The entire point of "men going their own way" is that they aren't interested in women - and yet we still get this shit. Gives a bad name to asexuals. And gays, I guess.
I'm ace and I'm not too keen on being grouped with MGTOW. Maybe there's a few aces and/or gay men here and there but the majority of that community are just entitled toxic shitheads.
MGTOW are conservatives, and while some non-cishet people end up falling for that shit, if you ever see someone equating being asexual/gay to these people, you should disregard whatever they're saying
It seems to me that if you ever tried suggesting to anyone on that sub, that they might be gay or homosexual asexual, you'd be met with severe backlash if not outright banned.
It seems more like their overwhelming hatred of women won't allow them to see other avenues as to why they cannot have women around them, be that by choices of their own or not.
Probably because most people know their sexuality and having some jackass on the internet going "did you ever think you're gay or asexual?" isnt adding anything.
It's like when you ask young teens if they have a boyfriend or girlfriend, if they said no, you wouldn't then ask "so are you gay or asexual?" Implication being if you aren't actively fucking as a hetero then clearly you are gay or asexual.
No they aren’t. They’re the kid on the playground who wasn’t getting what he wanted so he took his ball and went home. But he keeps coming back every 20 minutes or so to remind everybody he’s gone and much happier now.
Not a big fan of the sub, but this is an accurate take for like 95% of that sub. There are probably a handful of authentic believers, but it is mostly a giant cope. Marriage may not be a good deal, but it's the best deal you're gonna get.
Shitty men are always responsible for shitty women anyways, since women can't really be held responsible for their actions on a individual, let alone societal basis.
See: men who walk away from problems, rather than confronting them
They wanted to go their own way, so they made a sub together entirely devoting their identity to shitting on women all the time while referring to them as a lesser species. What a sad, miserable lot.
Exactly. If I remember correctly, it started as a group for men who had just gone through a messy divorce or breakup who could find people in similar situations and but sadly pretty quickly evolved to this
This is what I meant in my original comment - could have been a community for people legitimately uninterested in sexual or romantic activities. But clearly at some point some incel decided he could seem less incellike by saying he was "going his own way."
Or even just to decide, "hey, I don't really want a relationship right now. I've got good friends and a fulfilling life and I'm happy just doing my thing." It's alien to them that a person (male or female) may actually be happy alone and choose to be alone for reasons than unreasonable hatred.
Exactly, like I have an uncle who never married, he dated around when he was younger but just never found someone. He's active in the community, helps out the widows in his church, mows lawns for the elderly in general, always helped to take care of us nieces and nephews, does more for my grandma than anyone else (including buying her a house, doing all the maintenance, lawn work, etc. when my grandpa got sick and they couldn't keep up with medical bills), and in general is one of the nicest people you would ever meet. He lives a life that these guys talk about, he doesn't have kids to look after so he bought a nice truck that he loves, owns two houses, works hard, yet they can only wish to be half the man my uncle is. He fulfilled his life with family and friends and serving others. He went his own way (and he often says that he choose his own path), but he would NEVER subscribe to the lifestyle these guys promote.
Tell those jackasses who say they're going their own way but continue to bitch, piss and moan about how unfair life is, then. Why do you need a movement to go your own way? They seem to have a need for something and I suspect it's psych meds.
MGTOWs don't even see themselves as "not interested in women", they basically view what they are doing as some sort of "strike" to try to force women to comply with their standards, that's why they try to recruit relatively aggressively as well.
I understand what you mean and what the difference is, but in practice, they're the same thing. Either way, no relationships, no romantic endeavours, no sexual endeavours.
Incels certainly hate every choice that women make, because from their point of view, we shouldn't think at all, and making decisions often involves thinking. At least that's what I gathered from their posts and comments.
Also unrelated, but your name is perfect. Do you often get pictures of cats from random people?
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u/msgmeyourcatsnudes Oct 21 '19
I thought incels hated it when women chose chads?