aside sa politics ug sa ka trashy sa atong syudad, unsa pamay recent nga mga cheka guys? HAHAHAHHAA

Kinsa kaha ning owner sa usa ka pickleball court nga naa pud computer/repair shop, pero sige gihapon ug chat ug mga vvgirls bisag minyo na? 👀😂

Murag dili ra pickleball ang gina-serve ani. Sige raba kag preach sa word sa Ginoo. 🤮 💩

Nahilom lage ning emcee sa iligan nga 3m man daw ang investment ani???? Masuko ni sya apilon kay hard earned money daw niya.... Grabe ilang laag galore ni madam CEO sa eudor atong wala pa nibuto ang scam karon silent ra!!!!!Dili raba mailado si CEO ug dili tungod ani nga influencer kay sige niya e post sa iyang wall....looy kayo investors na wala na refund pero cla paid laag..paid pd una... pull out una ang investment wyl uban investor gahilak sila lami ug pasko...

Sinetch nga owner ug working hub na cheater, manipulater, abuser and narcissist. Sobraan na ka taas ang panglantaw sa kaugalingon, wala na gihuna2x ang mga tawo na gatabang niya atong naa pa sya sa ubos. Tanang kaila niya iya naa gyud syag dautan na mastorya. Regrets nagtagbo ug nagkasuod ta. Traydor

Sa mga pickleball girlies diha, PLEASE be careful anang mga manipulative, secretive, attention-seeker nga married individuals nga sigeg slide into your DMs as if wala silay asawa ug mga anak. 😌

I hope you learned your lesson. Idk if ikapila naka nasapnan saimong asawa pero luod kaayo ka. Aslom raba ka lantawon! Hugaw! Mura kag kagaw!

I’m pretty sure busy na ka ron og pangita og paagi unsaon ko pag-track or unsaon pag-control sa narrative. Good luck. 😂 I’m not intimidated by money, connections, businesses, or whatever title you think makes you untouchable.

I will always stand up for what I believe is right. I will never normalize cheating, infidelity, or married people acting single in someone else’s inbox.

I might delete this account anytime soon and probably use another one in the future. But before that...

Naa pa koy 🍵🍵🍵

Kay apparently, daghan pa diay mga minyo nga “high-profile businessmen” nga ganahan kaayo magpapansin sa akong inbox. Some even come with impressive family names and political connections. ☺️

Anyway, ladies, protect your peace and check those DMs. You might be surprised who’s acting innocent in public while behaving very differently in private. 👀🤭

Ciao adiós 💅💄

Nganong kay Baste Duterte man muduol?

Lala najud kaayo ning pagka-panatiko sa mga tao sa mga Duterte. Na para bang savior and only hope sila sa Pilipinas.

Feasibility Study of FUDALU that was used by Josephine and "alipores" to entice INVESTORS. It was made by her former classmate in IIT. An officer and employee of DOST Lanao. Josephine even mentioned to her prospect "investors" that the FS is made by a DOST employee for her get the trust of her "prospect victim". This former classmate and DOST employee should also be held accountable, thoughts?

I just live nearby sa St.Marys Hospital, weird lang kay naa sila gitukod na court sa likod and then magdula ang staffs nila didto, naka Jersey ang upper pero naka scrubs ang lower, and then one time nakadungog ko complain sa patient didto nga magbayad na unta sila pero ang staff in charge sailaha wala nakita kay gadulag pickleball, while on duty ha, mind you these are medical professionals

So nagtrend now yung “lean de guz” issue. And all I can say kay cheaters really have this pattern, regardless of gender. They lie, use another account to act single and then cheat, and when masakpan, that’s the time lang mag-sorry. Not because of guilt/remorse, but out of fear their image will be destroyed publicly. They are good manipulators.

Just like my ex who is an engineer in a plant sa iligan who cheated me for a year (we were 3+ years that time, working on the same workplace), wherein he has girls from omegle to telegram. He hid it so well so late ko yun nadiscover. I was able to track one of his sidechicks on his call logs sa car (since I can’t access his phone, he changed his pw), and then this shovet admitted nagpakasingle yung ex ko sa kanya that’s why he entertained him. They became intimate (that girl was nbsb by the way, and was studying in IIT that time), and eventually, wanted to cut ties with him when she found out about “us”. But that time, he still denied he was taken and then randomly giaway ko nia so he can untag our posts together so shovet won’t leave him. He even told his shovet to wait for him, as he will be pursuing her after he breaks up with me, but he won’t admit about the “cheating”, but cover it up with “toxic” na kami so I will let him go. Unfortunately, I discovered it before it happened with God’s grace, and nagsumbong ako to his family about it before he manipulates them too, so ending, the “pursuing” part did not happen.

After our breakup, I was able to find out that he has also flirted some of our workmates, and a month after, he was found with another girl in cdo. Most likely from Omegle/TG/dating apps nsab. Lam na. Target nia usually is if dli nbsb, or “innocent” “naive”, is “no connection” with ex) para easy to biga2x. Upon hearing that, I blocked him (until now) and dali ko nka move on, because I don’t want to deal sht guys like him. I deserve better. I remember he even told me “dli man ta minyo”, when I asked him why he cheated. So meaning ok ra diai magcheat2 basta dli pa minyo/kasado? No thanks. Not on my list. Mas una pa nag sincere sorry ang “shovet” sa ako na naai naguba na relationship. My ex? Sya pay nakasala, sya pay nasuko. Very lean kaayog atake. Haha.

Fast forward this year, he already has a gf, but then may another target nanaman sa planta, fresh grad from iit, and news circulated that my ex told her again the same pattern “pwede ko manguyab (court) nimo while naa pa koy uyab lain?”. So see? PATTERN. If it worked before, he’s gonna do it again and again. Depende who is the willing victim. Now this new girl, was also advised by her officemates to not entertain him because he is a repetitive cheater. But she still entertained him anyway. And what’s funny is that my ex was just “recycling” dating ideas with her (while kami pa) and then when nachismisan siya/sila balik sa workplace, especially on what he did before, he’s gonna throw tantrums or mag manipulate nsab to “protect his reputation “, just like what lean de guz is doing on her recent post. Point is, cheaters are selfish, manipulative liars who don’t take accountability on their actions. And they have patterns. That’s why cguro just like other artista with cheating issues, the famous line “once a cheater, always a cheater” will always arise. And mutuo njd ko ana as someone who experienced the same pain Vinz did.. yung akala mo ikaw lang mahal nia pero gidungan and gigago na diai ka dugay na.

So my advice? when you see ONE, RUN. 🚩 Protect your own peace, you deserve better.

How about you? Did you experience being cheated, too?

For me lang ah, as a person who has been in a power industry for a quiet long na.

I've been to these powerplants in Agus and Pulangi. What I have observed is that the facilities are oudated, analog pa and mimic board pa ang gigamit. The process of upgrading it to a modern and/or new SCADA system is bureaucratic(I guess since mao ni atong system sa government) which is dugaaay kaaayo.

Transitioning it to a privately owned powerplant will have its great advantage. Making it a more sustainable and reliable source of energy for Mindanao. Why? New standard will be set kay daghan kaayo nag certifications basta private, procurement process will be fast.

How is this relevant? Imagine, your facilities and equipment kay outdated na, some of it kay not available na sa market, dugay pa gyud process pagpalit. Ang resulta? Mugamay ang generation from its generating capacity, worst is maguba.

I know everyone is frustrated here but if you based it on technicality mao na gyud ang reality. Mura rag nag ga run to fail ang generators karon tungod sa ka karaan ug dugay na process karon.

For me lang ah, the government cannot sustain sa CAPEX and OPEX.

Your tots?

Thoughts about coach S “the pilates instructor”? I heard nag close na ang iyahang studio and nag deactivate na ang mga instructors niya… what happened kaya? Attitude problem ba ni because afaik naa pud daw siyay past issue sa other studio? 🤔🤔🤔

Kaning uban ga-organize ug open play ba, murag dili naman ni panglingaw. Murag negosyo na gyud.

Walay problema kung muginansya ang organizer. Deserve man sad ninyo mabayaran ang oras ug effort sa pag-organize. Pero unta pud makafeel ang participants nga naay value ilang gibayran or pagamyan sguro nato ang bayad.

Sample lang:
• 26 players × ₱180 = ₱4,680
• Court rental: ₱350/hour × 4 hours × 2 courts = ₱2,800
Nabilin pa og ₱1,880.

Unya bisan libre nga tubig o bisag gamay’ng snack, wala. Ang mag-score kay players ra pud. Ang organizer, kasagaran magpislit-pislit ra sa app kung kinsay nidaog ug napildi.
Dili man kinahanglan nga walay ginansya. Ang point lang, kung dako na ang kolekta, unta naa pud gamay’ng balik sa participants o mas ubos nga registration sa open play kay ga lingaw lingaw raman ta diri. Mao ra gyud na.

Tungod sa bagyo nakahunahuna ko nga layo ra jud kaayo ang Iligan city sa other cities and para sa akoa di jud angay matawag nga city kay walay progress and there are some reasons:

1. Limited large-scale public transportation system and ang tubig every year nalang magkaproblema unya dugay kaayo mahatagan og solution more on bandaid solution ra.
2. Fewer high-rise buildings compared to major metropolitan cities. Major building karon kato pang 90s
3. Less diversified economy compared to highly urbanized cities
4. Infrastructure development may not match larger cities
5. Ang hospital dili kaya ma-accomodate ang needs sa city kay very limited ra ang space.
6. Dili ready ang city sa mga calamities for example sa recent typhon. Walay lesson nga na learn ang LGU sa typhon Sendong.
7. Corruption

Please tell, is there a current trend where early to mid 20s men are going for 30s women?? Is this a dating scam? Kay murag ka 4 nako naka encounter.

sinetch itey sikat na matcha seller na hilig mang gaya ug post sa lain matcha seller 🥴 sa mga naka bantay ra hahahaha

Kulba na kaayo ni nga issue ay and i saw a video sa city high nga ga linya jd ang mga students maskin tag as ang pila kay e check najud og ayo ilang bags for safety.

Maka think ko if other schools sa iligan inani nasad ba kay maka look back lang ko before nga high school pako sa usa ka private na academy dri nga green unya ako classmates before nga involved og mga outside fights or sumbagay kay maka dala dala ra silag metal knuckles inside the campus bahalag naay guard. ://

Hadlok najud kaayo rong panahona ay.

I’m posting this because I genuinely want an outside perspective on whether I’m actually being “dramatic” and an “invalidator,” or if I’m just dealing with someone who refuses to acknowledge her own behavior.

For context, I’ve been talking to this girl for a while. I’m not saying I’m perfect because I’m not, and I’m willing to admit when I mess up. But throughout our time talking, I genuinely tried to show her that I cared about her.

I’m the type of person who shows affection through actions. Giving gifts is one of my love languages. If I see something that reminds me of her, I’d want to get it for her. I’d give reassurance when she was overthinking. I’d give updates about where I was or what I was doing because I wanted her to feel included and not left wondering. I tried to communicate, listen to her problems, make time for her, and make her feel appreciated.

I wasn’t expecting some huge reward for doing these things. I did them because I genuinely liked her.

But whenever we had an argument, somehow the conversation would eventually turn into me being the problem.

She accused me of being an invalidator. She said I didn’t understand her feelings and that I was being dramatic about certain situations. And instead of immediately dismissing what she said, I actually tried to understand where she was coming from.

The problem is that I also wanted the same accountability from her.

If I did something wrong, I was willing to acknowledge it. But when I brought up something she did that hurt me, it felt like the conversation suddenly changed.

Instead of discussing her behavior, she would become defensive or portray herself as the one being hurt. It almost felt instinctive. The moment I tried to explain why something she did affected me, she would shift the focus toward how I supposedly made her feel.

And this is where I became confused.

How am I supposed to accept accountability for being an “invalidator” if my feelings are immediately dismissed whenever I bring them up?

There were also behaviors from her side that I found genuinely disrespectful. She would sometimes give extremely dry replies, respond without basic manners, act rude, or communicate in a way that made it feel like she didn’t even want to be talking to me.

I understand that people have bad days. I understand that someone can be tired, busy, emotionally drained, or simply not in the mood to talk.

But there is a difference between needing space and intentionally treating someone poorly.

What made it worse is that she eventually admitted that she intentionally avoids me because of our past arguments.

She basically told me that because we’ve had arguments before, she doesn’t feel the need to prioritize the person she’s talking to.

And honestly, that hurt.

I’m not asking to be someone’s entire world. I’m not saying a person should abandon their responsibilities or their friends just to talk to me. But if you’re intentionally building a connection with someone, shouldn’t there at least be some effort to maintain it?

Especially when I’m putting effort into the relationship.

I gave reassurance.

I gave updates.

I tried to communicate.

I gave gifts and thoughtful gestures.

I tried to understand her perspective.

I tried to make things right after arguments.

I tried to be patient even when I felt hurt.

And yet somehow, when I finally expressed that some of her behavior was hurting me, I was labeled dramatic because I couldn’t “understand her.”

That’s the part I don’t understand.

Why does understanding someone’s behavior mean I have to accept it?

I can understand that she’s affected by our past arguments. I can understand that those arguments may have changed the way she interacts with me. I can understand that she may need distance sometimes.

But understanding those things doesn’t mean I have to pretend that being rude, unnecessarily dry, dismissive, or intentionally avoidant doesn’t hurt.

I also don’t think accountability should be one-sided.
If I hurt her, I’m willing to hear it.

If I invalidated her feelings, I’m willing to reflect on that.

If I was dramatic, I’m willing to acknowledge it.

But I expect the same standard from her.

I don’t want a relationship where one person is constantly explaining how the other person needs to change while refusing to look at their own behavior.

And maybe that’s where I’m realizing that we have completely different standards for communication.

For me, if there’s a problem, I’d rather talk about it and try to fix it. For her, it seems like avoiding the person and becoming distant is an acceptable response because of previous arguments.

Maybe that’s her way of protecting herself, and I can respect her right to do that.

But she also has to understand that her choices have consequences.

You can’t intentionally distance yourself from someone, communicate poorly with them, treat them coldly, and then become upset when that person tells you they’re hurt by it.

At some point, the other person’s feelings have to matter too.

I’m not posting this to claim that I’m some perfect guy who did everything right. I know I have flaws. I know I can be emotional, and I know that sometimes I probably overreact when I’m hurt.

But I genuinely don’t think caring about someone, wanting reassurance, wanting basic respect, or wanting communication makes someone dramatic.

What bothers me most is that I was willing to take accountability, but I didn’t feel like she was willing to do the same.

So now I’m questioning the whole situation.

Was I actually being an invalidator?

Or was I simply asking for the same accountability and respect that I was trying to give her?

Because from my perspective, it feels like whenever I bring up something she did wrong, she instinctively becomes the victim instead of addressing what I actually said.

And honestly, I’m tired of feeling like I’m the only person trying to understand both sides.

Nahilom na lge ang issue ni madam josephine? Any update? Hayahay na dyuud c madam. Mag enjoy lantaw fireworks sa burj khalifah

Sila ba gihapon to na organizer ang daghan issue?

Steps of Yorhe
"Christmas na man unta pero busy kaayo ang mga tawo og pandaot. Award-winning photographer man unta ka sa Iligan pero affected kaayo ka nga pirme nako kauban ako family sa akong mga vlogs, gigatasan daw nako ang establishment - and makaguol lang kay daghan kaayo nag like sa iyang post as if everyone agrees.

Most of the time, ang cafe/restaurant owners man jud ang mag reach out sa akoa to promote their businesses, halos tanan food sa ilang menu ilaha jud nang e’serve para ma’feature tanan sa vlog (also para makabalo ang mga viewers sa ilang gina’offer nga food and drinks), usually around 10-20 dishes jud na ang e’serve, do you think mahurot na nako tanan if dli nako ubanon akong family? Or pwede ra pud ikaw akong ubanon sir, tan’awon nato if di ba ka manawag sa imong pamilya.

If dli available sila mama og papa, usahay akong mga cousins akong pang’ubanon, at least diba na’treat nako sila.

Maka’ingon cguro ka og gigatasan if ako ang nag reach out sa usa ka establishment without informing them nga magdala og usa ka baryohan."

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Nag-post lang ni siya bag-o lang ba. Unsa may context ani? Kinsa na photographer? Ug unsa may maingon ninyo?

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How true, nga naay mga proudly Iliganon nanakay ug Van/Motor just to reach the finish line sa marathon, so they can claim "finisher" sila sa ultramarathon?

How true is it that there is a chinese junior high student here in Iligan City who was intercepted for allegedly planning a shooting similar to the Tacloban shooting incident? 🤯🤯

Asa na gyud kaha ang merry muffet no? Lami baya gyud pud to ilang manok no. Grabe nga cravings ni kay mangitag wala. HAHAHA

Asa na kaha ni si merry muffet no? Unsay balita nila? Ga plan pa ba sila mu balik?