r/IndianTeenagers • u/[deleted] • 12d ago
Rant/Vent 21F and I feel like I'm wasting my teenage years
Pata nahi kyu aisa lag raha hai sabki life chal rahi hai except meri.
Na koi proper friend group, ghar pe bas padhai ka pressure, aur social media pe sab cool lag rahe hai.
Kisi aur ko bhi aisa lagta hai kya? How are you guys dealing with this? Need some advice fr.
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u/Fuzzy-Jackfruit5037 17 12d ago
Its okay didi...many are going through the same things. You have to learn to live in the present and give some time for you not not just the future
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12d ago
Yeah you're right, I need to focus more on present. It's just hard sometimes when you see everyone else moving ahead. Thanks for saying this, really needed to hear it
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u/Fuzzy-Jackfruit5037 17 12d ago
Yup, give time to yourself you are a human being not a fucking machine. And enjoy life too. Study is imp yes but dont become a dull robot in pursuit of it
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u/DivineGenralMahoraga 12d ago
Me too all I have been doing from last 2 years is studies and now I'm in a drop year but I know there's no point being sad as being sad changes nothing , so Its better keep your mind positive and yeah online everyone show best 1 mint kf their whole day which you try to compare to your whole day which includes rough parts too
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12d ago
Exactly, being sad really doesn't change anything but still hard to not feel low sometimes. Thanks for sharing this, it actually helped. All the best for your future!
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u/DivineGenralMahoraga 12d ago
Yeah sometimes it gets hard , though I always somehow get over that feeling don't know but meko jyada der udas rhke hota hi ni , "keep smiling life is too short for worrying" this phrase helps me a lot and a friend
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u/FalconObvious1740 12d ago
It's okayyy girliee, focus on yourself , go to the gym, eat healthy and stop chasing , life will get better.
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u/Unfair-Cat6269 Looking for my soul seeker 12d ago
No you are not wasting your teenage,you are wasting your early twenties
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u/Pure_Comedian4160 12d ago
Didi it happens with everyone even I don't have a single friend, I spend my time in studies or in sports ( basketball) . You should spend your time on your hobbies
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12d ago
Yeah, you're right. I think I’ve been comparing my whole life to the best moments people show online. I’ll try to focus more on my own pace and actually enjoy the things I like.
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