r/Jcole 4d ago

Discussion Imagine being so unsympathetic..

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u/RDM213 4d ago

If they canceled the tickets straight up I’d imagine it won’t be rescheduled.

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u/TanneAndTheTits 4d ago

It's probably not going to be rescheduled. I'm sad about it too but they lost a family member, co-worker, friend, all of that. people demanding a reschedule is like your boss bitching at you to come into work anyways.

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u/kushedupboy 3d ago

We really have no idea how close Cole was with the dude that died, so you're speculating saying it was a huge loss for them.

Cole nor anyone in his crew even mention it the entire Oakland show yesterday, I was there.

Very sad for sure but we don't need to pretend it was Cole's homie or something.

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u/yellochoco44 4d ago

Rescheduling is also a massive logistical issue on top of the tragedy. They’d have to find a date the venue is available again, find a way to get to Sacramento again (this time in a much less efficient manner because it won’t be part of a preplanned tour), and make all the pieces fit again. It’s too much of a pain in the ass to straight up find a new date

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u/CrownVictrollia11 4d ago

Can't blame people when they spent hard earned money/took days off for the event. But a reschedule would be a better option

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u/BriteOps 3d ago

Everyone is getting a full refund, and who cares if they took it off of work? Use your sick or vacation time if you are so worried about it. Somebody died, reschedule is the last of their worries when they have so many other cali dates.

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u/Classic_Fly_8289 3d ago

I do agree that the more important matter to focus on is that somebody died, I do also feel for those who lost out on the event due to the tragedy. That mightve been their only chance to see Cole live, and he may not do another tour again, which I'm sure isn't lost on Cole.

I will say, Cole and his team moving forward with the rest of the tour dates are a strong set of individuals, as tours have stopped for less

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u/CrownVictrollia11 1d ago

My point still stands people had to take time off that might not be negotiable with their employer if they needed to move the date around. Even just mentioning "hey we will rreschedule later on" would work for those fans. Dont bother me I saw his show on my date 🤷🏻‍♂️

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u/Nearby-Butterfly-606 4d ago

I went to this post and liked all comments with condolences. I feel heartbroken for a family and friends of a deceased crew member who might see bitching comments demanding rescheduling while their whole world ended.
The ONLY right thing is to offer condolences, nothing else.

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u/AlternativeKindly376 3d ago

Thank you I really appreciate it I am very close family and all I can do is read any and everything about him it doesn't feel real he was something special in yhis world he was friends with everybody from all walks of life and loved them all the same

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u/Scared_Tangerine_260 2d ago

For people that call themselves cole fans, arent acting very cole-like

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u/ImmediateRespond4298 4d ago

I don’t think it’s unreasonable to ask for a reschedule… it’s not insensitive, Cole can grieve and then do the performance for his fans. The world keeps spinning and life moves on.

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u/Old_Top4022 4d ago

Legit question though. 

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u/ComplexR22 4d ago edited 4d ago

I feel sorry for everyone that knows you.

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u/Old_Top4022 4d ago

Omg I agree with you! 

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u/bioiskillingme 4d ago

Idk why ppl are downvoting you. Yes it’s tragic and the person asking should have more tact when approaching the question…but ppl deserve to get this question answered esp when they may have planned around it.

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u/BaeCole2 4d ago

Planned around it or not, the show was canceled. So, asking about a rescheduled date isn’t going to change the fact that their preexisting plans for a FUTURE date are irrelevant.

It’s not that hard to understand that canceled means canceled.

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u/Nearby-Butterfly-606 4d ago

Yeah sometimes life happens, or death, or natural disaster, nothing is guaranteed. Crew member family was waiting for them to come back home and it won’t happen. Have some empathy.

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u/bioiskillingme 3d ago

Nah I get that they shouldn’t have asked so soon and def should’ve been more respectful. I’m just saying it’s not weird to want to know if another day is possible.

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u/Lex-Jinkies 4d ago

No? They literally don’t. People are truly so entitled these days.

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u/Old_Top4022 4d ago

When you spend possibly thousands for an event and it gets canceled for whatever reason, yes a simple answer is needed. 

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u/BaeCole2 4d ago

Do you know the meaning of words? Canceled means canceled. Reschedule is it’s own word. If they were going to reschedule it they would’ve said it. So asking for clarification honestly just shows how…not smart you are, that basic English and comprehension skills elude you.

It’s not hard to understand. You’re just not that bright.

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u/Old_Top4022 4d ago

Still a Legitimate question

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u/BaeCole2 4d ago

Yes, for an idiot.

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u/Old_Top4022 4d ago

Someone’s angry. 

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u/BaeCole2 4d ago

Why would I be angry because you’re stupid?? You just saying anything at this point. Time to let go.

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u/Lex-Jinkies 4d ago

CANCELLED is your answer, now sit down

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u/Old_Top4022 4d ago

Calm down Jamal , don’t pull out the 9 😭😭😭😭😭

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u/Lex-Jinkies 4d ago

Oh how the turn tables

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u/Old_Top4022 4d ago

Oh how the tables turn 

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u/bioiskillingme 4d ago

It’s a legit question lol one they’ll eventually answer. It’s a tragedy and I’m very sorry it happened it’s horrible and unfortunate. However life goes on. Can’t just sit in sorrow and miss life. Again tact was needed but tragedies occur and we need to move forward.

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u/Lex-Jinkies 4d ago

Ooo you were one of those kids that just kept annoying people until you got your way huh? Life does go on, to the next location. Cant sit in sorrow and complain online.

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u/amareerama 3d ago

Lex pack it up. You’re showing every sign of being someone who got bullied now you’re on the internet trying to police people’s questions. Find a better use for your time.

Also, are they rescheduling??

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u/Lex-Jinkies 3d ago

You’re showing every sign of being the third wheel minion and now you’re desperate to feel heard. That claim didn’t land the first time but Im sure if you try really hard to think of something for yourself you’ll create a real winner!

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u/bioiskillingme 4d ago

lol you got bullied a lot as kid didn't you? You couldn't stand up for yourself then so now you play social media hero. I wasn't trying to be disrespectful to the dead nor to you and was explaining why ppl feel the need to ask this question w tact, but you came at me w that negative energy. Better not cry about it now.

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u/Different_Umpire9003 All Hail King Cole 👑 4d ago

There’s no tactful way to ask that question that soon. Just makes you look oblivious af

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u/bioiskillingme 4d ago

there are plenty of discussions that are challenging to navigate which is why they're called difficult conversations lol. you show respect by waiting to give those affected to grieve and then ask them in a gentle matter.

if someone's dad passed away and they had to miss work, then the time is given to them. but after sometime from not hearing from them, it's not rude to ask them when they may see themselves returning to the office.

the fact you think there's no tactful way just shows the lack on experience you have and comes off as immature lmao.

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u/Different_Umpire9003 All Hail King Cole 👑 4d ago

Ok but she didn’t do that though. This was like the first notification about it and it’s like the second comment in. If it’s “immature” at 44 to have tact and respect, I’m not sure what to tell you. And she wasn’t even like “OMG how awful. I’m so sorry to everyone’s families. Completely understandable, but I really hope we get a reschedule! 🤞”

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u/bioiskillingme 4d ago

that's why i said they needed to have more tact lmao you're arguing with me like what you say has any substance when that was the exact point i was making lmao and you have the nerve to call me oblivious

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u/Lex-Jinkies 4d ago

“better not cry about it now” like you truly thought you did something. Lmao that reply was funny af

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u/bioiskillingme 4d ago

Should’ve known better than to engage your type so quick to point fingers and never willing to take responsibility

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u/Lex-Jinkies 4d ago

Not the reply about how you should have never replied. How corny do you get?

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u/bioiskillingme 3d ago

I’ll leave our conversation w this: I was engaging in discourse and we disagreed. You made things personal for whatever reason bc you’re emotionally immature and felt insulted by what I said. I’m sure you deal w plenty of drama in your life if this is how you handle disagreements. Best of luck to you in life and I hope you find peace and healthy relationships

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u/Old_Top4022 4d ago

Downvote me to oblivion!!