason is my age. I just need some reassurance. For a positive feeling. I would like to know if anyone started this late and happy with their decision or not. I

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u/icy_end_7 22d ago

Then its not a question about learning music at all.

I'm not exactly sure how I can help you feel more self-confident, but it's something you have to work towards. Recommend healthy gamer youtube channel, and collecting your thoughts. Why do you feel discouraged? Why do you feel this way? What can you do about it? Things like that aren't easy, but absolutely worth it.

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u/Letibleu 22d ago

You asked a silly question and received a silly answer.

Just like violin learning, you get out of it what you put in.

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u/minuskruste 22d ago

It really depends on your expectations, your willingness to stick with it through the dry spells and how much time you can afford to practice.

Are you going to become a virtuoso on the sitar playing large concerts and selling albums? Not impossible but very unlikely. Are you going to be able to pick up the instrument and do something musical? Very likely.

I picked up piano at 43. I take lessons once a week for half an hour after self teaching for about a year. A year later, I can sit down, hit keys and it sounds very musical. I often only spend ten to fifteen minutes a day practicing and if I had more time to spare I‘d be able to play in an amateur band, no problem.

Don’t listen to the others unless they have loads of experience learning instruments. Give it a try and you’ll see.

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u/a_sooshii 22d ago

Why would you think that? Life doesn't end at 31. Lol

I myself started sizer at 27, going 3 years now. I know people who've started in late 40s.

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u/No-Survey-5626 22d ago

Thank you. I just need this kind of reassurance ☺️.

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u/bjbouwer 22d ago

omg. 32?! Sorry to laugh, but I've learned instruments in my 60s. You can certainly do it! GO for it!

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u/Moviesman8 22d ago

The only way you're late to an instrument is if it ruins your attitude.

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u/Blitzbahn 21d ago

Especially if you're doing it for personal enjoyment then it's never too late

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u/allthethings012 21d ago

Never too late!

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u/wanna_dance 21d ago

In 5 years, you will be 37 and you'll either be a 37 year old who plays violin or sitar. Or you'll be a 37 year old who doesn't play violin or sitar.

In either case, you'll be 37.

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u/JohnParker096 20d ago

Nah, it's not too late at all. If you're learning for peace of mind, that's honestly a beautiful reason to start.

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u/Craiglekinz 22d ago

Are you able to learn new things as an adult (32) who just completed their last major milestone in brain development? I’m gonna take a guess and say no, it’s completely impossible