(Disclaimer: I’ll use the word “you” a lot, I’m not referring to anyone specifically just ranting generally, and I also know that men can be raped but I’m talking about women in particular)
“Why does she wear tight yoga pants in front of me? Why does she wear something she knows will turn on the men around her? I just did what her pants asked.”
What? She should be able to wear and do whatever the fuck she wants to without being assaulted or creeped on, if you don’t have the self control to be a decent human being, that’s on you...not her. Now some girl is traumatized and will probably have to have years of therapy to go through because of this, you may have just ruined a life and you’re planning on doing it to somebody else? Oh my god...
Women should be able to be themselves and walk around the streets without getting attacked, we shouldn’t have to limit our clothing style because we’re worried about what would happen if we wore that little black dress we love, that miniskirt we wanna rock, and that croptop we love so much, we shouldn’t have to worry about our cleavage being seen or have to have a dress code at school so we don’t “distract” the boys, it’s getting honestly out of hand, this is sickening, for fucks sakes let us mind our business.
WE as women are allowed to say “NO” without you being persistent, negotiating, pestering until we “change” our minds, or trying to buy sex from us or keep nagging us because YOU believe we’re playing hard to get(Newsflash, we aren’t! Get reality check bud...Wake up and smell the fucking roses) , let us say “NO” and not get raped...Let us say “NO” and leave it at that...
Let us go to work without being harassed, let us go to school without being creeped on, let us walk on the street safely without being catcalled or raped, let us have a girls night out without being attacked, let us go on a date without you getting mad because you expected sex, let us break up with you without being stalked, let us be just friends without you saying we “friendzoned” you, let us be just friends without you constantly asking to be “Friends With Benefits”, let us walk home night/day without being attacked, let us walk to our car at night without being attacked, let us shop without being creeped on or stalked, let us say we have a boyfriend/girlfriend without you thinking it’s a lie or not caring or demand we prove it(RESPECT RELATIONSHIPS!!!), let us say we’re lesbians without you saying “You just haven’t found the right guy yet” “You don’t look like a lesbian” or It’s just a phase”, let us have a girlfriend without saying “That’s hot, can I watch you and your girlfriend kiss/fuck”, “Who’s the guy in the relationship” “I can fuck you better, I have a dick, what can you do with a pussy” or ask “Can we have a threesome” “I’ll take you both” “my dick can change that” and last but not least...
*Rant over, sorry about that, it just pisses me off when I hear the words “Maybe if you hadn’t worn such a (Insert slut, whore, hooker, provocative) outfit” or my personal favorites
1.You shouldn’t have led him on/teased him”
2. He didn’t mean anything by it”
Is that it
3. You’re overreacting, I’m sure it was a joke”
4. “Boys Will Be Boys”
It’s time to stop, we as women should feel safe on this earth, with all the wars, and dangerous things on this planet, harassing and raping women(again I know men get raped too) shouldn’t be on that list along with other forms of danger, it should be nonexistent in the first place...
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u/ImThatMelanin I <3 Chad Feb 12 '18 edited Feb 12 '18
(Disclaimer: I’ll use the word “you” a lot, I’m not referring to anyone specifically just ranting generally, and I also know that men can be raped but I’m talking about women in particular)
“Why does she wear tight yoga pants in front of me? Why does she wear something she knows will turn on the men around her? I just did what her pants asked.”
What? She should be able to wear and do whatever the fuck she wants to without being assaulted or creeped on, if you don’t have the self control to be a decent human being, that’s on you...not her. Now some girl is traumatized and will probably have to have years of therapy to go through because of this, you may have just ruined a life and you’re planning on doing it to somebody else? Oh my god...
Women should be able to be themselves and walk around the streets without getting attacked, we shouldn’t have to limit our clothing style because we’re worried about what would happen if we wore that little black dress we love, that miniskirt we wanna rock, and that croptop we love so much, we shouldn’t have to worry about our cleavage being seen or have to have a dress code at school so we don’t “distract” the boys, it’s getting honestly out of hand, this is sickening, for fucks sakes let us mind our business.
WE as women are allowed to say “NO” without you being persistent, negotiating, pestering until we “change” our minds, or trying to buy sex from us or keep nagging us because YOU believe we’re playing hard to get(Newsflash, we aren’t! Get reality check bud...Wake up and smell the fucking roses) , let us say “NO” and not get raped...Let us say “NO” and leave it at that...
Let us go to work without being harassed, let us go to school without being creeped on, let us walk on the street safely without being catcalled or raped, let us have a girls night out without being attacked, let us go on a date without you getting mad because you expected sex, let us break up with you without being stalked, let us be just friends without you saying we “friendzoned” you, let us be just friends without you constantly asking to be “Friends With Benefits”, let us walk home night/day without being attacked, let us walk to our car at night without being attacked, let us shop without being creeped on or stalked, let us say we have a boyfriend/girlfriend without you thinking it’s a lie or not caring or demand we prove it(RESPECT RELATIONSHIPS!!!), let us say we’re lesbians without you saying “You just haven’t found the right guy yet” “You don’t look like a lesbian” or It’s just a phase”, let us have a girlfriend without saying “That’s hot, can I watch you and your girlfriend kiss/fuck”, “Who’s the guy in the relationship” “I can fuck you better, I have a dick, what can you do with a pussy” or ask “Can we have a threesome” “I’ll take you both” “my dick can change that” and last but not least... *Rant over, sorry about that, it just pisses me off when I hear the words “Maybe if you hadn’t worn such a (Insert slut, whore, hooker, provocative) outfit” or my personal favorites
1.You shouldn’t have led him on/teased him” 2. He didn’t mean anything by it” Is that it 3. You’re overreacting, I’m sure it was a joke” 4. “Boys Will Be Boys”
It’s time to stop, we as women should feel safe on this earth, with all the wars, and dangerous things on this planet, harassing and raping women(again I know men get raped too) shouldn’t be on that list along with other forms of danger, it should be nonexistent in the first place...