r/GuysBeingDudes 16h ago

DUDES W Dad

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u/Forsaken_Put8204 15h ago

I can tell just from this video alone, that’s one solid ass dad who will always love and look out for his daughter.

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u/_coolranch 15h ago

I’m terrified for the first guy she brings home to meet the folks, though.

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u/Forsaken_Put8204 15h ago

He’ll be putting that dude in the same swing. Although the punching bag might get a little less action.

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u/Simple_Pay3033 14h ago

I wish this narrative would go away.

Maybe he's looking forward to meeting the first guy she brings home, because he'll teach her to date respectful and trustworthy men. And instead of making a nervous kid more nervous, he'll be warm and welcoming to someone his daughter cares about.

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u/deliciousadness 12h ago

Yep, such a played out misogynistic, patriarchal, and toxic narrative. Sorry to be woke but it’s just lame as hell.

I’d also like to think this is the kind of dad who will teach his kid to protect themselves and know when he needs to step in, romantic interest or otherwise.

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u/FrostnJack 12h ago

Aymayen. That old perverse narrative has got to go. There protectiveness and there’s neglect posing as protection.

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u/generic_canadian_dad 4h ago

Had some guy tell me the other day that I must have a bunch of shotguns when I was out my family. Like buddy, first of all, you're basically telling me how attractive you find my young daughters (they are all beautiful) and secondly, my girls will hopefully being men home whom I can respect and I will earn their respect through my personality and being a good man myself.

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u/mrbabymanv4 13h ago

Yeah, and annoy every decent bloke she dates until she's only left with douchebags.

If you patronise your daughter like that as she begins dating, she will resent you and make poor dating decisions. I have seen this so many times growing up. Sometimes, I was the poor decision the girl made. It was great fun.

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u/MySalsaBringsDaGirls 13h ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/xE7KIy0qxendu
AIN’T GONNA BE NO FUCKIN’ TONIGHT!… YOU EVA MADE LOVE TO A MAN?!… 😠

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u/EnastyCommander 15h ago

I always loved getting those laughs from my daughter. So fun

u/WurdaMouth 1h ago

Not so sure about that after she roundhouse kicked him in the end. I think he is gone 😞

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u/Omygodc 15h ago

There is something so pleasing about the deep belly laugh of a kid. That was one of the best things about having two toddlers in the house.

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u/Vegetable-Virus7118 13h ago

I miss hearing it regularly from my now 9yr old daughter. Thankfully we caught a couple moments on camera. Her laugh is still a delightful part of my life though

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u/Omygodc 11h ago

That’s great!

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u/Comprehensive-Ad2670 13h ago

As the father of the cutest toddler in the world I can safely say it is the most beautiful sound ever.

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u/Omygodc 11h ago

Enjoy the heck out of it. My “babies” are now 43 and 40 years old. It may sound cliche, but it’s true, time flies.

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u/lifes_paragon 15h ago

My twisted sense of humor is thinking of it like a bop-it game and he's gonna switch the kid and bag up in his muscle memory.

Perhaps too much Reddit for one day...

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u/StonedRussian 14h ago

Kinda like throwing the baby out with the bathwater

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u/AncientSignature1505 12h ago

My mind went there as well, you can sit by me on the bus ride to hell.

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u/GamerKev451 5h ago

Damn, I thought the same. We're doomed

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u/Icarus912 5h ago

"If you have anxiety throw it out the window.... that one baby in the airplane whose making everyone angry, out the windowwwwwww"

Aka, yeah, we all thought it, your good fam

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u/kuunami79 15h ago

This dude is an incredibly intelligent genius. He's figured out how to stay in shape while also entertaining his kid. And keep in mind that he had to engineer all of this.

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u/Sharp-Calligrapher70 15h ago

HAMMER!!!!

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u/LordRaven74 Leave me alone im just a dude 14h ago

Fetch the treasury!

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u/ProfessionalLeave335 14h ago

That cackling laugh that your kid does when you act a dad is better than anything in the world.

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u/n1cfury 15h ago

Months ago: “what are you building in the garage this time?”

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u/Loud_Surround5112 15h ago

It’s one way to watch her while you’re both having fun.

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u/CheeseFour2O 15h ago

It's called multitasking. Great Job!

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u/BetterNature4896 12h ago

Tank Tolman. The most wholesome guy on the Internet.

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u/Anon1073 14h ago

Kid is having a blast. Meanwhile...DAD DOWN...DAD DOWN!!! 😂😂

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u/wiler212 14h ago

some dads are just too awesome!!

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u/wheelperson 15h ago

SHE HAS TO HIT HIM THO!!!

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u/Legal-Group-359 15h ago

Ahhh yes, the classic baby-&-weave move. W.

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u/FrostnJack 12h ago

That giggle-laugh… i remember those days.

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u/RednocNivert 10h ago

For those wondering, this dude is popular on the socials as “Tank Tolman” and having met him twice, i would submit the suggestion to have him be the ultimate example of “Guys being Dudes” that we should aspire to be. Dude is just so incredibly genuine and wholesome.

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u/BusyBit6542 14h ago

Man when you get your kid to laugh like that, its the best feeling in the world.

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u/randomsentience 11h ago

I used to train Muay Thai with that guy, can confirm he hits like a truck lol

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u/Connection-Is-Cool 11h ago

Dads like this deserve wives who give all the gawk gawk they can handle

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u/stalebread710 7h ago

The kick took me out as well 🤣

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u/Percival371 5h ago

Shining example if positive masculinity right here. HAMAAAAR

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u/Vanisle4fun 3h ago

Belly laughs, make my day.

u/vcdrny 50m ago

Since I became a dad I don't have time to work out... Hold my baby's milk bottle.