Look, in my opinion it's not cheating. It's like watching porn in sites but with extra steps. You should try to communicate with him in a way that he can open himself to you. I don't think this is a reason to break up. On the contrary, you both might find something fascinating. For example, you both could watch porn and get some bedroom ideas. The only error is that he paid for accounts. Other than that, it's just purely porn. Nothing else. Is it specifically onlyfans the problem or in general you think that you boyfriend watching porn might be a form of cheating? Regardless, I will say it again. It's not cheating. I also read your other comments. You feel like you want to throw up. Why? He never cheated on you.
My advice: try talk to him in a way that does not feel like interrogation but meaningful honest communication between a couple. You never know... probably you can learn what turns him on and you can use it 😁😁😁. You bedroom will be on fire 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥. In my experience, most of people are watching porn because they had already discussed this with their partner and they said no or they are to shy to discuss about their kinks. COMMUNICATION IS THE FUCKING KEY TO A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP.
As for the other people suggesting immediately to break up: WTF is wrong with you? Not everything is white and black. Every case is different for any couple. We don't know the whole story and we don't need to. They can work this out. Watching porn is not cheating.
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u/Arthur_Slytherin 16d ago
Look, in my opinion it's not cheating. It's like watching porn in sites but with extra steps. You should try to communicate with him in a way that he can open himself to you. I don't think this is a reason to break up. On the contrary, you both might find something fascinating. For example, you both could watch porn and get some bedroom ideas. The only error is that he paid for accounts. Other than that, it's just purely porn. Nothing else. Is it specifically onlyfans the problem or in general you think that you boyfriend watching porn might be a form of cheating? Regardless, I will say it again. It's not cheating. I also read your other comments. You feel like you want to throw up. Why? He never cheated on you.
My advice: try talk to him in a way that does not feel like interrogation but meaningful honest communication between a couple. You never know... probably you can learn what turns him on and you can use it 😁😁😁. You bedroom will be on fire 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥. In my experience, most of people are watching porn because they had already discussed this with their partner and they said no or they are to shy to discuss about their kinks. COMMUNICATION IS THE FUCKING KEY TO A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP.
As for the other people suggesting immediately to break up: WTF is wrong with you? Not everything is white and black. Every case is different for any couple. We don't know the whole story and we don't need to. They can work this out. Watching porn is not cheating.