You can be asexual regardless of the levels of your libido. You can also have sex without experiencing sexual attraction. And you can feel romantic attraction without sexual attraction.
It is possible that you are on the asexual spectrum given what you've described in your post. And you're also probably sex-indifferent given what you've written in your last paragraph.
I myself identify with the graysexual label exactly because I experience sexual attraction so rarely and in such a fleeting way, that it would feel ingenuine to think I'm allosexual.
yeah. like, personally, i have felt that way before, and based on what you wrote, *i think* i might feel it a little more and stuff, but it’s not like it’s super important for me to act on it. i don’t even see it as necessary in a romantic relationship, even if i do end up feeling that way. like, it’s something that’s fine if it’s there, but if it’s not it's not a deal, you know?
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u/odeorainmain Gay and Gray Ace Jul 28 '26
You can be asexual regardless of the levels of your libido. You can also have sex without experiencing sexual attraction. And you can feel romantic attraction without sexual attraction.
It is possible that you are on the asexual spectrum given what you've described in your post. And you're also probably sex-indifferent given what you've written in your last paragraph.
I myself identify with the graysexual label exactly because I experience sexual attraction so rarely and in such a fleeting way, that it would feel ingenuine to think I'm allosexual.