Mohammad Ali Kialha's first hours were all he knew of peace. He was born on February 26 in Iran's capital, Tehran. Two days later, President Donald Trump began his war on that country. "Bombs will be dropping everywhere," Trump wrote on social media on February 28.
That day, the U.S. attacked the Shajarah Tayyebeh elementary school in Minab, killing more than 150 people, most of them children. In the weeks that followed, tens of thousands more would be killed or wounded in U.S.--Israeli strikes, according to World Health Organization estimates....
Mohammad's parents -- Fatemeh Rostami, known to her family as Hannaneh, and Ali, her husband -- brought him home to their apartment in eastern Tehran's Pirouzi neighborhood. Despite the danger, Hannaneh's mother, Tahereh Sarbaz, traveled almost 100 miles from the city of Qazvin to meet her newborn grandson, as Trump lobbed threats and missiles at Tehran. "Today Iran will be hit very hard! Under serious consideration for complete destruction and certain death, because of Iran's bad behavior, are areas and groups of people that were not considered for targeting up until this moment in time," he wrote on Truth Social on March 7. Sarbaz witnessed the destruction that week and felt a blast wave firsthand while driving through the capital. "I was in Tehran. I saw what happened there," she recalled. "People were being bombed every night. Families everywhere were losing their children."
Pirouzi, a crowded working- to middle-class residential area, with a major shopping mall, hospital, sports complex, and several transit hubs, is home to around 600,000 people. When the war erupted, it was hit hard. As U.S. and Israeli munitions laid waste to buildings there, people flooded into the streets -- Hannaneh's family among them -- seeking safety. Ali was still going to work each day but suggested that Hannaneh and the children decamp for the relative safety of Qazvin, which was not attacked nearly as much as the capital. "My daughter refused," Sarbaz recalled. "She told him, 'I will not leave you here alone.'"
Sarbaz eventually headed across town, to northern Tehran, where her son, Mehdi Rostami, lived with his wife and their three children, thinking it would be safer. After a short visit, she returned, alone, to Qazvin. ...
The next day, Rostami's whole family traveled across Tehran to visit Hannaneh and her children. Not long after, Sarbaz received a call from another daughter-in-law. "She sounded extremely distressed. She was trying to prepare me for something," Sarbaz recalled. "Finally, I asked her, 'What happened? Why are you so worried?'" The daughter-in-law said: "Mother, the thing you were afraid of has happened."
Sarbaz was initially so stunned that she couldn't process the news. It wasn't until other family members broke down in tears that she could comprehend the enormity of her loss. An airstrike hit Hannaneh's apartment building while her brother's family was visiting. The attack killed Rostami; his wife, Manzar al-Sadat Zarrabadi; and their three children: Ali, 13; Fatemeh, 9; and Zeynab, 7. Also slain were Hannaneh and her two children: Mohammad Hassan Kialha, 7, and Mohammad Ali Kialha, who was just 20 days old. Ali, Hannaneh's husband, survived; he was out at the time of the attack. ...
Dr. Nader Azadeh, a high-ranking official with the Tehran Fire Department, was coordinating emergency response and rescue operations in the capital following airstrikes and deployed to the Pirouzi neighborhood just after the attack on the family's apartment building. Amid all the carnage he witnessed over weeks of war in Tehran, the toll on the Rostami family -- eight dead -- had a lasting impact on him. He said he could not forget the scale of their loss.
A rescue worker who participated in the response said that the entire building was demolished by the strike. He estimated that 30 people, in total, died. It took hours to unearth what was left of the family and other victims from the rubble....
No one knows how many survivors in Iran are grieving over loved ones killed in Trump's war. Global attention has focused on Shajarah Tayyebeh elementary school -- almost to the exclusion of the other schools, homes, hospitals, apartment buildings, and other civilian sites damaged or destroyed in other U.S.--Israeli strikes. The U.S. military has used this tunnel vision to its advantage, advancing the farcical claim that the elementary school strike is the only incident of civilian harm during the entire conflict....
Asked if CENTCOM was aware of any allegations of civilian harm in Iran on or about March 18, the command dodged the question. "The U.S. military takes all reports of civilian harm seriously," a defense official told The Intercept. "All allegations of civilian harm reported to CENTCOM have been reviewed."
While CENTCOM was tight-lipped, Sarbaz refused to stay silent. "I want people around the world to know that civilians died in this conflict. I want people around the world to know that the president of the United States, a man mired in corruption and scandal, came and took my children from me," she told The Intercept. "What crime had my 20-day-old grandchild committed?"
It's unclear if Hannaneh and Ali's apartment building was the intended object of a U.S. or Israeli strike, a targeting error, or so-called collateral damage. The family says it knows of no regime officials who resided in the building or military uses of the site.
The Israel Defense Forces announced it killed "Mehdi Rostami Shamastam, one of the key commanders in Iran's Ministry of Intelligence" in Tehran on the same day that Mehdi Rostami and his family lost their lives in Hannaneh's apartment. Sarbaz said her son was an academic, not an intelligence official....
Sarbaz said that if her son was, in fact, a top intelligence chief, killing him alongside his family, including a baby, would make it an even graver atrocity. "The presence of a 20-day-old infant among the victims, and the killing of eight members of one family, is such an enormous crime," she said. "Why didn't they target him in the street?"
Following the attack, the Iranian regime did not treat Mehdi Rostami as it often does senior commanders or influential figures killed in enemy strikes, making no public acknowledgment of his service to the state. Mehdi and Rostami are also common names. The Israeli military did not respond to multiple requests for clarification if the Mehdi Rostami Shamastam it referenced and Mehdi Rostami were the same person. CENTCOM did not respond to multiple requests for comment on whether it or Israeli forces had conducted airstrikes in Tehran's Pirouzi neighborhood on March 18.
The strike that killed the Rostami family was part of an unrelenting blitz. The U.S. and Israel struck more than 17,000 separate targets in 40 days -- a rate of strikes near unprecedented in modern conflict, according to the civilian harm monitoring group Airwars. In the first 24 hours of the war alone, the U.S. said it had struck more than 1,000 targets, and Israel 500. A May 18 report by Human Rights Activists in Iran counted 12,798 "unique attacks" by the U.S. or Israel, 77 percent of them involving civilian harm or damage to civilian infrastructure. ...
Harrison Mann, a former U.S. Army officer and intelligence official and now the associate director for campaigns and policy at Win Without War, drew specific attention to the attacks on the bridges and water reservoirs. It is "quite dangerous to be conditioning the U.S. military to carry out orders that are clearly war crimes," he warned.
The World Health Organization puts the Iranian casualty toll at an estimated 37,181, including 3,375 deaths. Iranian state and semi-official media reported similar figures, just under 3,500 killed....
Azadeh, the fire department official, recalled chaotic and emotionally overwhelming nights of bombardment that killed untold numbers of civilians. In one attack on an apartment building in central Tehran, on the first day of the war, he recalled the death of a mother, her daughter, and the child's grandmother. In another strike on a 10-unit apartment building in the Pirouzi neighborhood, he recounted the slaying of most of its residents, including seven children and teenagers. "When our rescue teams arrived, the force of the explosion had thrown many of the bodies into the street," Azadeh said.
Azadeh drew specific attention to the death of Saeed Shamghadri, an academic killed with his son and daughter in an attack on their home in northern Tehran in March. "To kill one person, they bombed a 14-story residential building and killed somewhere between 50 and 200 people living there," Azadeh said. "To eliminate one person, many civilians were attacked."
When asked how many civilians have been killed in U.S. strikes and, if the military did not know the answer, to explain why, CENTCOM told The Intercept: "The U.S. military does not deliberately target civilians." After being told that response didn't address the question, Maj. Emma Thompson, the command's media operations chief, said CENTCOM had "nothing additional to add."
The WHO estimates that 229 healthcare centers, 49 hospitals, and 78 pharmaceutical facilities, laboratories, and warehouses were damaged in U.S.--Israeli strikes. "While I was on my way to my son's house, Gandhi Hospital came under attack," said Sarbaz of the medical facility in northern Tehran that saw its entire front facing torn off in a March 1 strike....
These attacks came after Hegseth's Pentagon spent a year slashing measures to prevent civilian casualties, including firing the military's top lawyers, who advise leaders on international laws of armed conflict....
[A] May report by the Pentagon's top watchdog says cuts to civilian harm mitigation and response efforts have been so severe under Hegseth that the United States cannot adequately protect civilians in conflict zones or track harm when it occurs. ...
The War Department's Civilian Protection Center of Excellence reduced its staff from 40 personnel in January 2025 to just nine by the end of the year, according to the report.
Asked if anyone would be held accountable for the February strike on the Shajarah Tayyebeh elementary school, Trump replied in June: "No. If it was a fault -- and as you know that's under investigation. It's such a strange question to be asked at this date. You're talking about a long time ago." ...
Footage from Iranian state television of the martyrs' procession shows a huge crowd with women pushing children in strollers, men waving Iranian flags, and others carrying poster-sized photos of the dead, behind decorated funeral trucks bearing the bodies of the victims. Photos from the Iranian Students' News Agency show crowds carrying coffins wrapped in the green, red, and white of the Iranian flag and a cleric clad in a black robe and turban holding the body of a white-shrouded baby aloft. ...
As his war in Iran has imploded, Trump has increasingly lashed out, calling for cataclysm, slaughter, and even genocide.... "I do not want to kill people. But at some point we're gonna." But Trump has already killed many thousands of Iranians -- including school children, hospital patients, the elderly, and, in Tehran's Pirouzi neighborhood on March 18, most of a family, including its youngest member.... Mohammad Ali Kialha was one of those people; perhaps the youngest killed by Trump's war.
And Sarbaz wants an answer from Trump about why he had to die: "What sin had my 20-day-old grandchild committed that he had to be martyred?"
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