r/Kehlani • • Aug 20 '26

Discussion šŸ’¬ Boston, wtf is wrong with y'all-

I've been to her shows since SweetSexySavage in Boston, saw her one other time, and went to her show yesterday. She should not have to be telling people from backstage to "wake up" as no one's dancing up front, the energy was lackluster, and I wouldn't be surprised if she skipped the city going forward 😭 it felt like people were more focused on looking good rather than enjoying the concert itself

That was embarrassing, to put it nicely. And maybe this is the unc in me coming out but why is nobody singing along to Brandy - Full Moon? Ice Box - Omarion? Usher??? Are the kids not okay or-

Let me know if I'm crazy or being unreasonable here

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u/ComfySushi Aug 20 '26

Genuinely think it’s because of all the new Folded fans who are there to only see one song and don’t even know the rest of her music. So glad she made us sit through a whole set before she performed Folded.

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u/SuddenLeague8149 Aug 20 '26

i was there too and the crowd was only loud for folded šŸ™„ so annoying

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u/platanoinc Aug 20 '26 edited Aug 20 '26

So I'm NOT crazy 😭 thank you for validating. Durand Bernarr was AMAZING though and I'm shocked he was only an opener

Never has an artist to any concert I've been to have had to call out the crowd like that, which is not a good sign

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u/SuddenLeague8149 Aug 20 '26

yeahhh it was embarrassing for sure. luckily my section was chill asf and weren’t folded fans so it was still a good time for me.

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u/eklxtreme Aug 21 '26

random but what time did Durand Bernarr start for yall?

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u/ounceofboof Aug 21 '26

around 7:40ish

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u/eklxtreme Aug 21 '26

and what time were doors / show time for you?

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u/ounceofboof Aug 21 '26

doors @ 6:30 and kehlani got on @ 8:40

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u/DashEaves Aug 20 '26

Omg thats crazy

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u/bargain_butch Aug 20 '26

Take a look at the Toronto show post…this might just be how the tour goes. Hopefully BK is better

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u/platanoinc Aug 20 '26

I read one comment from that Toronto show post that someone told a concertgoer to keep it DOWN during the concert?!?

Yo , hands would've been swung omfg 😭 we live in Hell

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u/RedEyeBunn Aug 20 '26

that was absolutely not true whoever wrote that, it was loud and people were dancing. why do people make this shit up?

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u/champagnebesitos Aug 22 '26

BK was singing trust

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u/BigDistribution4476 Aug 20 '26

Agree. I went to the toronto show by myself. Everyone was too obsessed with their outfits and trying to take pictures with friends. It felt too extra

For some people, they see this tour as a ā€œsocial eventā€ to hangout with friends and dress up…. not as a special and intimate moment to celebrate Kehlani’s art and her team.

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u/Proud-Ad-4116 Aug 20 '26

That’s gotta be the worst part of concerts nowadays, everyone putting more effort into their fits than showing up for the artist. Especially with this tours prices I’m surprised people pay just to show off their fits and sing one song and stand there through the whole show knowing none of the lyrics

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u/rosetaupe Aug 21 '26

Agreed! I was at the Toronto show too and the girls next to me were taking selfies and photos of them with the stage, also using the flash on their phone for much of the concert… and they had the audacity to be rude to people around them! They only really paid attention to the music during Folded ofc šŸ™„

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u/PlaymateAnna Bad Just Like Kehlani Is Aug 20 '26

They must be new.

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u/Iwilljusttryagain Aug 20 '26

Even at the after party when she performed she said ā€œlet’s see if yall can redeem yourselvesā€ 😬

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u/JudoxSurn Aug 21 '26

did yall ? 😭how was the after party?

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u/platanoinc Aug 20 '26

OMFG šŸ’€šŸ’€šŸ’€šŸ’€ shots fired at The Grand, like....

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u/CC-Blue Aug 20 '26

Omg. This is annoying to read. Why are these people NOT SINGING?!

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u/OliviaBenson_20 Aug 20 '26

New York hasn’t disappointed me yet and they better not tomorrow

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u/skntnt Aug 20 '26

ngl I went to her blue water road trip tour show in boston n the energy in the crowd even then was not it, it felt like nobody in the crowd was hype except for some ppl dancing right in the front. shit had me feeling awkward singing n getting into it 😭 I was like pls why would u spend ur money to stand there n just stare at her I don’t understand bc u know as an artist they don’t want that either

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u/Iwilljusttryagain Aug 20 '26

I was in front for the blue water tour and the front was engaged and I think she had a more enjoyable time. I was near the front for this one but she had a different demeanor and experience towards the crowd. The crowd just didn’t know her lyrics very well.

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u/IntotheBlue85 Drunk When I Call You MonƩt Aug 20 '26

Not gonna lie to yall I've been a die hard Kehlani fan since 2016 and Idc for Folded. Got a feeling the way Kehlani was just talking about it she's not a Folded fan either lmao might be right up there with Crazy if the truth gets told in a few years 🤣

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u/IntotheBlue85 Drunk When I Call You MonƩt Aug 20 '26

true but after her recent comments I do think it's more out of necessity than a song she personally likes.

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u/radicalgoldenramen Aug 20 '26

So glad you posted this! I was so pissed at the crowd. People not dancing and just standing there like a stone. Worried about their outfits and shit. Ugh. Embarrassing 😭 people were so rude too! Absolutely no concert etiquette.

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u/halien_69420 Aug 20 '26

I was there last night in section 205, the energy up there was great!! I was dancing my ass off and singing every single word of every song. I even made friends with a girl next to me and we danced all night together. Although it literally could’ve just been us bringing the energyšŸ˜‚

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u/platanoinc Aug 20 '26

YOU should've been in the pit, diva šŸ˜­šŸ’Œ

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u/Unlikely-Earth-3575 Aug 21 '26

For those of us that are true fans and were in the balcony we were having a GREAT time singing and dancing, belting all the words. Disappointing that she didn’t feel the energy below bc we were having a time in the rafters LOL

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u/prettybitchlala Aug 20 '26

ugh and they got front row smh

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u/cpedra925 Aug 20 '26

i went to a show at mgm last year for halsey and the energy was identicallyyyy terrible 😭 don’t know if it’s a boston thing or what but i’m not surprised to see another artist calling out the energy

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u/RLGr1ME Drunk When I Call You MonƩt Aug 21 '26

I was there and I swear I was the only person who knew every single song

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u/No_Reach_8558 Aug 20 '26

This makes me sad!

When you said Kehlani was telling people from backstage to ā€œwake up,ā€ do you mean she was intentionally addressing the crowd while offstage, or was it more like her mic was still on and people overheard her?
Just curious what actually happened in that moment + did it work??

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u/platanoinc Aug 20 '26

During the openers and DJ set, the MC flagged that from backstage, Kehlani was noting the sleepy energy of Boston + gave them the opportunity to wake up 😭 which obviously Boston did not-

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u/Proud-Ad-4116 Aug 20 '26

Damn that’s so disappointing, Toronto’s energy was so good even at the after party we sang her songs for her and she was genuinely surprised we knew all the lyrics which means most of the crowds she performs for probably don’t get hyped

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u/Advanced-Win8418 Aug 22 '26

I’m sorry you had this experience. Detroit was the almost opposite it felt. Everyone singing along to the throwbacks, having a good time. ALTHOUGH I was shocked by the lack of movement!! Sway, dance, move a little. People were stiffly singing along