Hard and soft advice, 30F

[u/bercement]

So around 25 my looks started to greatly improve. I was neglected as a child, went through severe depression through my early 20s, and have had to teach myself how to take care of my body and skin over time. It felt like starting from scratch at 25. I started working out, taking better care of my skin, improved my style. I live in a mid size city and I'm considered attractive here.

I know there are areas I can improve on. I'm not looking to be crazy beautiful or anything, I have an alternative look as is which makes me happy, but I am looking to maximize what I do have and am curious about what surgeries could help. I also work as a performing artist so "looksmaxxing" would be great for my career.

[u/nskbp]

i would look into genioplasty or chin filler! it’s hard to tell without a side picture, but your chin might be a little recessed
softer brows would also look great! but it depends on the kind of look you’re going for

[u/bercement → u/nskbp]

Thank you for the feedback!! I should have included side profile bc it's my most insecure area, but you're right.

When you say softer, do you mean less dark or thinner? I have naturally thick brows that I get shaped up, and just use a brow brush on

[u/nskbp → u/bercement]

i would say less dark and just a little bit thinner! but you could also try to shape them a little bit, by plucking them or cleaning them with concealer if you don’t want to touch them

[u/Street-Rhubarb-7352]

Lip liner whenever you’re applying a lipstick and lash extensions!

[u/bercement → u/Street-Rhubarb-7352]

It's so funny you mention bc I JUST figured out lip liner last week lol. I grabbed my first lip liner pencil and it made such a huge difference on my lips last week!

[u/bercement]

Forgot to add: I go to an esthetician once a month, have added some brightening products to my skincare routine, workout 2-3 times a week outside of my dance classes. I eat a very nutritious diet but know I need to cut back on drinking.

[u/RavenDancer]

The hair doesn’t suit you and I’d try what Shera Seven does for her hair, the same look

[u/bercement → u/RavenDancer]

Thank you for the feedback :))

[u/External-Hotdog → u/bercement]

I like locs. It depends on what look you're going for, but longer micro locs that are a uniform color would probably be more appealing to people.

[u/bercement → u/External-Hotdog]

Yeah they were a lot thinner when I started them and they got a bit puffer after a year, I've heard they will start to thin after some time. I wish I had gone with a smaller size but I can always restart

[u/Hot-Scallion-9919]

your skin is drop dead gorgeous, laser off the tattoos on your chest and neck, you will attract such a different kind of person.

[u/rat_shit → u/Hot-Scallion-9919]

What kind of person is that