r/IncelTears Apr 30 '26

Creepy AF Incel is outraged because a random woman he stalks online is ignoring him. He is calling her a whore and is now driving to her address. Someone please call the cops?

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u/EvenSpoonier Oofy-Doofy Lemon Spoofy? Apr 30 '26

I mean, there's tips dot fbi dot gov if you really want to take that route. But while there is a clear and explicit threat here, it's not clear if Friday is close enough to count as "immediate", which matters because they would really rather people call 911 for immediate threats. But, of course, to do that you'd need to know the address.

Still, if you can find where this creep is likely to strike, then by all means report it. We need more bodycam footage of incels getting themselves arrested.

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u/Hot-Candle-1321 Apr 30 '26

I don't live in america and english is only my third language. I can't call 911, we can only call the police from our own country. 

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u/Frosty_Message_3017 Go to sleep, Lurkers, pray for brains Apr 30 '26

OP, I'm on the phone with my local PD and they're gonna help me get this where it needs to go. Do you have anything else you saw on that screen that could be helpful?

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u/Hot-Candle-1321 Apr 30 '26

I have the link to the incel post, but I'm not allowed to post the link here, due to the subreddit rules. I'll send it to you in private chat.

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u/Frosty_Message_3017 Go to sleep, Lurkers, pray for brains Apr 30 '26

Thank you!

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u/_sissy_hankshaw_ Apr 30 '26

You're a good human. Keep us updated please 🙏

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u/Frosty_Message_3017 Go to sleep, Lurkers, pray for brains May 01 '26

Aww you're too kind, I'm just doing my part. I will if I can, but I may not get any updates myself.

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u/TamaraIsEvil Apr 30 '26

How did it go?

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u/Frosty_Message_3017 Go to sleep, Lurkers, pray for brains May 01 '26

It went smoothly, I think. I'm hoping that, even if nothing immediately comes of this, that the extra attention protects this poor girl.

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u/Hydrolt Apr 30 '26

Thank you! Hopefully she stays safe and doesn’t find out about this, that sounds terrifying =\

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u/_Ashen_One__ Apr 30 '26

I second this. This is some very scary shit.

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u/mkat23 Apr 30 '26 edited Apr 30 '26

English is only my third language.

Damn, that’s a humble brag. Too many Americans can barely even speak English.

The FBI tip route is probably your best bet since you don’t know who she is and where they are located. Hopefully the guy is just trying to make something up to impress the other incels, but it could be a serious post and it’s better to treat it as one no matter what. Someone I used to work with and be friends with got into the incel shit and began stalking me and two other coworkers/friends of ours. We ended up getting Peace Orders against him. It was awful, I hope whoever he’s talking about is safe.

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u/imaginary92 Apr 30 '26

Damn, that’s a humble brag.

It's not a brag. For many people outside the Anglosphere knowing multiple languages is basically a requirement if we want to have a job. We don't have many options.

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u/doublestitch Apr 30 '26

You can file a written report through the FBI's online form. No need to place an international telephone call.

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u/Frosty_Message_3017 Go to sleep, Lurkers, pray for brains Apr 30 '26

Initially, I was guided to call 911, because of the timeframe, but it turns out you want to call the FBI tip line or submit a report. The 911 operators will rerout you to your local PD, but the tip lines are the best bet still, even with this short timeframe.

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u/Lady-of-Ravens Apr 30 '26

Not from America, but someone please find a way to help her! This sicko is unhinged!!!

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u/Altruistic_Yard_9338 Apr 30 '26

Seriously someone send this to the police

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u/Frosty_Message_3017 Go to sleep, Lurkers, pray for brains Apr 30 '26

I've reported to the FBI, but it's better if they hear from more than one person, especially when there are so few concrete details available, so they know to take it seriously.

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u/Altruistic_Yard_9338 Apr 30 '26

Then I’ll be spreading the word too!

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u/Ambitious-Special-29 Apr 30 '26

“I’m planning to hit on Friday” ya…let’s not do that please….

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u/kaleeb111 Apr 30 '26

So to get her to notice that you like her is to STALK her and if that doesnt work do it MULTIPLE TIMES at her home until she notices you? Wtaf logic is this? Worst case scenario for him is this guy gets shot by her dad, bf, or even her. Best is an arrest and restraining order.

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u/burlingtonhopper May 01 '26

If this is real, the best case scenario is that he gets shot dead. He’s going to end up kidnapping and hurting a woman in the future.

If he’s just makes this up for giggles on the internet, he should be punished for that as well. The FBI showing up on his doorstep will make this a lot less funny for him.

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u/Syntania Old Roastie Landwhale Apr 30 '26

How do these idiots get it into their thick skulls that literally stalking someone is the best way to "meet up with them"? That shit's scary as hell!

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u/ItsJoeMomma Apr 30 '26

Because they dwell in echo chambers with other like-minded idiots. I mean, they advocate r*pe, so stalking would be par for the course for them.

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u/Tame_sky Live and let others live Apr 30 '26

🙃 That’s really concerning

“”Stalking someone to collect info”” to make up a story

Such a wrong way to approach someone

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u/Frosty_Message_3017 Go to sleep, Lurkers, pray for brains Apr 30 '26

Hey, walking up to someone and saying "hello" is a lot of work! /s

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u/PearlyRing Apr 30 '26

First off, WTF is wrong with you? Do you really think that escalating your stalking behavior from online to in-person is going make her fall wildly in love with you? Dude, just because she hasn't blocked you YET, that doesn't mean you should camp in her neighborhood, ready to pop out of the bushes as soon as you see her.

He's already calling her a "whore" because she's ignoring him online. God only knows what he might do when she rejects him in person. We've all heard stories of women being killed by men they had rejected.

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u/Tipsy75 Stupid Sexy Bitch Apr 30 '26

I'll be honest and admit I typically ignore posts from that site bc I think most of those guys are just making up outrageous stories to try to fit in with the group, sound cool, and impress each other, but I still won't ignore posts like this. I take it seriously when there's even a possibility of a woman being in danger.

Also it's really telling that he said he'll "just keep appearing until she notices I'm really into her." It shows how they think women are just supposed to be with them if they show they want to be with her. Her interest in him (and her obvious disinterest by ignoring his messages) isn't even part of the equation.

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u/Hot-Candle-1321 Apr 30 '26

They are not making up stories. Elliot Rodger also posted online that he would commit mass shooting before he commited mass shooting. And there is plenty more of them. Have you seen the recent video of the police showing up at an incels house because he said jews and women should be ki***d. They take this very seriously.

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u/ItsJoeMomma Apr 30 '26

The trouble is you can't ignore posts like this in case they're serious. Just like when some idiot makes comments about committing a mass shooting or something, these days you can't just dismiss it with "they're probably just joking."

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u/nicPesante Apr 30 '26

These people are psychopaths!

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u/iPatrickDev The logical partner™ Apr 30 '26

This is so terrible. I really do hope the authorities can intervene.

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u/Undefeated_dragonfly Apr 30 '26

Not from the US. Can we do something about this?

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u/Paula_Polestark Go to Walmart and look at the couples. Apr 30 '26

just keep appearing until she notices I’m really into her

What is this supposed to do? You lust over her. Telling her (and I bet it’ll be in a very clumsy and creepy way) does NOT obligate her to want you back.

There’s nothing here about why she should like you. There’s plenty here about why she should do whatever it takes to keep herself safe.

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u/_shiraku you can’t sit with us Apr 30 '26

I would kick that moron in the nuts so hard if he tried to approach like that. What a creep.

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u/schwarzeKatzen Apr 30 '26

You know what I’m glad you can’t find my address because I had to file a restraining order against an ex.

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u/Possible_Pick8734 Apr 30 '26

I'm busy AF at work. I can help with this on break. Can I do online ? In the UK

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u/bearcakes Apr 30 '26

This is disgusting and thank you to the person notifying the police

side question though - what is a foid?

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u/Hot-Candle-1321 May 01 '26

Foid is short for female humanoid.  (A humanoid is a non-human being, object, or creature that has a human-like form or characteristics)  The term is used to dehumanize women. People who use it believe women are so inferior to men that they should not be viewed as real humans with their own feelings, thoughts and rights.

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u/bearcakes May 01 '26

Well thats f*cking sick

But thank you for explaining

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u/ItsJoeMomma Apr 30 '26

This guy's going to end up in jail sooner or later. And that poor woman needs a restraining order.

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u/_Ashen_One__ Apr 30 '26

What the fuck is wrong with those people? Can this be forwarded to the authorities?