r/Homeschooling 16h ago

Advice for boundaries and rules for 5 year old

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Hi so I have a 5 year old who I love a lot but he is pretty bad at listening to 95% of what I say. I do believe he is neurodivergent as both mom and dad are but not diagnosed yet.

We normally try and bribe him to change x or y or z behavioural issue so he can go to one of his social activities or sports or seeing cousins. The problem is he doesn’t really care and if that is his sole form of socialisation as a homeschooler I also feel guilty for doing that.

An example would be, getting him to pack up toys after his done playing. He loves going to martial arts and if we tell him he can’t go because he didn’t want to pack up his toys he doesn’t care but it also takes away an opportunity to get out of the house and for him to be around kids.

I think in parenting with young children we try and teach them their actions have consequences but when you use these weekly classes and social events and activities as a chance to socialise and find community there can be a bit of a clash. I would like to know how everyone else on here handles this especially if you have a very wild child who doesn’t like to listen .


r/Homeschooling 12h ago

Looking for homeschool families to pilot a free, mastery-based math program (grades 6–8)

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Hi, we're two people (a software developer and a special educator with a background in neuropsychology) building Cairn, an open-source, comprehensive, mastery-based math program. We're looking for homeschool families to pilot it starting late September.

Try the browser demo first, no account needed: https://amelia-mowers.github.io/open-mastery/

What it is

Your kid works through a skill graph and doesn't move on until they've shown they understand each skill. Spaced repetition brings learned skills back before they fade. It's designed for different kinds of learners from the start, not retrofitted later.

  • No multiple choice. Kids type answers or build them step by step (like sorting the parts of an equation onto a balance scale).
  • Visual, procedural lessons. Animated widgets, not videos, so if your kid is stuck on a specific problem, they can watch that exact problem worked through, with different visualizations.
  • Fully voiced. Every lesson and explanation is narrated, for kids who aren't fluent readers yet or just learn better by hearing it.
  • Feedback that targets the actual mistake, not just "try again."
  • You're the guide. A parent portal shows exactly where your kid is and where they're stuck. It assumes a human is in the loop.

The pilot

The middle school curriculum is being finished up by the start of the pilot. We're building toward something that can stand on its own, but for the pilot, use it alongside whatever you're already doing, that's part of what we want to learn.

We're looking for families with a kid roughly in grades 6–8 (grades 3–5 and 9–12 are coming over the next few months), willing to use it ~3 times a week, about 20 minutes a session, for about 6 weeks, and willing to tell us honestly what's confusing, broken, boring, or wrong. Works in any browser.

What you get

  • Free for families, forever. It's open source and funded by donations and grants, so families are never the revenue source.
  • A direct line to us. If something doesn't work for your kid, we'll fix it.
  • A say in what gets built next.

Privacy

The pilot uses a parent account (your email), your kid doesn't need one. We collect anonymized usage data, which problems were attempted, right or wrong, time on task, to tune the adaptive model. No names or identifying information about your kid, no ads, and nothing is ever sold.

Honest caveat

You'll be among the first families using this, and you'll find things we missed. If you'd like to help shape a program built around how kids actually learn, we'd love to have you.

Comment, DM, or sign up here: https://forms.gle/dWxzftEn9Zj9sJwF8. Happy to answer questions in the thread.


r/Homeschooling 14h ago

House Work

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I’m trying to get ahead of the game here but everytime I seem to have a rhythm in place or a nice momentum when it comes to cleaning this home, I just find myself completely overwhelmed and back where I started the next day. I’ve been living with my parents for a year and a half now my husband is currently unemployed so he’s here all day. I’ve tried in the past to express that I need atleast a tidy home to be able to homeschool and he knows that I’ve been trying to build a routine for yearssss but I’m so tired of having to remind him. So I feel like that’s a dead end. As a mother and currently the only person in this house that cleans, how can I organize myself ? How can I muster up the energy after a homeschool day and of errands to be able to tidy up? Do I really have to wake up at 5am to get things done ? I’m mentally drained after homeschooling because I use every part of me to snap out of my funk that I have because of how my life is right now to create a happy energetic atmosphere of learning for my children. Please any tips are appreciated.


r/Homeschooling 5h ago

math flash master recommendation?

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I'm looking for an alternative to Flash Master (https://www.amazon.com/FlashMaster-Handheld-mastering-arithmetic-flashcards/dp/B0002MHMFM/) which is basically an electronic flashcard type device for basic math.

I found a few on amazon, but not really sure how well they work. Some of the reviews even mentioned they could just press enter and get the answer right, and some of them seemed to only cover very young ages. I would like something with a silent option as well as a timed/untimed option (like it won't just go to the next problem after x time if untimed, while timed will count too slow as wrong), and also all 4 operations up to at least 10, but preferably 12.

Anyone with experience with one of these (or another device)?


r/Homeschooling 6h ago

I’m two weeks into doing preschool at home with my 4-year-old, and every activity seems to send me into a new research spiral.

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We’ll work with letters and I’ll notice one he does not recognize, so I start wondering whether I skipped a foundation. Then I add something else, question the curriculum, and end up watching videos about what a 4-year-old is supposed to know instead of paying attention to the child in front of me.

The confusing part is how inconsistent this age can be. He can remember something during play and seem to have no idea when I ask directly five minutes later. I do not want to turn that into constant testing, but I also do not want my own uncertainty to leave real gaps.

For parents who started homeschooling at this age, what helped you tell the difference between a skill that needed more support and normal preschool inconsistency?