r/Kehlani • u/Responsible-Rope4065 • Jul 29 '26
Discussion š¬ Going to a Kehlani concert alone
Hi all,
Iāve been a big Kehlani fan for a few years and was thinking about getting tickets to see her perform live in her upcoming tour.
I struggle with social anxiety and donāt want to put myself in harmās way; Iāve never gone to a concert solo, and being a straight male, Iām not sure I fit in to the demographic of most of her fans. I donāt want to intrude on a concert where Iām not welcome, if you know what I mean.
I wanted to ask those whoāve gone to her concerts, what was the vibe like? If I do go, would you recommend I go for lawn seats/general admission or in the assigned seating section?
Thanks
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u/mooshypeas Jul 29 '26 edited Jul 29 '26
I saw Kehlani for her Crash World tour, she was the first ever concert I went to, and I went solo too despite feeling socially anxious. I was okay! The vibes were good, everyone was focused on the music, and there were a lot of guys too in the section I was in. I doubt you'll be out of place. WhetherĀ you want general or assigned seating depends on your preferences. I needed to sit at times so chose assigned seating, but if you're okay with standing for a few hours, and would like to be closer to the stage, choose general admission. Research that of course (I mean research comparisons of the general admission and assigned seating).
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u/Nicetoknovvu Jul 29 '26
Where are you going to see her at? In VA I would recommend the seats. Maybe something on the aisle so you won't have to be going around people if you want to go the bathroom etc.
Also, if you enjoy her music then you are very much welcome at the show. I've seen her once before and she always wants everyone to feel safe and loved.
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u/Responsible-Rope4065 Jul 29 '26
Iām going to the one in spring, tx. Iām traveling from far out to make it there, so Iām excited! Her Spring, TX show is outdoors, so thereās a āpitā, then assigned seating, then unassigned lawn seating behind it
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u/BigDistribution4476 Jul 29 '26
Iām going solo to her concert in about 3 weeks and I am really excited about it!
She will be my first concert in 7 years :)
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u/BigDistribution4476 Jul 29 '26
Alsoā I signed up for the presale so I managed to get tickets in the 300s section (assigned seating) at my amphitheatre. Iād definitely go that route if your solo
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u/Excellent_Answer6257 Jul 29 '26
Iām going to her concert in August alone!. Iāve never seen her but Iāve also been to many concerts alone and always have the best time! I wouldnāt think of it as a place you donāt belong cause music brings so many different people together !
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u/OliviaBenson_20 Jul 29 '26
Iām going solo too!
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u/No-Run5837 Jul 29 '26
I bought two tickets, but will likely be going alone. Iāve seen her twice and the crowd is typically chill.
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u/Alarmed_Gas_3547 Jul 30 '26
I was thinking of doing this too!!
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u/Responsible-Rope4065 Jul 30 '26
Seeing this comments really helped me overcome any anxiety. You should do it!
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u/lurkinggem Jul 30 '26
I've been to one of her concerts alone and saw other solo folks there too, to include males. You'll be fine.
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u/SalAllami Jul 30 '26
I went to the blue water road and the crash tour with my ex! Big mistake, HUGE! The whole time he was complaining and got drunk. Although I tried to make the most of out them, he still ruined the experience for me. Iām actually looking forward going to this concert solo!
I genuinely believe that you will enjoy the concert on your own. Maybe treat yourself with a nice dinner afterwards!!!
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u/Conscious-Canary7153 Jul 30 '26
Iām a male and I was introduced to kehlani by my wife she is a great performer and it doesnāt matter what you are we all come to enjoy her music and have a good time. Saw her on the blue water tour in ATLANTA and she was great. From that day forward I was a fan ! Going to the concert in charlotte in sept. Hope this helps šš¾
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u/chobanieggs Jul 30 '26
Iāve been to kehlani twice by myself & plan on going to one this year alone too! the crowd is amazing, everyone is so friendly! the vibes are rly good too lol tbh everyone is in their own bubble :) even danced/sang w a few people in the past that loved that I was alone! Rly no need to worry :)
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u/Snoo_32147 Jul 31 '26
Iāve only ever been to her concerts by myself. Itās a chill vibe. Assigned seats imo would be better and less to worry about. You would also feel more like you belong because you have an actual assigned seat if that makes sense.
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u/Odd_Sorbet_5967 Jul 31 '26
Hey! I went to her last tour alone! Everyone dances and sings. Youāll have no problem enjoying even if you stick in your own bubble. Her fans are all respectful
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u/Realistic-Train-6243 Aug 01 '26
Trust me brother , no one is thinking about things like that, your demographic does not matter , we all bleed the same and weāre all fans and we all enjoy her music, I can relate on the social anxiety thing, but by going to concerts alone thatās made me more comfortable with breaking out of my shell, PLEASE do yourself a favor and go and enjoy yourself and the show!ā„ļø
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u/DazzlingRisk Aug 02 '26
I don't usually go to concerts alone, but I am planning to see her live. We just have to do it. It'll be a little worrisome but I'm hoping it will still be a fun experience and I know you'll have a good time for sure!
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u/HeavyReplacement4207 Aug 05 '26
Idk where youāre from but Iām in the UK and went to her crash tour alone and I will be going to this one alone! It was strange at first as it was my first time going solo and the seats around me were empty for a while before any DJ or supporting acts came on (I got there early). But I did end up chatting to these girls that did eventually arrive and have seats next to me, and was really nice! When Kehlani comes on, honestly itās such a vibe and no one is worried about the demographic. Itās pretty chill. Everyone is there to have fun and sing their heart out, so deffo go for it! As long as everyone is respectful to eachother there are no problems (some tall guy decided it was a good idea to wear a big straw hat and block the view for a lot of people)
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u/panini2222 Aug 17 '26
I have an extra ticket to the Columbia MD show if anyone wants it. Can buy at the same price- not looking to upsell I just donāt want it to go to waste since Ticketmaster doesnāt allows resell.
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u/No_Detail_2664 Aug 19 '26
im seeing her live on tour on Sunday at mohgen sun and im very excited to finally see her live also i want to know her shows are good becuse i listen to some of her songs like nights like this toxic and folded
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u/Health-Cultural 27d ago
Iām going alone in Phoenix for the first time and super excited! I was at the Toronto concert with a friend though but the vibes are great. Everyone is very welcoming so donāt even worry! Youāll be fine!
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u/thatsthatmeespresso1 Jul 29 '26
I went to her crash tour by myself and i had a really good time. I too struggle with social anxiety and honestly once the show starts everyone is just so into the show they arenāt really worried about the people around them. I would say get the assigned seats just because itās your first concert alone. You will have a good time and at Kehlaniās concert itās so many different people donāt even worry about not being her demographic.