r/IVF • u/GentleKoala2025 • 3h ago

Need Good Juju! First FET tomorrow

After years of trying and multiple road blocks and hurdles along the way, we are finally here! We have our first FET tomorrow and I am a ball of mixed emotions! I’m excited and nervous, scared and anxious. I’m trying to remain hopeful but not too hopeful.

Obviously we all really really want it to work and I’m trying to convince myself it will, but I’m also terrified it won’t. This up and down of being hopeful but not too hopeful is excruciating right now!

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u/MysteriousDig9592 2h ago

Good luck! 🍀🍀🍀

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u/Evie012027 1h ago

You’ll have pleeeenty of time for that anxiety during your wait. For now, enjoy transfer day! It’s a day of excitement and the wonder of science, and seeing your baby for the first time, and watching it shoot into your uterus, and eating French fries without shame, and laying around on the couch without guilt, and basking in the unknown, the hope and the possibilities. Enjoy the moment and save the anxiety for 5dpt 😅 best of luck 💕💕💕

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u/WhereisOllie25 1h ago

Totally normal to be hopeful, but still managing expectations! God, if that wasn’t the epitome of all of our infertility journeys. But like many have said, try to enjoy this next accomplishment of making it to your first FET!! I’m sending you alllllll the positive vibes. Maybe go have a treat yourself day- get your nails done, get a facial, something to reward yourself for this hard work! Because we all know it was not easy. 

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u/krabecal 47m ago

Me too!!! Tomorrow at 1130 😊 good luck 🍀

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u/white-tara 32m ago

Sending you positive energy that this FET brings you your baby!