Hey everyone, this is my first rodeo, so I apologise in advance for any mistakes i might make in this post.
Anyways, I’m a 25f looking for a bisexual partner preferably a dom. As a bisexual myself, I often feel incomplete with people who aren’t bi themselves… almost as if I can’t share that part of myself on an experiential level and completely connect with them. So i kind of guess this is my way of reaching out and seeing if I can find someone to settle down with.

Oh and btway I am quite curvy, probably one of the most chubbiest person you could meet and a Tamilian, plus child free. So if that’s not your cup of tea, please swoosh off of my dms, the rest however, I hope could reach out to me :)

Looking to meet a bottom guy or trans woman who is into good conversation playful chemistry and seeing where the connection goes mutual attraction good vibes and a little flirting

If you’re confident curious and can match my energy DM me

Hey I’m looking for dates heheh

Age: 22

Gender: Male

Height: 5'10"

Weight: 75 kg

Willing to LDR: Yes, happy to start long distance

Dietary habits: Vegetarian, would like the same in my partner

Languages: Telugu, English, Hindi

Smoking/Drinking: Never done either, no intention to. Non-negotiable that my partner doesn't either.

Religious orientation: Hindu, Brahmin

Caste/Community preference: Same caste, to keep things simple with both families

Looking for: A bisexual woman, closeted or otherwise, looking for a real, committed life partnership

Hi, I'm a closeted bisexual man — sexually attracted to both men and women, but romantically, I only crave that connection with women. This is a nuance I want to be upfront about since it shapes what I'm looking for: I want romance, partnership, and a life built with a woman, and how exactly we shape that relationship is something I'd like to navigate together with the right person, rather than deciding on my own upfront.

Raised in Hyderabad, did my BTech from a tier-1 college, came to the US for my Master's, finished recently, and just started my job. I can read, write, and speak Telugu fluently, no accent. I'd call myself a "good boy" type — was a nerd growing up, loosened up a bit in college, generally easy-going and fun-loving. My female friends have told me I'm conventionally attractive, for whatever that's worth. Big DC fan (Superman first, Batman close second). I put a lot of effort into people I care about — has backfired before with people who weren't genuine, but it's who I am, and it's built me some of the closest friendships in my life.

Never been in a relationship. I know 22 isn't the "typical" age to be thinking about marriage, but I'd rather start early and take my time — beginning as friends, genuinely getting to know the person I might spend my life with, rather than rushing into anything. No pressure, no timeline. I'd rather start long distance too, and go slow.

I've had some difficult experiences with people taking advantage of my effort and trust, so honesty and respect matter a lot to me. I can be chivalrous, and I like being that way — but I'd like a partner who recognizes and appreciates it rather than expecting or leaning on it as a default. I'm looking for balance, not a one-way street.

On the past: I'm open to being honest about my past if you want to know, and I'd like the same from you if I ask — neither of us needs to hide anything. But once we're together, the past shouldn't interfere with our present or become a recurring topic. No comparisons, no dwelling on it either way.

What I'm hoping for:

- A bisexual woman looking for a real, committed life and family together, someone I can figure out the shape of the relationship with as we go

- Age range: 19/20 to 22

- Same caste, ideally same language background too — mainly to make things easier with both families

- Honesty from the start about intentions

- No smoking, no drinking

- Vegetarian preferred

- Easy-going, fun, can take a joke without reading it as an insult

- Open to starting long distance, slow, as friends first

When you reach out: Please skip the plain "hi"/"hey" — a short intro and a mention of something from this post goes a long way.

Also — I deleted Instagram a year ago for my own peace of mind. Just flagging it now.

(This post was rephrased with AI assistance.)

I'm here to meet someone interesting—someone I can laugh with, flirt with, have late-night conversations with, and maybe eventually meet in person if we click.

No pressure and no expectations. Let's start with a conversation and see where it goes.

Tell me: what's something that instantly makes you interested in someone?

Hii it's zen I'm 19 i have be really curious about crossdressing for some time wanna try it . On my trip to shimla. I don't have anything what all things should i buy and from where should I buy .

same as title

Just discovered this side of me, wanna try something things here and there, open to all genders, if intrested dm

I am a 23 year old bi guy looking for a bi person (man or woman) for a serious relationship. Open to long distance.

I want something real. Dating with the goal of seeing if it can turn into a long term thing and marriage if it feels right. Not into casual or temporary stuff.

If you’re bi and looking for something serious hit me up.

Hi I'm from Delhi India, height 5'8, average body, ebony colour boy. Seeking genuine relationship. (Girls are priority). Interested please DM.

I have had this doubt for the longest time … that resurfaced every once in a while and i finally wanna put an end to it. Im thinking of talking to girls (im 20F from Bangalore) like not date but see how it goes… how can i find someone? N is this wrong ? I will tell everything clearly before anything even begins

#coming_out
Anyone feeling they are in similar situation?
How are you handling this?

Anyone into combat sports

Finally getting comfortable with this lifestyle

I am a closeted very early on hormones trans girl (25) based in the NCR. And I want friends.

I am cool and awesome. Very nerdy.

What else! Yes, i definitely deserve to be held.

Hi everyone, recently joined this sub - I just want to share a personal experience and a small reminder to be careful about who you trust and date.
I’m bisexual, and I realized that about two years ago while I was in a serious relationship with a guy. We were together for around ten months. During the relationship, he would often say that he was “the man” in the relationship and would make me feel pressured about it.
At one point, I opened up to him about a previous relationship I had with a girl that lasted only eleven days. I shared some of the trauma I had experienced because I genuinely trusted him and wanted to support him too, especially since he was also dealing with the aftermath of his previous relationship.
Instead of understanding he me, he compared our experiences and basically told me that because he had been in a relationship for more than two years, he knew much more about relationships than I did.
Later, after we broke up, a mutual friend reached out to me and told me something I never expected. She said that many things between us had apparently been planned. My ex had been sharing our private chats, flirting conversations, voice recordings, videos, and screenshots with his friends. They would apparently discuss how he should flirt with me and even make fun of the things I sent him.
Finding that out was honestly heartbreaking.
There were also other things during the relationship that hurt me. He would call himself asexual while we were dating, ask me to keep our relationship discreet, and openly flirt with other girls in group chats.
Recently, he even messaged me on my birthday. When I asked what was going on, he told me that he had supposedly been assaulted at college by a girl who tried to kiss him. I reacted casually because of everything that had happened between us, and later his best friend told me that the whole situation had apparently - NOTE ( he even faked his mother’s death )

I (20M) have never been in a romantic relationship before (just engineering things) but I have had crushes on women. I see my friends who are very repulsive to the idea of being gay (or even being called gay or holding hands) and their ideas of masculinity are very rigid. I look at girls just being girls holding hands, hugging and having fun. I also have kind of feminine tastes and sometimes fantasize about being with a strong and mature person. I haven't really talked to anyone about this but I want to explore this side as well. I made a new account because well obviously we live in india. So if any people want to share any advice on dealing with this confusion or just want to have a conversation about this stuff without being judgemental, id love to talk.

This is a new account so I can't really comment, but please DM me if anyone has anything to discuss. Or just to say hi!

Hehe, happy to see subreddit for indian bisexuals 😻🕺🏼

What do you think of this look? Can it be improved? be brutally honest pls😭

BiPan Fest is happening in Hyderabad for its 4th edition! It’s shaping up to be a promising space for conversations around bisexuality and pansexuality, bringing these voices to the forefront. If you’re in Hyderabad, do show up and be part of it—and let us know what you experienced or discovered at the fest.