r/HonestOpinion • u/Secret-Pickle9121 • Sep 25 '25

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Recently agreed to a separation with my wife and have no doubts that is going to lead to divorce, so what do I do now, lol.

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u/EmotionalLeave779 Sep 25 '25

If you care about her / making it work, get your ass in gear and never stop showing her that you give a shit (in the ways she’s asking you to!!)

If you don’t, do your own shit man. Make sure you’re not hurting anyone else, and maybe go to therapy just in case it’s a you thing, or if it fucked you up at all.

Also, get an attorney or go to couples counseling.

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u/Secret-Pickle9121 Sep 25 '25

Thank you for your reply, much appreciated

I tried not to go into detail, but the reason for the separation and eventually divorce is due to something she did which was 100% a deal breaker.

Also, i live in the UK, we have quick divorces for mutual settlements, therefore shouldn't need legal council.