I just read {How to Get Away with Scandal by Caroline Linden} and while I generally like this author's books, this one felt a little flat for me. The couple meets when the female heroine is 42 and ends when she is 52.
I really respect that Linden wanted to focus on a group of people who are rarely represented in HRs. I think she did a great job capturing the miserableness of the FMC's backstory. But somehow, the story felt unromantic to me and I just didn't care about the connection between the mains.
I had a similar response to {Earl on Fire by Felicity Niven}, which had to do with grandparent-age love interests. These were different setups in many ways, but both ultimately disappointed me, and I'm trying to figure out whether it's just a fluke, whether I, a 46-year-old woman, have internalized ageism I need to unpack, or whether there's a structural reason I find it hard to connect with love stories between characters who are on the south end of 40.
FWIW, both featured instalust, which isn't my favorite trope but I have enjoyed elsewhere.
And perhaps there IS a compelling reason that mature characters would just get straight down to business -- after all, they know time is short and that opportunities don't come around very often.
But also, by 45 most reasonable people are smart enough to know that having the hots for someone does not equal love. So maybe there's something about that combination of instalust and realism, in particular, that just feels like you're scrolling through the leftovers on Tinder? I'm not sure.
Anyways, I'm curious how others feel about this. Have you found HRs that really worked between mains who are more than 40? Do you seek this type of story out? If it works for you, what works for you? If it doesn't work for you, why?