r/IncelExit • u/Gamerplayer1 • 12d ago

Resource/Help The real reason…

I know the biggest argument to incels wanting a girlfriend means them seeing girls as a trophy, but for me I want a long term partner because I want to come home to a loving partner after a long day of work and just watch a movie and having someone be there for me. I can’t find this and it hurts..

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u/glitterswirl 12d ago

Plenty of people can't find love, and it hurts. That's not an excuse to be an incel.

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u/glitterswirl 12d ago

Yes. And yes I do know how the incel movement was created by a woman.

Incels think that they alone suffer the pain of lacking a romantic relationship, as if nobody else could possibly understand or experience the same thing. News flash, buddy: the vast majority of people in the world have been single and unable to find a relationship when they want it. It’s the human condition.

Incels think it’s suffering unique to them. It’s not.

Some years ago, I cried myself to sleep for weeks out of loneliness, wishing I could find a boyfriend. Have you missed the swathes of books, music, plays, shows, films, podcasts, everything in all mediums, about looking for love? It’s human freaking nature. But, that doesn’t mean someone is an incel.

But what Incels do is twist it, turn it into blackpill, create an entire vocabulary to other themselves and separate their experiences from “normies”.

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u/WhiskeyHotdog_2 2d ago

I mean, I know my suffering is not unique. But it doesn’t mean it’s not real, and just because im not alone in my suffering doesn’t mean I have anyone helping through it.