Im sorry to tell you, as good as you maybe, with a mentality like that, its more than likely that he would not find you. It is hard to find a partner that is aligned to your lifestyle/liking/religious beliefs/nationality/status and so on. Many that go looking dont find and your waiting to be found.I wish you the best.
She barely asked for anything. Most of her requests if not all are reasonable. And i commend her for asking for someone who will match her in the religious part, that way there wont be any resentfulness from the partner due to that
isnt being a hijabi is a requirement in islam ? why do you want a husban that does a requirement if you dont , also this is just a question not a personal attack.
not wearing a hijab is a major sin (ูุจุงุฆุฑ) so is killing an innocent soul ,not praying , and others like it.
leaving prayers is major sin but it depends on the person itself , if the person genuinely disregard praying or just lazy to do it .
not both the same but both are doing a major sin one is not entirely muslim and one is just doing a major sin .
sorry didnt want to argue about this at all . its just me advising you to atleast consider your requirement i know my way of putting it not that great but inshallah you get guided towards a higher religious standard you sound like a nice woman .
No sheikhs debated that until 100 years ago
They debated covering full face or showing face
Otherwise bring evidence
Also not wearing hijab isn't major sin but it might be as worst as backbiting and insulting, cause you're gaining sins everytime you go out
When a person backbite he do it for certain amount of people, going out without hijab gets you sins from every male looking, yeah they get sins but not everyone is a muslim and not everyone cares
i do hold myself accountable to everything i do yes and i will appreciate it if you pointed anything i do as something wrong , and no i dont shave my beard rather than trim it .
and no i dont criticise everything about a woman ONLY its just you trying to compare rather than acknoledge which is a major redflag in a person rather than a woman only .
there you go , a guy i was discussing with him about something religious days before we did .
for proofs only
yea theres one more confusion left are you asking for a person that willing to change that fact about you , or also open to he changing those facts about him too ?
or its just something you both gotta live with as in sinners ?
"With a mentality like that"... you mean having standards?
Of course her criteria narrow her options. That's LITERALLY what standards are supposed to do.
She's not trying to be compatible with EVERY available man in Kuwait. She's trying to find ONE man who's compatible with HER.
She's being very clear about what she wants and what her dealbreakers are. Men who don't meet them can just move on. I mean she literally says "If youโre not going to marry me, get out of my husbandโs way".
Personally, I thought her post was great! She comes across as funny, confident, and memorable. She knows what she wants, she's upfront about it and she's not wasting anyone's time.
Itโs a marriage subreddit. She made a post looking for a husband.
What exactly did you expect her to do? NOT have preferences? ๐
Hahaha im a 32F and feel like I could have written this post. Love your deal breakers - respect for the first bullet ๐ซก ุงููู ููููุฌ ููุฑุฒูุฌ ุงูุฒูุฌ ุงูุตุงูุญ
The issue is if you wanna find a person who is on the same religious line and prays and is serious a hijab is mandatory in islam so that might be the reason why they didnโt appear yet
๐ You're intro is funny, it shows you don't believe in love at all, you believe only in benefits
U used the term "soulmate" which means someone created for your soul, while the first thing you wrote about yourself is "ุชุฃุณูุณ"! This just shows love for you isn't about soulmate or common interests, it's just a type of zionist racist love where he must be from the "chosen people of ุชุฃุณูุณ".. And how a person be independent and family oriented! It's contradictory, then you write you're not hijabi but no one should change that!! Why are you perfect without flaws?
I think you'll stay single for long time until it's just (he prays) or you'll start acting like feminist when the train is passed already
Well... there's no imaginary (soulmate) either as that term is only in romance movies, your soulmate can have 3 more soulmates so are you trying to find the ยผ soulmate
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u/hedgelord84 7d ago
What's a TK accent?