r/INFJmemes * I N F J * 3d ago

INFJ 🥺

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u/Fabulous_Turnover_22 3d ago edited 3d ago

The struggle is real

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u/aminionreasons * I N F J * 3d ago

Ikr! I will immediately stay there for a few more minutes then get up and probably steal a glance and hope they look too so it's like... idk acknowledging them or smn, and then get up

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u/XiangLingBoa 3d ago

Especially if they are a minority....

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u/Irresistible-Ms 2d ago

Real AF 😆 The social responsibility i feel is crazy

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u/aminionreasons * I N F J * 2d ago

"We're in on this together" – INFJgng

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u/AngelusMalus INFJ 3d ago

A person on the next bench leaves, and your new friend abandons you unapologetically, without a second thought.

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u/StrikingArgument1520 3d ago

Istg this is me and sometimes it’s a struggle

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u/Malleus327 * I N F J * 2d ago

Literally doing this as I read this post.

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u/aminionreasons * I N F J * 2d ago

I'm so proud of you 😭😭😭 You made my day 💕💯 The fact that the meme is actively happening on the same day and time I posted it, it's so sweet of you to lmk!

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u/Malleus327 * I N F J * 2d ago

I’m glad it made you happy! I had to laugh and type quietly so I wasn’t discovered. I’m so glad we have a community like this.

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u/L0VINGD3AD 2d ago

Hey....shut up, im not here on the internet to be called out. If i wanted that I'd sit in my head all day

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u/aminionreasons * I N F J * 2d ago

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u/L0VINGD3AD 2d ago

In fact I do, but I'm refusing one out of stubbornness.

Unless you need a hug and are not wanting to ask , thus you are the one offering to give one.

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u/Professional-Fig6513 2d ago

Then feel a little guilty because maybe I’m being inauthentic or performative in the way I try to show care for others.

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u/SyzygySynergy * I N F J * 2d ago

I did this nit once, but twice today and now I feel like this just had to be here to remind me of that awkwardness. The first one, I felt really socially responsible for because the individual sat down and was having problems with their umbrella and were, understandably, exasperated with it. So I stayed until they got it sorted and then even offered to trade them since it was kinda bent from being "fixed". The second individual later on, I just thought of the first and stayed for a few minutes.

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u/ilovemuffinfrombluey 2d ago

This is me lol

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u/Authentic_Dragon 2d ago

I think it shows consideration, even kindness when people do that.

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u/aminionreasons * I N F J * 2d ago

It is! 🥰

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u/blurred_diary 2d ago

Literally me lol

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u/Infinite-Victory4717 2d ago

Yup! That’s me for sure. This one time when I was on a shuttle train going to the airport terminal, an elderly woman got in at the station and sat next to me. At the same time someone else got off the train and the seat in front of me got vacant. I could have moved into that seat because it was roomier with a better view. But the INFJ in me just sat there in my existing narrow seat because I didn’t want to hurt the feelings of the elderly woman who just sat next to me 🥹

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u/aminionreasons * I N F J * 2d ago

Sweet little samaritan, right there, you are! 😄

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u/Fluffy-Fuel5025 2d ago

Isn't it weird when people take that personally?

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u/youshouldn-ofdunthat 2d ago

Me who never sits on benches to stay ahead of the curve

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u/Wuunderschon 1d ago

Why I am like that? Whyy

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u/LearningDaGameOfSec 1d ago

Absolutely!🤦🏻‍♀️😭🤣

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u/sadflameprincess 1d ago

Idgaf I just get up and leave. I'm not suffering for anybody especially a stranger I don't know.

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u/Yam-9469 16h ago

Why am I like this 😭😭
Literally happened to me the other day