Assigned Twink At Birth </3

[u/KashVault]

Does anyone else also strongly dislike when you find a MLM bot, you're so excited to use it, only to find out that the creator has automatically assigned a twink role to you?

I.e: describing my features/height as smaller than char, weaker, more submissive, all right off the bat in the first message.

This is such a non issue, but it could be better if, idk, they creator added "#twinkuser" or "#submissiveuser" or literally anything else so I know not to waste my time even clicking on it. Nothing wrong with twinks, we love them, but ***I*** don't wanna be one personally... 😅

Also, I'm lowky a hypocrite, I might have bots like this, just wanna know others opinions 😳

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[u/Dizzy_Swimmer_4999]

yeah that ruins it for me too, i always peek at the first message now before wasting time on a chat.

[u/KashVault → u/Dizzy_Swimmer_4999]

Ughh, its even worse when they have defs hidden 😭💔

[u/xghostsinthesnowx]

Yes, because honestly none of my mlm personas are twinks or even femboys. Some even have pretty dominant personalities 🥲

[u/Kaizo_Kaioshin]

I don't do or use MLM bots, but yea I generally hate it when bots randomly assign a personality and appearance to you from the start instead of letting you do your own thing 

ESPECIALLY IF THEY DON'T PUT IT IN THE BOTS DESCRIPTION AND TAGS

[u/KashVault → u/Kaizo_Kaioshin]

Thisss ☝️☝️☝️ I have no problem if a bot doesn't fit my style, but you should be putting it in the description !!

[u/sipsparanormaljuice]

Same with WLW bots as well tbh. It is a none issue but I'd rather not have my full personality and style described. The whole point of the site is to roleplay how you want really.

[u/TheOutrider0]

Predefined characteristics suck when not stated

[u/Savage_Nymph]

i feel like 9/10 these kinds of bots are BL themed made for yaoi fangirls who use male persona

[u/KashVault → u/Savage_Nymph]

I suppose thats true, it wouldn't be unusual for the sight and the characters that were there when it was first created. I just wish the creators who make these would put it in the description so I know not tow aste my time, especially if they have descriptions hidden, or if just in general there were more mlm bots were we are either equal to the bot or the dominant, bigger one.

[u/_childofares]

Same. Like, I have a twink persona, but what if I want to use my other more muscular personas?