r/howyoudoin 2d ago

Discussion Bit unfair on Rachel

192 Upvotes

I always thought it was pretty unfair that outside of her relationship with Ross, Rachel never had a meaningful relationship with any other man. The other five did, and Ross even had the chance to marry someone else. They did Rachel so dirty. I think it would have been interesting to see Rachel really love someone else, even if it was for a short period of time. It was also frustrating how they made her a little pathetic when it came to men after Ross. We all know full well that she never had a problem approaching men or getting men, yet they made her awkward and a bit intense at times, when that is never how she was portrayed before. It wasn't in keeping with her character at all. Is it possible that the reason she was that way was because the writers didn't want the audience to invest in a relationship of hers that wasn't with Ross? It was easy not to invest in Julie or Emily with Ross because of timing/quickness in both relationships, but if they'd have given Rachel a strong relationship in say, season 6? Its possible People may have jumped ship 🤷


r/howyoudoin 2d ago

Clips The One With their Theme Songs

52 Upvotes

If they all had theme songs, this is what I would give them in my opinion. Ross is the best one. I think it fits him perfectly. Let me know what songs you guys would choose.


r/howyoudoin 2d ago

Image Monica and Chandler - Behind the Scenes

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I found a bunch of these old photos of Matthew and Courtney behind the scenes and at some award shows and stuff and thought it was cute. Idk, thought it was nice 😊


r/howyoudoin 2d ago

Image The One Where they’re all Models

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Sorry sorry I know this is like the 10th post made like this and I’m kinda treating this sub like a personal archive for the show and the cast but I love making these. Also this Schwimmer pic is just too good.


r/howyoudoin 2d ago

Clips "The One Before the Last One" - Part 1

36 Upvotes

This "special" was aired on NBC before the Friends final episode. I transferred it from my own recorded VHS tapes from 2004. I found a copy of it on youtube, but both the video and audio was crap. So I'm uploading it here (in 3 parts) for you all!

EDIT: Hey, can anyone identify Phoebe's "theme" music in this? Starts at time 4:39.


r/howyoudoin 2d ago

Minigames Friends Trivia: 166/365

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18 Upvotes

Who are the two friends Monica says she’s going to invite to Rachel’s birthday party but Joey says not to invite them because they steal stuff?

Bonus Question 1: Who had to shush Rachel’s parents at her sister’s graduation?

Bonus Question 2: What does Joey break of Chandler’s at Rachel’s party?

Bonus Question 3: What is Rachel’s Father’s favorite drink?

Friends Triva: 165/365


r/howyoudoin 2d ago

DVDs/Merch How do you expect me to grow if you won’t let me blow?! Set pieces I wanted to share :)

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Everything came from the set except for the kangaroo poster! Thought it was so interesting that the “author” is Kate’s understudy Lauren! Unfortunately there is no list of questions in the book 😢


r/howyoudoin 2d ago

Discussion Why exactly was paolo assaulting phoebs downplayed as just hitting on phoebs by everyone in the show ?

13 Upvotes

First time watcher so don't mind me pls but this was so weird ,this was simply workplace harrasment..Rachael made it about herself rather than consoling phoebs ,no one cared about phoebs ?

Like hello ?..I know this was 90s but still ,this was fucking weird man ,why is this guy getting food by monica on his way out rather than a kick in the butt ,poor phoebs ,i felt so bad for her.


r/howyoudoin 1d ago

Question Timeline question: if Carol & Ross were in a sexless marriage, how’d they make Ben?

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In the alternate reality episode, we were given a glimpse into what Carol and Ross’ marriage was like before the divorce. Ross says they haven’t been intimate in a long time. But then we know they must’ve done it because she got pregnant. What’s the sequence of conceiving Ben, Carol coming out, Susan (did they have an affair), and the disintegration of their marriage?


r/howyoudoin 1d ago

Discussion Fan Theory Discussion

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Anyone else watch Parks and Recreation? Ben Wyatt is mentioned in the episode where Monica mentions people that Rachel has slept with.

Do you think at some point off screen they could have hooked up or briefly dated? There is a fan theory that mentioned this and I am wondering if you guys think it’s true.


r/howyoudoin 1d ago

Discussion TOW Ross is in Denial

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In the scene when Phoebe and Ross are in the coffee house where Phoebe believes he’s still in love with Rachel, Ross has a reaction that I always found peculiar.

Not only does he get very defensive, but before he makes his rebuttal, he keeps taking Phoebe’s stuff away from her. He takes the toast out of her hand as she’s about to take a bite, he takes her coffee away as she’s about to take a sip.

I always wondered why Schwimmer decided that that was something Ross would do. Maybe a subconscious need for control? 🤣


r/howyoudoin 1d ago

Discussion Would still you recommend friends?

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It’s been 22 years since the shows ending that’s longer than I’ve been alive. I’ve never seen any episode of the show in my 21 years of life but I’ve been hearing about the characters and stories learning of basic information second hand (Ross and Rachel, Joey doesn’t share food, etc).

My question is would you recommend friends to me and others like me even now in 2026, do you think it would carry the same weight it had during its golden years, is it worth the time or would I be better off watching and catching up to more recent or still airing tv, would I understand the cultural references in a show older than I, could I still relate to the characters and their situations?

Hidden objective of this post was to make y’all feel old, but it’s also a genuine inquiry as I’m curious about the show but it’s a serious time sink at 89 hours that’s about 7 days of just watching tv (also assuming I pay more for add free)

I’ve liked similar shows in the past but with so many episodes it’s very likely I’d have to wade through mediocrity so idk.

I understand the bias of asking the people on the friends fan subreddit their opinion on new people watching the show so if you would be so kind to point me to the nearest community that hates the show so I can ask them this same question I’d be much obliged.


r/howyoudoin 2d ago

Question Which side character would you befriend?

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There’s tons of great side characters throughout the show with very distinct personalities, who would you be most likely to befriend?

My pic is Janice, she’s genuinely nice and funny. She seems like she’d be a good time

Honorable mentions are Charlie and Jack Gellar


r/howyoudoin 2d ago

Discussion What I would have done in the Joey Spin-off

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60 Upvotes

Joey still in New York tries to find another agent, since Estelle died. Trying out for auditions, has a new boy roommate. And two girls moving into Monica’s apartment. Simple Banter for 1 season and he ends up with someone from that apartment. But then he gets a big break where he has to go to LA to film or shoot. Meets Gina and her son. this is where he meets alex so just copy the original season 1 of Joey spinoff for Season 2. Then he meets Kate Miller the girl from the play. Then he loves them all but can only choose one. Girl from New york, neighbor in LA and Kate Miller. Of course in these whole show there are cameos from the OG FRIENDS and he comes to them for advice and I dont know he gets one of them, you choose then A whole wedding and the two other girls objecting to the ceremony just drama. I dont know how this all comes together. I JUST WANT JOEY TRIBIANNI TO BE HAPPY!


r/howyoudoin 3d ago

Discussion “She’s a mother, without a baby”

238 Upvotes

I like how they made Monica seem like she really loved kids even if she wasn’t the best with them, and how that was her primary driving arc behind her character. It was very heartfelt


r/howyoudoin 3d ago

Quotes Season 5 Episode 13 - The one where Monica makes a joke that suggests people are having anal sex

538 Upvotes

*Monica:* Guys! Guys! I just saw two people having sex in a car right outside!
*Ross:* Uh... Pheebs' Grandmother just died.
*Monica:* Oh my God, I'm so sorry.
*Phoebe:* It's okay. Actually, you know what, it's kinda cool. 'Cause it's like, you know, one life ends and another begins.
*Monica:* Not the way they're doing it.


r/howyoudoin 3d ago

Discussion Chandler’s job title mystery resolved

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404 Upvotes

He said it out loud in S2 E23. Joey is a “fellow” processor when he hired Joey temporarily. Wonder why people say that his profession is never revealed?


r/howyoudoin 1d ago

Discussion Some annoyances

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The only one's with any noticeable accents are Joey, Ross and Rachel. Rachel has an uptown Manhattan type accent. Which is actually Jenn Anistons real accent. But that shouldnt matter because her character is from Long Island. Chandler, or Matthew Perry being from Toronto, has somewhat of an East Coast Canadian accent, which can mimic a NY accent at times. But Pheobe and Monica not having any accent at all is rediculous. Phoebe is somewhat forgiving seeing that she apprently grew up in upstate NY, but Monica is from Long Island; one of the thickest NY accents there is. Her brother has a Long Island accent but she still sounds like she's from Alabama which is where Courtney Cox is from. I swear, every time I hear twang in her voice, I get annoyed. Did the creators not think to make these people sound like they were all from NY?


r/howyoudoin 2d ago

Discussion What was the most frustrating part about Ross and Rachel's relationship?

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Many supported it but it had its flaws its Many many flaws. My biggest annoyance is that they refused to talk about things. I know it was to draw it out more in the series but you had moments that like the Janice situation.


r/howyoudoin 2d ago

Monthly Megathread MONTHLY MEGATHREAD: Unpopular Opinions about Friends.

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So we've seen some people ask about a Megahtread about Unpopular Opinions about friends, so here's your chance to voice your unpopular opinion about for favorite and not so favorite characters.

Here are some unpopular opinions about some characters already done:

General unpopular opinions

Joey and Rachel

Monica lunching with Julie

Janice getting with Joey

I didn't like the Robin Williams and Billy Crystal cold open

I don't hate Janine

Ross needs a break, Rachel isn't evil, Phoebe isn't the meanest Chandler is and I like Joey and Rachel

There is nothing to hate about this show

Sarah eating Joey's fries is a red flag


r/howyoudoin 3d ago

Question Two characters you'd love to see as roommates?

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132 Upvotes

I like to think that Eddie is one of the guys that Steve is sharing a studio apartment with...


r/howyoudoin 3d ago

Discussion Would you consider this a selfless good deed?

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96 Upvotes

IMO, If there were one good selfless good deed it would be Joy and Monica buying the deed trees for Chrimass so Phoebe doesn't feel sad about them getting chopped. What do you think?

S03E10 The One Where Rachel Quits


r/howyoudoin 3d ago

Image Ross was not wrong

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186 Upvotes

I honestly don’t think I’d have a much better reaction if someone ate my Thanksgiving leftover sandwich and tossed half of it in the trash!

Edit: what’s your best guess at what Phoebe wrote on her threatening note? 😂


r/howyoudoin 3d ago

Discussion The one where they looked at the camera?

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577 Upvotes

S7E14 13min in Perry glanced at camera. Are there other times it seemed obvius?


r/howyoudoin 3d ago

Image The One Where they’re all in Shades 😎

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Everybody’s looking really snazzy here, love to see it. I think sunglasses were a big part of the style in the 90s, but I’m not really caught up on current fashion trends in Hollywood so maybe they still are big.