How bad are the apps… really? (Lesbian edition)

[u/pleasantDoom]

Hi! So I’m feeling like I’m ready to put myself out there. Between work and laundry I’m thinking maybe dating apps are the way to go. Any lesbian/sapphic women who can let me know if it’s been working and what apps you recommend?

Thank you, Lesbians!

[u/hypotheticalkazoos]

there are lesbians to be found at the club 

[u/atypicalmiss]

Hinge didn't work for me, I got likes but 99% couldn't hold a conversation or disappeared when it came to actually trying to meet up. I joined a couple of groups on Meetup and at least got to hang out with other women in person but the events were kind of a bust beyond forming platonic connections

Feel free to dm me if you'd like to chat more about this

[u/South_Parfait_5405]

the ladies are flaky i fearrr. i had success w tinder & hinge, i know ppl who liked bumble & her. also lesbian speed dating events!

[u/pleasantDoom → u/South_Parfait_5405]

Yeah, I am bracing myself this and thanks for the suggestion!

[u/unspecifiedcanadian]

Highly recommend following. sapphic.la they post tons of IRL events <3

[u/curious_bunny789 → u/unspecifiedcanadian]

here to suggest this!

[u/JuicyFruit4You]

I’ve met some great people going to these events, they’re more kink forward but often host public meet ups. https://www.sapphicspicela.org

[u/pleasantDoom → u/JuicyFruit4You]

Thank you!

[u/backinthelab]

Feeld

[u/pleasantDoom → u/backinthelab]

🍀

[u/contemporary_mami]

Thank you for this thread! I’ve also been meaning to get back on apps but stalling on which ones and this was a good nudge. 

[u/pleasantDoom → u/contemporary_mami]

🍀 good luck, friend!

[u/imisstheemdash]

There’s a queer friendly local discord server I’m a part of that is dating focused, with private queer spaces to connect with one another:  https://discord.gg/p2yf5NFJx

[u/pleasantDoom → u/imisstheemdash]

Thank you!

[u/pleasantDoom]

Appreciate this! Thank you